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ORIGINAL: BlackBikeDom

open attacks = argumentative (from OP) and belligerent (I added)

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ORIGINAL: BlackBikeDom

I'm new here (but not to BDSM)
And I notice that some "submissives" do not appear to be submissives but something else, maybe just a kink ,freak ,masso even maybe switches.
Voicing an opinion is one thing, being argumentative and belligerent is another.

Interesting

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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep


This literally has nothing to do with anything. Congrats on committing one of the most popular internet faux-pas.
Assuming that people who take submissive roles IN THEIR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS will be submissive to random internet Doms or any random person on the street.

SOME people have submissive personalities that leak out into their every day life. Others do not, but they still function as a submissive partner (say it with me, now) IN THEIR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS.

You're not the first self-proclaimed Dom who thinks he knows something about how "twue" submissives behave. Be content to apply whatever standards you like to YOUR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS, but pleeeeease don't be so daft as to assume that every person on earth must follow your standards in THEIR relationships.

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

The OP never said that she openly attacked the Dominant in question and I don't view being argumentative as the same thing as openly attacking. Arguing a point is not an attack.

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ORIGINAL: BlackBikeDom

So, you might disagree with what I say, but there was a character attack on backtracking. And even if you disagree, where is the backtracking.

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repeating my previous post, since you obviously missed it...
quote:



wilful, bratty

...does NOT equal:

quote:

argumentative and belligerent in my thesaurus.

Willful:
Main Entry:


willful  [wil-fuhl] Show IPA



Part of Speech:

adjective



Definition:

stubborn, obstinate



Synonyms:

adamant, bullheaded, contumacious, determined, dogged, fractious, froward, headstrong, inflexible, intractable, intransigent, mulish, obdurate, persistent, pertinacious, perverse, pigheaded, refractory, resolved, self-willed, stiff-necked, uncompromising, unyielding


Brat (no listing for bratty):
Main Entry:


brat  [brat] Show IPA



Part of Speech:

noun



Definition:

spoiled child



Synonyms:

devil*, enfant terrible, holy terror, impudent child, jackanapes, kid, punk*, rascal, unruly child, urchin, whippersnapper, wild one, youngster



SO please do explain how belligerent and argumentative from your first response suddenly becomes quote:

playfull and bratty and all open attacks. in the next response (which ignored my prior one re: thesaurus). Also, please do explain what quote:

and all open attacks.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackBikeDom

I'm new here (but not to BDSM)
And I notice that some "submissives" do not appear to be submissives but something else, maybe just a kink ,freak ,masso even maybe switches.
Voicing an opinion is one thing, being argumentative and belligerent is another.

Interesting

This literally has nothing to do with anything. Congrats on committing one of the most popular internet faux-pas.
Assuming that people who take submissive roles IN THEIR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS will be submissive to random internet Doms or any random person on the street.

SOME people have submissive personalities that leak out into their every day life. Others do not, but they still function as a submissive partner (say it with me, now) IN THEIR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS.

You're not the first self-proclaimed Dom who thinks he knows something about how "twue" submissives behave. Be content to apply whatever standards you like to YOUR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS, but pleeeeease don't be so daft as to assume that every person on earth must follow your standards in THEIR relationships.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackBikeDom

I'm new here (but not to BDSM)
And I notice that some "submissives" do not appear to be submissives but something else, maybe just a kink ,freak ,masso even maybe switches.
Voicing an opinion is one thing, being argumentative and belligerent is another.

Interesting

This literally has nothing to do with anything. Congrats on committing one of the most popular internet faux-pas.
Assuming that people who take submissive roles IN THEIR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS will be submissive to random internet Doms or any random person on the street.

SOME people have submissive personalities that leak out into their every day life. Others do not, but they still function as a submissive partner (say it with me, now) IN THEIR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS.

You're not the first self-proclaimed Dom who thinks he knows something about how "twue" submissives behave. Be content to apply whatever standards you like to YOUR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS, but pleeeeease don't be so daft as to assume that every person on earth must follow your standards in THEIR relationships.

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackBikeDom

quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackBikeDom

I'm new here (but not to BDSM)
And I notice that some "submissives" do not appear to be submissives but something else, maybe just a kink ,freak ,masso even maybe switches.
Voicing an opinion is one thing, being argumentative and belligerent is another.

Interesting

This literally has nothing to do with anything. Congrats on committing one of the most popular internet faux-pas.
Assuming that people who take submissive roles IN THEIR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS will be submissive to random internet Doms or any random person on the street.

SOME people have submissive personalities that leak out into their every day life. Others do not, but they still function as a submissive partner (say it with me, now) IN THEIR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS.

You're not the first self-proclaimed Dom who thinks he knows something about how "twue" submissives behave. Be content to apply whatever standards you like to YOUR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS, but pleeeeease don't be so daft as to assume that every person on earth must follow your standards in THEIR relationships.

Aah, now we're talking substance.

I do see your point.

Never said a submissive should be submissive to everyone.

"SOME people have submissive personalities that leak out into their every day life" I would consider a lifestyle submissive and others not, just posting my perspective.

And yes, my standards are my standards, and my posts will reflect my "standards"
Just like yours reflect yours.

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ORIGINAL: BlackBikeDom

I think it is strange within the context of a M/s relation to be argumentative.
(even within the context of a D/s but that's not mainstream, that's just me)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
well, skippy, perhaps you should have made that clear in your initial post. just sayin'.

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ORIGINAL: BlackBikeDom


Aah, now we're talking substance.

I do see your point.

Never said a submissive should be submissive to everyone.

"SOME people have submissive personalities that leak out into their every day life" I would consider a lifestyle submissive and others not, just posting my perspective.

And yes, my standards are my standards, and my posts will reflect my "standards"
Just like yours reflect yours.

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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep


Which is completely fine. But you don't have any business popping into a forum where you barely know anyone, and chastising people for being "argumentative and belligerent." You aren't some all-powerful, all knowing UberDom who can tell whether someone is "twue" or "just a kinkster," which your original petulant little post implies. You just aren't that important, mmkay?

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
That's a good point too, Michael. If someone has had a lot of submissives/slaves, it's usually not a good thing. It usually means that they go through them like underwear and/or are incapable of having a long term relationship.