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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/23/2012 8:50:11 AM   
MissKittyDeVine


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Status: offline 		OP, do a search for the thread that Rochsub posted on pro/findommes. Then read it. It was a damn sight more intelligent than the whiny little rant you posted. There is a demand for pro/findommes, and who are you to insist that we (yes, I´m a prodomme) should be banned? Just ignore us, IT´S THAT SIMPLE. Really, we´d be happy if you did.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/23/2012 10:07:43 AM   
AllisonWilder


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Status: offline 		Goodness, is there really a need for all the findomme hate? I agree. Hide the profile and move on. If it's ruining your day because it's offensive in some way, maybe the internet isn't a place you need to be.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/23/2012 12:44:53 PM   
belgiansubmale


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the usefull reply to my question. Much obliged. I'll use that feature, unknown to me.

Greetings,

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/23/2012 1:54:39 PM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		You know, the rants about us are starting to be far more than the "fuck you, pay me" princess posts around here.

OP, there are plenty of people who are into that. Do you think a potential Domme would be interested in seeing your rant fest on the forums? Just food for thought.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/25/2012 4:01:58 PM   
MAINEiacMISTRESS


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ORIGINAL: belgiansubmale

Sigh.... i thought lifestyle was not about money....


Sooo, if a devoted sub of a NON-pro Domme wants to pay for his mistress' new refrigerator, or new set of tires for her car, in your eyes should that then make her ineligible to be on this site? Life COSTS money, and whether you are going to a pro, serving as slave to a non-pro, or are lucky enough to find a GF who is a Dominant, money will USUALLY enter into the lifestyle in one way or another.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/25/2012 4:21:59 PM   
JeffBC


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS
Sooo, if a devoted sub of a NON-pro Domme wants to pay for his mistress' new refrigerator, or new set of tires for her car, in your eyes should that then make her ineligible to be on this site? Life COSTS money, and whether you are going to a pro, serving as slave to a non-pro, or are lucky enough to find a GF who is a Dominant, money will USUALLY enter into the lifestyle in one way or another.

I agree but that's a bit disingenuous don't you think? Yes, money is a part of my marriage because... you know... we need to pay the bills. And yes, being the master and all the money decisions fall to me and all her money is my money yada yada. But money is not a requirement of the relationship. I would not be unfulfilled by Carol if she stopped earning a pay check.

All that being said, the money whining in BDSM is amusing to me. You don't want to pay? Don't. But you're gonna pay up one way or the other. I don't pay for Carol's submission in money... I pay for it in ME. But I definitely pay a great deal to own her. The sour grapes thing is common in mating though. As a species we find courtship & mating to be fairly important. When we find ourselves dealt out of the game we resent it. It's no different than women whining about men who want a HWP partner or a blonde one or one with big breasts or whatever. Nor do I see it as different than vanilla men who complain about women "loving" them for their pay checks.


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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/26/2012 3:42:29 PM   
theRose4U


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

If they are legitimate ly underage, report them immediately. That said, how can you determine that?

The same way other subs do...anyone not interested in them is either underage, fat or fake

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/29/2012 10:11:43 AM   
byejosh


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Status: offline 		I am not worried about paying. I would gladly pay for smothering/ass-worshiping/queening sessions if I could find a pro domme in the Hampton VA area. We seem to suffer from a shortage of pro dommes.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/29/2012 10:20:29 AM   
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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/29/2012 10:20:32 AM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS


quote:

ORIGINAL: belgiansubmale

Sigh.... i thought lifestyle was not about money....


Sooo, if a devoted sub of a NON-pro Domme wants to pay for his mistress' new refrigerator, or new set of tires for her car, in your eyes should that then make her ineligible to be on this site? Life COSTS money, and whether you are going to a pro, serving as slave to a non-pro, or are lucky enough to find a GF who is a Dominant, money will USUALLY enter into the lifestyle in one way or another.


