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RE: Gun play in bdsm? - 3/16/2013 9:25:02 PM

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RED!!!!
Licking of the face is a hard limit!

*bang bang*

hahahaa! ^_^ so true!
ooohhh i love you, poise. ^_^

Darn, and you look like you would taste so good , maybe a littlec salt some BBQ sauce greated chees

no no back to reallity

sorry my mind wandered for a moment

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RE: Gun play in bdsm? - 3/17/2013 1:42:20 PM

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My thoughts are based on personal experience with guns, and I was talking about something that is quite factual. Take a look at the stats on guns in this country, and a lot of them are accidental shootings, and in more then a few cases, it is caused by complacency, where people have been around guns a long time, and forget what they were taught, what they know. What 'science' do you have that shows I am wrong? I didn't say people doing gun play were untrained, I am saying they are forgetting their training, you talk to an NRA safety instructor and give him/her the scenario you are talking about, and see what they say, and why. I have seen the results of that one careless moment, and yes, I am sensitive to it. The people involved in the incidents I am talking about forgot what they were dealing with, they were complacent, and that is what I worry about with gun edge play, when you turn it into a prop in what is basically an adult form of play, you are taking a step towards complacency, and that is why I say it is foolish.

I didn't say people who did gun edge play were stupid, the most intelligent people do foolish things, even stupid things, I just feel they are taking risks they may not even be aware of.

Careless I think that would be a good word. Things go wrong people make misstakes.
I spend to much time defecting claims that gun owners do give a you know what about safety I can't encourage antyhing that flies in the face of every rule of gun safety.

Bama-
The little girl I was talking about is a classic example of exactly that. The father regularly went shooting at a range, from what the cops told me afterwords (they were nice enough to let the first responders know what happened), and he was pretty diligent, kept the gun locked away, unloaded, you name it..this time, he had gone shooting, and for some reason he didn't lock the gun away, he left it lying down. He was confident it was unloaded, but apparently there was as you can guess, one in the chamber, he hadn't checked.....I am not even sure the clip was in it, which might have given him false confidence, this was 30+ years ago. Anyway,it shows even experienced gun owners, ones who generally are careful, can make stupid, dangerous mistakes. If someone is going to do edge play with loaded guns, that is their right, but one of the interesting things is, if it can be done safely, as some claim, then where is the edginess to it? One of the 'thrills' of edge play isn't just that others think it is taboo, it is that it has that read edge of danger to it.....I am not a gun owner, to be honest I have little attraction to them personally, but I also respect responsible gun owners, and I can't blame you.

BTW I love your avatar photo, what an incredible dog!

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RE: Gun play in bdsm? - 3/17/2013 2:18:54 PM

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Thank you.

Yep wish he was mine but I have a 50/50 Rott/doberman that is as smart as any shepards I have ever had.
He also is even better at making all the nieghbors want to be my friend.
Still there is nothing like a shepard.

I don't want to offend anyone but this isn't about gun ownership it is about common sense.

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RE: Gun play in bdsm? - 3/17/2013 2:57:48 PM

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Gun play is an oxymoron. If your must get off with a gun (or should that be go off with a gun?) be my guest. But if something goes wrong, goes wrong, goes wrong, well it gives a whole new meaning to shooting your wad, eh?

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RE: Gun play in bdsm? - 3/17/2013 6:49:40 PM

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Gun play is an oxymoron. If your must get off with a gun (or should that be go off with a gun?) be my guest. But if something goes wrong, goes wrong, goes wrong, well it gives a whole new meaning to shooting your wad, eh?

*rofl*..spit my tea on the monitor with that one.

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RE: Gun play in bdsm? - 3/18/2013 4:27:00 AM

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Steve and me were having a long chat about 'edge play' and 'real danger' this morning. We both have very different definitions of what we consider edge play.
but we both agree that edge play is not and never should be about real danger.
A magician creates an illusion of danger. The skill is in removing the real danger whilst maintaining the illusion.

I once put a noose around my subs neck and made him stand on a stool. He believed I had tied the rope over an overhanging beam when in fact I had done no such thing. When I threatened to kick the stool away from him the fear was real because he believed he would hang. There is no way I would of risked any possibility of that happening. As a dominant I really don't ever want to be in a position of telling his relatives, ' I'm sorry I killed him, it was just meant to be a bit of kinky fun'.

We both agree that putting someone in real danger is not edge play.

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RE: Gun play in bdsm? - 3/18/2013 11:27:24 AM

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lol

ant to the point as well

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RE: Gun play in bdsm? - 3/18/2013 7:44:02 PM

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I know this is somewhat off topic, and OP and others, I hope you'll forgive me, but it seems a bit pertinent.

There's an outdoor shooting range near me called Dragon Mans, which is great and popular, has great range officers, who are all very strict and fair, which I appreciate.

Not long ago, Mel, the owner, and his wife, Terri, were being filmed for some kind of military special program. I target shoot there and know them both (New Yorkers!). Know they are VERY safety conscious, and that in 30 years, they have NEVER had an incident on their place.

Some special kinds of smoke bombs were being used, and were to be set off so Mel, Terri, and others could come walking out of it for the last scene. Guess what, something went VERY wrong that could not be anticipated. Two smoke bombs went off like missles and tore through Terri, killing her just feet from Mel. Terrible, unpredictable situation. Here's the story. The moral to the story is, "Knock, knock, it s**t happens, and the road to hell is paved with good intentions."

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2160159/Woman-dies-hit-150mph-smoke-bombs-set-TV-show.html

http://www.coloradoconnection.com/news/story.aspx?id=766060

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RE: Gun play in bdsm? - 3/19/2013 2:18:57 AM

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Very sad Dusky but what are you actually saying? Are you saying that if you do something dangerous for long enough expect an accident or are you saying you can play with dangerous things all your life but something else may kill you tomorrow?

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RE: Gun play in bdsm? - 3/22/2013 9:21:50 AM

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No. Just no. The absolute most I could ever see a gun used in a scene would be in a holster and even then I'd be leery of it unless it was a replica or an Airsoft piece. Background: recreational shooter since 9, US Army for six years, Utah POST Category II, PSO (armed) certification, NYS Unrestricted. I carry a weapon on my person nearly every day. It is not a toy and never will be.

If you gotta, get an Airsoft and a can of spray paint, rip the guts out of it, and invest in a good leather holster and once there, don't take the damn thing out. If it's a long gun replica, still use basic firearms safety irregardless of the weapon's functionality. It pisses me off when I see pics of the girls with guns and their boogerhooks are wrapped around the trigger.

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