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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 8:18:46 AM   
MissBlueangel


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Status: offline 		As a total " I havnt a clue" person I cant steal it.
But I did enjoy it Mr Hillwilliam

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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 8:20:21 AM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: jayc255

This has been a waste of time.I tried and found out that most of the people on here have no life all they talk about who has a profile who why they use caps and sadly who can respond to any post.Then they fight with each other.I would never respond to another mans post under any condition and I must say I find that to be in good taste interesting.i wish i could delete my post but i seems I can not.My final word and I promise my final word it appears the ladies on here who think that because there is another lady in the background in my pick is a terrible thing should know that there have been other ladies in my life and there will be in the future.I do not give a fuck if that offends you.This appears to mostly offend the ugly ones . lol Jay


Okay. We know why you can't find a Mistress.

We've given you advice and you've been prickly. You lash out with a homophobic insult. And you wouldn't respond to another man's post under any condition (which you actually did, by calling me gay) - why? Are you prejudiced against men in conversation?

Good luck. You'll need it.

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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 8:22:17 AM   
Hillwilliam


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissBlueangel

As a total " I havnt a clue" person I cant steal it.
But I did enjoy it Mr Hillwilliam

Right click the picture and hit "Save as" from the menu.

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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 8:25:10 AM   
MissBlueangel


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Thanks

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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 8:27:44 AM   
EsotericLady


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Status: offline 		I'm sorry jayc255! I'm sticking with my very first feeling about your profile:

"I agree too! It sounds very straightforward and sincere. :)
I wish him well. "

I'd like to apologize to you too, jsyc255, if anything I said in my posts caused you any hardship! : (

People who stand up for themselves are a real threat here; other's don't like that because it takes attention away from themselves. Worse, it may even prove them wrong!!!!!

That's where my fault is...those times when I get too wrapped up in the nonsense, don't consider the sources, and don't let things just roll off my shoulder. I just need to remind myself that there are much more important things in life to invest that energy in, and that I don't need the approval of a bunch of strangers to verify my self worth.

Good luck to you, jayc!



quote:

ORIGINAL: jayc255

This has been a waste of time.I tried and found out that most of the people on here have no life all they talk about who has a profile who why they use caps and sadly who can respond to any post.Then they fight with each other.I would never respond to another mans post under any condition and I must say I find that to be in good taste interesting.i wish i could delete my post but i seems I can not.My final word and I promise my final word it appears the ladies on here who think that because there is another lady in the background in my pick is a terrible thing should know that there have been other ladies in my life and there will be in the future.I do not give a fuck if that offends you.This appears to mostly offend the ugly ones . lol Jay


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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 8:31:00 AM   
TheLilSquaw


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From: Middle River, MD
Status: offline 		OP,

I am not going to quote you because frankly, I don't want my post to go POOF.

You attacked DS because he posted to you on the "Ask a Mistress" board. What you don't seem to understand, which I am sure you would if you READ the Section Guidelines. Although this board is for people to direct questions to Mistresses, dommes, or dominant women. Anyone can respond to a post here or on any board.

Section Guidelines - Ask A Mistress

With your verbal attack on DS, YOU did violate forum guidelines though. Which clearly states that personal attacks will not be tolerated.

Forum Guidelines

Beyond that, you asked a question. "How do I attract a Mistress?" People answered you and told you from THEIR POV what you could do to attract a Mistress. When you did not like the answers given to you, you decide to throw several tantrums. In the second tantrum you tell the same group of women you that want to attract to "fuck off."

Which shows your maturity and lack of self control.
It also shows that you truly do not understand women (your target audience).

There are MANY reasons women and men don't like seeing pictures of people engaging in play with other's. Very few people assume you are a virgin and have never been with a woman but posting a photo with another man or woman can be seen as disrespectful to the "ex" as well as the person you are with / trying to attract now. It can also make you appear unavailable or as if you can't let go of that relationship.




< Message edited by TheLilSquaw -- 2/11/2013 8:33:01 AM >

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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 9:16:28 AM   
VideoAdminAlpha


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Status: offline 		There has been a time lag in posting so I am assuming everyone took a breath and sat on their hands for a minute . If your post was removed it was because it was responding to a pulled post or QUOTED a pulled post. Now I return you to your regularly scheduled programming. If you are not in the North freezing your ass off, or down here in the South taking swimming lessons, have a wondrous Monday!!!!!

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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 9:36:11 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Seems I missed a few things. This must have turned into one of those threads where people don't really want an answer to their question.

However, since I did catch that nice comment about disagreement about having another person in the photo, please remember some things about being a male searching for a Dominant on an internet site.

There are thousands upon thousands of you and frankly, rather few of us. That means you do *everything* to put your best foot forward. That includes your profile pic which may only be looked at momentarily. If you have used an old pic that includes another party, you are opening yourself up to two possibilities that the viewer may perceive. One is that you are in a relationship because you are posting a pic of you and someone else. The other is that you were too lazy to care about your profile pic to bother to take one that will make you look your best. Both of which will get you passed over.

A person can complain about that if they like, or call Me ugly for pointing that out, but it doesn't change your reality of it does it? I'm not exactly the one sitting here asking why I can't find anyone.


