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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/28/2012 7:47:46 PM

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[...] a Hitachi set on stun. [...]

I lolled.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/28/2012 7:57:07 PM

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How come there have been no guys on here that have said they cum on demand? WHERE ARE THE MENZ?????

Not on demand, which turns me off, but I'm getting closer to achieving mental control over it, starting from zero; such is my curiosity... one thread to ruin it all.

If I figure it out, I'll see whether that and the ejaculation can be seperated from each other, somehow.

Would be a neat party trick, if this place had neat parties.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/28/2012 9:37:52 PM

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Have you heard Master's voice? Oh yes He can make me cum on command. Maybe not instantaneously. But yes a real orgasm. I can orgasm many different ways. Heck I'm cumming right now at work. Just kidding Master. But seriously, my genitals do not have to be involved for me to orgasm. It's usually more intense when they are. But not necessarily more satisfying.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/29/2012 4:24:14 AM

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You see - I dont take guys - especially Male Doms or Masters word for what they think they can get women to do - as Ive stated before, its too easy for women to fake it. And the guys would NEVER KNOW. NEVER.

as I posted before -
In Brewer’s survey, more than 25 percent of women routinely used vocalization to fake it. They did it about 90 percent of the time they realized they would not climax. About 80 percent faked using vocalizations about half the time they were unable to have an orgasm.

Almost 30 years ago, I was living with a guy who was very unhappy that I didn't orgasm with him. Using the vocalizations I'd learned from porn, I started faking with the next guy, and this continued til I met R in 2004. We started with a long distance relationship, and while faking during sex was one thing, I had no inclination to fake over the phone. Plus I felt comfortable telling him how while I could make myself cum in seconds (or however long I wanted it to last) with my Eroscillator, I never got anywhere close with another person.

These days, I give new partners an advisory ahead of time and their different reactions are a very interesting range from relief to taking it as a challenge.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/29/2012 4:42:09 AM

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Can it be done? Absolutely! I've made girls and boys cum by a quick threat or a wee imitation of David Bowie ala Labyrinth. Wasn't trying, it wasn't even a remotely sexual situation. It was just the way they responded to something I said.

I was told "Shh!" by this one guy, who happens to be the one guy I ever had an orgasm for, and that was when it happened. He was around 6,000 - 7,000 miles away, the "Shh!" was typed, I hadn't ever looked into his eyes or heard his voice it was just the way I felt about him, the sort of personality he has and the fact that he had the kind of confidence to believe he could get away with it.

So, yeah, I know it CAN happen. Will it? Mostly, no; especially for women. If a man wants a woman to cum, without direct sexual stimulation of her body, he'd be better off washing dishes when its not his turn or being kind to their children. Or, you know, saying something that is proof he actually listened to how her day was and cared.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 10/30/2012 8:41:29 AM

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I can orgasm on command when hypnotised to but no cum on command. The orgasm quality is different also. It's shallower and less satisfying but on the plus side it can last a lot longer than a natural one and still leaves a person horny.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 11/3/2012 9:52:17 AM

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. . . my genitals do not have to be involved for me to orgasm. It's usually more intense when they are. But not necessarily more satisfying.

As I understand it, the real sex organ is your brain. Stimulate the brain and you get orgasms. Whether it is young men so excited they shoot in their pants during their first sexual encounters or experienced slaves that cum on command, it works the same for guys and girls, young or old. At least that's the way I always understood it.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 11/4/2012 2:23:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama
Plus I felt comfortable telling him how while I could make myself cum in seconds (or however long I wanted it to last) with my Eroscillator, I never got anywhere close with another person.

Just wondering how would you compare the Eroscillator to the hitachi?

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RE: Orgasm by command - 11/4/2012 2:56:28 AM

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Imagines the look on my mothers face when I told her that in order to endorse a product, dr. ruth tested it. Repeatedly.

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RE: Orgasm by command - 3/22/2014 6:47:44 PM

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I just discovered this thread. I have been training my sub to orgasm on my voice command alone. It works, and is tremendously fun. I just wrote a journal article about it.

Not possible for everyone, but with the right connection, the right openness and trust between partners, the eagerness by both to work together to make it happen, and a very highly orgasmic woman it most definitely is.

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