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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/4/2012 10:23:17 PM

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Sure - contact your local legislature and file for a petition. Im sure they can get a bill started with enough signatures.

lol. this tickled me. i got a new girl crush. i think girl...

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/4/2012 10:42:02 PM

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i'm a fan of everyone's favorite sock puppet as well...her posts tickle me to no end.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/4/2012 10:45:27 PM

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I agree, don't you just love her? :)

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/4/2012 11:30:30 PM

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I choose to have a slave girl.Dominant girls want only $$$ and nothing more.

Perhaps you should be looking for a woman rather than a "girl".

I'am looking for a female between 21 and 27 to say it this way.

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I choose to have a slave girl.Dominant girls want only $$$ and nothing more.

Pffft. Your profile actually says you're looking for both.

I have several Dominant women as friends. While we wouldn't be a match in bed, most are lifestyle. Some are both pro and lifestyle. They've never asked me for a penny.

BTW, you are not looking for a slavegirl. You are not a Master. You're looking for a woman to Top. There's a difference.

Yes it is true that I want both but it is very hard to find the right dominant person.Everything in this lifestyle is new to me.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/5/2012 12:51:11 AM

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Subs/slaves should understand that for women who aren't even in this bdsm lifestyle get turned on by gifts and money. Its literally in majority of our DNA. Shut up and make your goddess happy, if you dont like it, MOVE ON. I looove findom and I love being a sadistic goddess who gets her rocks off by humiliating you and getting a paid bill or two.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/5/2012 1:44:50 AM

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that's called using. There's no sexual desire involved it's just leeching, and that's why the dommes like you aquire terrible slaves to the ones available. Some old balding man buying you gift cards and paying your bills... Your DNA is called being spoiled.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/5/2012 2:04:15 AM

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sorry, hon...it's not using when you give your money willingly. any person who gives their money to someone, or relinquishes control of their finances to get their jollies does so because that's what they want.

are people manipulated? sometimes, sure. but not always.

ETA: i also think there's a difference between the findomme/prodomme thing and providing financial support for a 24/7 TPE slave, both of are being discussed on this thread.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/5/2012 4:52:33 AM

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Subs/slaves should understand that for women who aren't even in this bdsm lifestyle get turned on by gifts and money. Its literally in majority of our DNA. Shut up and make your goddess happy, if you dont like it, MOVE ON. I looove findom and I love being a sadistic goddess who gets her rocks off by humiliating you and getting a paid bill or two.

It's responses like this that give findommes a bad name.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/5/2012 7:09:08 AM

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I thought of something pretty funny..you guys notice that the "fuck you, pay me" princess profiles pop up here around the 1st through the 5th, and the subs complaining out fin dommes pop up around the 5th-15th,lol. I'm thinking they got rinsed and left to hang dry. LOL

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/5/2012 8:51:50 AM

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Hi belgiansubmale/ George.

Pleased to meet you here mate

My ex was my Domme/Top I bought her stuff because it pleased me to please her. She wasn't pro she was just mine for 13 years here's a breakdown on prices of stuff bought (all in sterling)

Basques x 5 or 6 80 quid a pop
Corset 200 quid a throw
Shoes x numerous 50 quid a pair
Stockings numerous 10 quid a pair
Knickers numerous 10 quid a pair
A saddle 200 quid
Crops Paddles etc probably totalling 400 quid
Handcuffs 50 quid a pair
Dresses probably a couple of grand over the years
Pearl necklace over a grand for that one

Now my point is it pleased ME to see her like that so I gets to help pay for it.

Oh I forgot various pairs of combat pants as she filled them beautifully.

So that's why Dommes go pro. his shit costs serious money. Factor in BDSM furniture & premises &there you have it

So here we are in the middle of a recession & cash is tight for Subbies & Dommes alike so get out your toolbox & barter your SKILLS for hers. You will get takers in the pro community.
Remember bartered skills don't go on the books so aren't taxable. Self employed people like this.

Hope that helps George.

All the best.

Pete.

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Sigh.... i thought lifestyle was not about money....