One of my friends made a comment that has stayed with me. She said that male subs want female dominants to look a certain way. "Corsets, thigh high boots, long nails, lingerie, great hair and make up...now go look at how much some of that stuff costs."

If you want someone to have a specific appearance, you shouldn't complain when you're asked to support that appearance.


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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/29/2012 12:08:03 PM   
theRose4U


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ORIGINAL: belgiansubmale

I think one has the right to chose. Why not make a distinction between the two. If you want to pay for it, that is OK, but if you are just looking for a Domme, then I think you should be able to make a choice.

You can make a choice, the same way many of us do when choosing willing educated subs over whiney wanker boys.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/29/2012 1:18:16 PM   
searching4mysir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: belgiansubmale

I think one has the right to chose. Why not make a distinction between the two. If you want to pay for it, that is OK, but if you are just looking for a Domme, then I think you should be able to make a choice.



One DOES have that right to choose, and it is readily available already.

It is called reading the profile and if she mentions an amazon wish list, money or the fact that she is a pro/fin then choosing the hide profile and block profile buttons.

See?? Easy peasy.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/31/2012 12:45:07 PM   
belgiansubmale


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Status: offline 		Let me repeat this again: the 'hide' feature was unknown to me. I now use it and am very pleased with it. So, this thread may be closed. Didn't want to make such a fuzz out of it.

Awfully sorry.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 10/31/2012 4:02:25 PM   
OsideGirl


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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/1/2012 6:14:45 AM   
MissKittyDeVine


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Status: offline 		I'm afraid the damage is already done - people will remember that you posted yet another in the endless line of anti- fin/prodomme rants. Even those who are not pro or findommes themselves get tired of the complaints.

quote:

ORIGINAL: belgiansubmale

Let me repeat this again: the 'hide' feature was unknown to me. I now use it and am very pleased with it. So, this thread may be closed. Didn't want to make such a fuzz out of it.

Awfully sorry.



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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/1/2012 3:36:43 PM   
belgiansubmale


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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/1/2012 4:07:00 PM   
PeonForHer


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Can we make this thread about the topic of 'Can anything new ever be said about this topic'?

Only one important thing that I can think of. This is: men don't generally have *any idea at all* of how insulting it can be for women to be called tarts. That involves a set of standards, and a whole way of seeing the world, that isn't part of men's lives.

To men: do you get why women feel insulted - all the history behind it, what their parents taught them about good girls and bad girls?
To women: do you get why men don't understand why you're insulted? That they just think, "Hey, I have a dick that makes me want to do X. There just *must* be a female around whose vadge makes her want to do the equal and the complement, for fun, and not through gritted teeth and just because of the money!"

Well, whatever: it would be *so* nice to see an end to threads like this, one day, perhaps a thousand years from now, or whatever.

Anything to kill this bloody perennial *tedium*. God, I find this stuff depressing.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/1/2012 11:19:51 PM   
wannapleez


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Status: offline 		OK, without the whiny martyrdom complex of the OP and his follow-up posts, I have a related question.

Does it seem to anyone else that the percentage of pro/fin Dommes has increased lately?

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/2/2012 12:03:03 AM   
fetisheden


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or ask obama on twitter like lindsay lohan.i'm sure he has some extra time


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ORIGINAL: JanahX

Sure - contact your local legislature and file for a petition. Im sure they can get a bill started with enough signatures.



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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/2/2012 6:54:11 AM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: wannapleez

Does it seem to anyone else that the percentage of pro/fin Dommes has increased lately?


Not really. However, I have noticed that there seems to have been an increase in the number of legitimate (i.e. not an African scammer) 19-22 year old princesses.

A few years ago, most of those profiles seemed to be from either Nigeria or Ghana. However, I seldom see profiles from Africa anymore. I also don't see the scammer profiles where English clearly isn't their first language.

These days, most of the findom profiles seem to be from the U.S. It's like someone sent out a message to all the 19 year olds to let them know that they could make money simply by setting up a profile on CollarMe.

So, IMO, the nature of the findoms has changed, but the absolute number of them hasn't changed very much.

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