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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Trust me girls, not the same planed.   If mens dicks vibrated like a hitachi, we wouldn't have all these nasty threads about oneliners he sent me.  Everything we said would be furkin brilliant to you girls.

not for me. mine would be non existent then

needles

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Trust me girls, not the same planed.   If mens dicks vibrated like a hitachi, we wouldn't have all these nasty threads about oneliners he sent me.  Everything we said would be furkin brilliant to you girls.

not for me. mine would be non existent then

needles

not forgetting you of course, if your old mans pick up the trash stick doesn't sing old Herman's Hermit tunes, your bubble and squeak goes a little flat, innit?

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

..........I looooooooove it when Himself sneaks up on me and scrapes his beard over the back of my neck, it makes me break out in goosebumps instantly. (He loves that one, too)...........

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yGJMZgSFsck

http://www.amazon.com/s/?ie=UTF8&keywords=trash+pick+up+stick&tag=googhydr-20&index=aps&hvadid=12503547467&hvpos=1t1&hvexid=&hvnetw=s&hvrand=438899016643619565&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=b&ref=pd_sl_3v2cefwmia_b

imagination is more important than knowledge except in the field of female orgasm.

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

I don't think I will ever be able to get a vagina orgasm, because my insides are completely numb since the day I lost my virginity. My x noticed that I can never feel him cumming inside of me. He says, most women can feel it. But I always feel nothing inside. You put a big dick vibrator in there and I feel nothing.

Do you use condoms? Latex ones make me go dead inside. And although I can feel the twitching and pulsating of a man's orgasm, I can't feel the ejaculation itself.

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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

Amongst my vanilla friends, when the conversation turns towards sex, it's pretty common for a woman to say she's never had an orgasm, or doesn't usually have one when they're having sex, or has them only in a very specific position, or from oral.

In the magazines we read and conversations we had as teenagers (it wasn't THAT long ago for me) this was certainly put out there as the norm. There was always the advice about lighting a candle and putting on music and trying things out with a vibrator. Advice on how to get your guy to go down on you more. How to tell him you need a vibe to come without crushing his ego.

I almost never hear any mention of this around these parts. I can't use myself as an example since a stern look is practically all I've ever needed. So women, educate me.

Is this a myth? Do most women just get there eventually? Or is it because BDSMers as a group are more in touch with their sexuality, their turn-ons and their physical responses?

Are we so good at communicating sexually that there are fewer hang-ups about whether or not the woman orgasms or what she needs to get there? Or is there still some shyness about this - do people not admit they don't always get there because it's embarrassing when everyone here is so sexually open and kinky?

Yep, that's right. Talk to me about sex.

I'd particularly like to know - how common is the multiple orgasm? Do you (or your partner)? Is it normal or rare for you? Does oral sex do the job better for you that fingers/vibes/regular sex? I've always found oral or vibes to be a bit too much - almost painful - Himself has a theory it's because things are wired up to not need that much stimulation. Anyone share that experience?

Here I am, 26 years old and still in need of sex ed.

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

it is not uncommon for women not to be able to feel a man climax. It is already slick inside and the average man only ejaculates about a tablespoon in volume. I do not feel the ejaculate but I do feel the quickening pulse, the rise in speed and near desperation that happens when he cums. I have known a few men who admit to faking orgasm and no one but them was the wiser.
As far as loss of feeling inside, most of the nerve endings are at the mouth.

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ORIGINAL: Kana

Oh man, the lilone came and came last night. I thought she was gonna die.
Ain't no mythical orgasms in that boudoir.