Sooo, if a devoted sub of a NON-pro Domme wants to pay for his mistress' new refrigerator, or new set of tires for her car, in your eyes should that then make her ineligible to be on this site? Life COSTS money, and whether you are going to a pro, serving as slave to a non-pro, or are lucky enough to find a GF who is a Dominant, money will USUALLY enter into the lifestyle in one way or another.

One of my friends made a comment that has stayed with me. She said that male subs want female dominants to look a certain way. "Corsets, thigh high boots, long nails, lingerie, great hair and make up...now go look at how much some of that stuff costs."

If you want someone to have a specific appearance, you shouldn't complain when you're asked to support that appearance.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/5/2012 9:01:34 AM

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Subs/slaves should understand that for women who aren't even in this bdsm lifestyle get turned on by gifts and money. Its literally in majority of our DNA.

I find this offensive. I accept gifts for special occasions. Gifts outside of that make me highly uncomfortable.

Maybe it's because I wasn't raised to feel entitled.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/5/2012 9:03:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: Shutuppigbitch

Subs/slaves should understand that for women who aren't even in this bdsm lifestyle get turned on by gifts and money. Its literally in majority of our DNA. Shut up and make your goddess happy, if you dont like it, MOVE ON. I looove findom and I love being a sadistic goddess who gets her rocks off by humiliating you and getting a paid bill or two.

It's responses like this that give findommes a bad name.

Yup.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/5/2012 9:24:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: Shutuppigbitch

Subs/slaves should understand that for women who aren't even in this bdsm lifestyle get turned on by gifts and money. Its literally in majority of our DNA. Shut up and make your goddess happy, if you dont like it, MOVE ON. I looove findom and I love being a sadistic goddess who gets her rocks off by humiliating you and getting a paid bill or two.

Sigh.

I've been a pretty vocal defender of financial Dommes. But I must say that it's attitudes like yours that probably lead to the frequent "We hate financial Dommes" threads that we see around here.

None of us is your financial sub. We're just a bunch of strangers having a discussion on the internet. So why all of the attitude? Why not address the group in a more civil manner?

I understand that your name is probably meant to attract "pay piggies", but to the rest of us, even that is somewhat offensive.

The attitude is probably part of the role, and it's important to stay "in character" when you're communicating with your clients/customers. But you may want to tone it down when you address the rest of us here in the forum. As far as I can tell, there aren't many (any?) pay piggies participating in this conversation.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/5/2012 9:27:02 AM

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Subs/slaves should understand that for women who aren't even in this bdsm lifestyle get turned on by gifts and money. Its literally in majority of our DNA.

Are you sure? I don't ever recall the discovery of the golddigging parasite gene when they they sequenced the human genome.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/5/2012 10:50:36 AM

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The way she worded it may be turning you off, but most relationships in general are to be mutually symbiotic... otherwise they dont work.Some of us just tend to be receptive to different forms of support... And we're obviously not looking for just love lol

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/5/2012 10:59:08 AM

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The way she worded it may be turning you off, but most relationships in general are to be mutually symbiotic... otherwise they dont work.

Really?

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Some of us just tend to be receptive to different forms of support... And we're obviously not looking for just love lol

Bless your heart.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/5/2012 11:07:19 AM

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You want to love me stef? And yes. You ever had a relationship before? A mother? Father? Sister? boyfriend? lover? Support comes in different forms.

And if you bless my heart, you'd be blessing nothing. It aint there.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/5/2012 11:13:20 AM

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You want to love me stef?

Only on days that don't end in "y".

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And yes. You ever had a relationship before? A mother? Father? Sister? boyfriend? lover? Support comes in different forms.

You are truly wise beyond your years. Have you considered writing a book on relationships? Such remarkable insight needs to be shared with the world.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/5/2012 11:16:31 AM

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I know. I get that a lot. And I have actually, but I like to think of it as common sense and not needed... although you showed otherwise. Perhaps you should get a sub to buy you one.

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RE: Pro dommes or findommes or whatever - 11/5/2012 11:21:23 AM

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Irony, for the win.

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