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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/17/2013 1:19:54 PM

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I'm to vain to have dirty hair ;)

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/17/2013 1:20:51 PM

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too.....but I bet you got cucumbers used once to often you still have a soft spot for.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/17/2013 1:22:16 PM

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I'll never tell my secrets :)

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/17/2013 1:27:37 PM

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LOL. Yeah, that is very sweet of you. Most girls go home to their mom and say, Boo Hoo Hoo, do you know what he done to me? And their moms say, I don't wanna hear it.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/17/2013 1:37:58 PM

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Your humor is like no one else's! :)

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/17/2013 1:44:57 PM

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That's why so few find me humourous.

It may be why I receive a dearth of blowjobs as well, dunno, ain't gonna think about that right now, there's always tomorrow.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/17/2013 2:16:59 PM

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I've never used a cucumber nor artificial means in my life. If it's not real....it's not for me. LOL

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too.....but I bet you got cucumbers used once to often you still have a soft spot for.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/17/2013 2:20:49 PM

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You don't know how sorry I am to hear that.
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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/17/2013 3:14:08 PM

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By the way, Carol did try to seduce me into bed the first time she got me alone. Had she not respected my wishes it would've been the last time she got me alone. Not all men want to fuck every skirt that passes their way and not all women are "saving themselves for Mr. Right". Among both men and women there is some small percentage that is actually able to see the opposite gender as human.

Heh...I begged and pleaded with Master the first night we met, to fuck me. He just laughed at me and said "no". Afterwards as we were dating he said "you would not have respected me if we did" and ya know, he's right. I just would have seen him as another one night stand and moved on. I would not have taken him seriously as a potential partner.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/17/2013 3:16:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

I've never used a cucumber nor artificial means in my life. If it's not real....it's not for me. LOL

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too.....but I bet you got cucumbers used once to often you still have a soft spot for.

To be honest, I've ever only used one dildo, and it wasn't all that. I'd much rather have the real thing.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/17/2013 3:21:32 PM

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Anyone who has seen Master's posts knows he once had me go into a small grocery store and buy a cuke and have me use it on myself while we drove around town. He enjoyed it immensely.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/17/2013 9:30:47 PM

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What traits or demeanors do we men & women WISH our prospective partners would do, that just isn't in their nature to do.

I don't wish him to be anything he isn't. Who he is, is awesome to me, so we're good over here.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/18/2013 10:01:19 AM

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i'm not sure that i want guys to act more like women as such in any way. however, what i would like from a guy is;

i'd like a guy to see me as enough just the way i am so that he isn't bothered by the false flattery of another piece of cunt. i'd like him to have enough thought, and respect for me that actually keeping his word is worth more to him than some cheap thrill. that actually keeping his word is worth enough to him that he keeps it. i'd like to be his only want instead of just an option. that he applies the same to me as he does to others, and demands from me.

i'd like him to be able to tell me he missed me first instead of only saying it because i did, and hearing the words i love you said genuinely again would be nice.

now if all that came without the need of a full on relationship it would be perfect. as it is i think that as little as i want it's a fricking impossibility.

needles

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/18/2013 2:31:23 PM

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now if all that came without the need of a full on relationship it would be perfect. as it is i think that as little as i want it's a fricking impossibility.

needles

You're asking for the markers of commitment without actually having to commit yourself. You'll only get that from a guy who's similarly commitment-phobic. At which point, you'll fall in love with his cold remoteness and will end up confused and wondering why he doesn't want anything more.

I should write a book on this shit.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/18/2013 2:34:21 PM

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I actually agree with TAFKAA on this one. I don't think you're going to find this unless it's with a man who is married and cheating, or maybe, possibly, in a poly relationship where you are not the primary and most likely never will be.

Otherwise I can't imagine anyone doing what you described who doesn't want a full on relationship.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/18/2013 3:12:24 PM

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My husband had a co worker who whined like a 2 year old. He would come over and whine at me about how he could not find a girlfriend. I told him one time that maybe if he grew up a bit women would have a bit of respect for him. He did not like that at all and told my husband I was as bad as his ex girlfriend. LOL

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/18/2013 3:13:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: TAFKAA

Women whine about shit all the time, but the truth is, the vast majority of the time women have no fucking idea what they want.

Which is why they gravitate toward men who tell them.

I gravitate to power exchange because this makes me wet.

I'm curious about other women have to say about this and have started a poll:

For female submissives/slaves - are you this way because you have no fucking idea what you want?

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/18/2013 3:38:34 PM

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I wish the pair of you (collectively: all females and males) would stop being so obtuse and difficult.

Both of your are awful and need to be slapped.

A lot.

With love.

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There are ten kinds of transexuals.

Those who understand binary (-sexed individuals) and those who don't.

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/18/2013 4:00:00 PM

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I actually agree with TAFKAA on this one. I don't think you're going to find this unless it's with a man who is married and cheating, or maybe, possibly, in a poly relationship where you are not the primary and most likely never will be.

Otherwise I can't imagine anyone doing what you described who doesn't want a full on relationship.

i don't do attached men in any shape or form, so it's never going to happen that way.

no worries what either of you have said though. i'm well aware of the conundrum with what i've said, hence saying that it's an impossibility

it's highly unlikely that there is anyone out there wanting the same as me. it's not the end of the world.

needles

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RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do... - 1/18/2013 5:10:14 PM

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now if all that came without the need of a full on relationship it would be perfect. as it is i think that as little as i want it's a fricking impossibility.

needles

You're asking for the markers of commitment without actually having to commit yourself. You'll only get that from a guy who's similarly commitment-phobic. At which point, you'll fall in love with his cold remoteness and will end up confused and wondering why he doesn't want anything more.

I should write a book on this shit.

QFT.....X10....been on both sides

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