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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 9:59:42 AM   
jayc255


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Status: offline 		You are correct. I am a moron for thinking I could get help from someone who is offended by a women in the background of a pic.Again to all you who have no life think because I have a pic with a lady in the background makes me a bad sub or not appealing can all go fuck yourselves.Jay

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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 10:07:05 AM   
TheLilSquaw


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Status: offline 		OP,
Again, you asked a question.
People answered it according to their POV.
What did you expect them to do??
What did you expect them to tell you??

Do you think that throwing tantrums, telling folks off... who aren't being rude or attacking you.
Makes you look appealing to a Mistress, Domme, or dominant woman?



< Message edited by TheLilSquaw -- 2/11/2013 10:08:03 AM >

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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 10:13:34 AM   
hlen5


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Status: offline 		No one suggested you have never had a woman before. What they suggested is, it is somewhat disrespectful to that cropped off woman in the photo. No one knows if SHE would be OK with even so little of her showing on a BDSM website. Couldn't you find/take a pic of just yourself?

You have asked for advice, gotten it and rejected it because it was not what you wanted to hear. Best of Luck to you.

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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 10:18:06 AM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: jayc255

You are correct. I am a moron for thinking I could get help from someone who is offended by a women in the background of a pic.Again to all you who have no life think because I have a pic with a lady in the background makes me a bad sub or not appealing can all go fuck yourselves.Jay
Who said that I was offended? I'm telling you what I have read over and over on these forums regarding single people having another person in their profile shot. As for whether you're a good sub or not, if clip came to these boards talking to people the way that you do, he wouldn't be My sub any longer. I can promise you that.

But, you do what you want. Keep up the song about those of us in fulfilling dynamics having no life and keep showing that wonderful disposition. I'm sure the women will be flocking to you in no time.



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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 10:40:14 AM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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Status: offline 		Oh great. I tried to be really nice with my post on this thread day before yesterday, today not so much.

OP, I'm not quoting your entire post because, when they delete it for being totally rude, mine would go too. No one ever suggested you'd never been with a woman before. I am not offended because there is a woman in a picture of a guy. But face it, YOU are the one who is here whining about how to find a Mistress, not us.

The truth of the matter is there are way more male submissives than there are female Dominants. Also, the truth of the matter is, as Dommes, we pretty much have the pick of the litter finding male subs so you, as a male sub, need to put your very best foot forward and make yourself stand out from all the rest. Like it or not, that includes being picky about what pictures you put in your profile and how you present yourself. We, as Dommes, are not wanting to see who you were with last - or whenever, we want to see YOU in your pictures.

Also, telling us all to "go fuck ourselves" shows a singularly stellar attitude that every Domme who is looking will want in her very own submissive - NOT. Keep up the good work so we all know who to pass over in our searches.

NBMG

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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 11:23:59 AM   
TheLilSquaw


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Wowsers!

OP, again I am not quoting you because I don't want my response to you go POOF.

Again you are insulting people you asked for their POV about your question.
I assume you asked "how to find a mistress" because you are having trouble finding one.
LP, doesn't have trouble finding primary partners, sub/slaves, or play partners.

You are though.
Perhaps taking her advice rather than insulting her is a good idea.

Perhaps you are getting defensive because you are dealing with the green eyed monster?


Btw... I think LP is beautiful and extremely sexy not just personality wise but in looks as well. Which is more than I can say for you. I think you are personally showing yourself to be anything but attractive on any level.

< Message edited by TheLilSquaw -- 2/11/2013 11:28:08 AM >

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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 11:30:20 AM   
Hillwilliam


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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 11:31:11 AM   
jayc255


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Status: offline 		This is coming from someone who is hog tied.Again get a fucken life.

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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 11:34:08 AM   
TheLilSquaw


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quote:

ORIGINAL: jayc255

This is coming from someone who is hog tied.Again get a fucken life.



Not that I deny I have been hogtied but I am curious where YOU have seen me hogtied.

I do have a life.
A wonderful and fulfilling one.
With a wonderful primary partner and personal subs/slaves.
An amazing son.
A jobs that I love.

So how do I not have a life?

ETA: How does someone enjoying things such as being hogtied mean that they don't have a life??

Inquiring minds wanna know.




< Message edited by TheLilSquaw -- 2/11/2013 11:37:29 AM >

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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 11:36:22 AM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Dude, it is amazing you reached the age of 55 without understanding how to communicate effectively.

You act like a whiner and have insulted people here who were just offering advice to your query.

I could give a crap about you, but take a step back and look in the mirror before insulting so many people that you proactively reached out to.

The answer about a problem is often found within yourself and your own approach.

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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 11:43:16 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Didn't I say this one might be interesting?

Quite often when the question (What's a true mistress?) is asked, we often find what a (true ) submissive isn't. While everyone has a right to protect or defend themselves and sometimes even has a good reason to do so and they go to name calling and insults on appearance... you know you are getting something true... for sure and it clears a whole lot up don't ya think?

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RE: How to find a Mistress - 2/11/2013 11:56:17 AM   
jayc255


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Status: offline 		true mistress again you must get a life. that is all you talk about.

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