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graceadieu -> RE: Can a Master be satisfied with a submissive? (11/9/2012 1:44:59 PM)
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ORIGINAL: graceadieu
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So the play, and the sex, and the emotions are all pushing us to be together, the thought of not being together is awful.
You know, this caught my eye. You say this, but all you've talked about in this entire thread is how your BDSM play is really hot but also scary. Nothing about your relationship, who he is as a person, how you feel about each other, or really anything outside the bedroom.
True. But not because there are no emotions. I guess they just weren't a problematic aspect for me. He makes me feel very precious and loved when I'm with him. I fell asleep in his arms and woke up still there and I've never done that before, I always move away in the night.
My point, I suppose, was - what kind of relationship do you have with him outside the bedroom? I think that makes a lot of difference in how well this is going to work out.
If you guys otherwise have compatible personalities, interests, life goals, etc, enjoy hanging out doing non-sexual stuff, and the general level of D/s you're both interested in (i.e. only in the bedroom vs 24/7, what parts of your life he'd have authority over) is pretty similar aside from some of your limits, then IMO it'd definitely worth it to pursue the relationship and hopefully he can just try to deal with your limits.
But if you want to have kinky sex in the bedroom within very set limits, and he wants someone to give up all authority 24/7 (which is what I would consider slavery).... no, he's probably not going to be satisfied in a relationship with you. Nothing personal, just incompatible relationship needs.
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