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littlewonder -> RE: Banned fetishes (11/30/2012 10:07:11 AM)

I just vote for us being adults and figuring it out for ourselves. I would be highly skeptical of a Dom who felt he needed bans in place so as not to hurt his sensitive little eyes.




OsideGirl -> RE: Banned fetishes (11/30/2012 11:06:04 AM)


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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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I'm talking about men online having profiles demanding money from women for 'online domination. Point me to one of those and I will laugh hysterically


I've seen men in Intros who are Fin Doms. Hilarity ensues.


Just came across a profile of a male dom that says his friend needs a new laptop and if you help with the cause he'll dominate you online.




mnottertail -> RE: Banned fetishes (11/30/2012 11:12:31 AM)

I'll do that and the laptop will be for me.




kalikshama -> RE: Banned fetishes (12/1/2012 12:08:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aswad

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

Another vote for the married but cheating ban.


Why ban it?

We're not parties to their marriage(s).

Just add an option to make a note of it, so those of us who- like me- don't want that hassle can steer clear.

IWYW,
— Aswad.


I'm being facetious [;)]

Fin Dommes out themselves right away, making it really easy to avoid them. Yet we get thread after thread by men complaining about them. I always bring up the married cheater as an example of something that is harder to avoid. Yet it is very rare that we see a thread complaining about this.




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Banned fetishes (12/1/2012 2:22:08 PM)

I have an issue with all these proposals. Why? Because in order for even one to work the site needs the compliance of the individuals who make profiles here.

And they will never get that.

Who do you think will list themselves as 'married but cheating?' Only the more honest ones willing to be upfront about it. The slimes trying to keep it a secret are not going to choose that.

Same with the scammer fin and pro dommes. Do you really think they are going to out themselves as scammers? Of course not.

The only ones who will choose pro or fin in a drop down box will be the legitimate ones who wish to be honest about what they seek a/o offer.

The rest will continue to reap the benefits of free advertising in a venue where horny males just looking to get their dick wet outnumber all other users by far.

Why not have a drop down for them?

I believe the site *is* working on eliminating the outright scammers, but even that is not going to be terribly effective unless and until they can find mods willing to scan all new profiles, like they used to do with primary pics.

But then they also need to track changes since it would only be a matter of time before 'users' realized they could get away with adding websites or whatever later on.

You know, this place is like any other. It's sad when you see adults unable or unwilling to adequately 'police' themselves; I see people running red lights all the time. I realize it's life and move on, otherwise I set myself to be the police, and that's not a role I aspire to (though I am more than willing to report profiles or pics if I have the time).














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