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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 10:07:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		I know when I was in college,the majority were females.Females are graduating college at a far higher rate than males.

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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 10:43:00 AM   
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As stated, if you simply take away the raging hormones, men become more docile, more likeable, more like women.



LMAO, "Docile" is definitely a word that has NEVER been used to describe ME.
But I agree with the rest of what everyone has said.

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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 11:15:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		I haven't noticed really whether there are more men than women online because I have my search parameters set to male submissive. Apparently that's the case though from what I hear. But, in my local community, there seems to be a more equal number of men and women. However, there are more M/f couples than F/m, and then there are the switches of both genders.

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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 11:18:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: intellisubbear


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ORIGINAL: thezeppo
it is said that there are a lot more men than women


Almost everywhere I look, there are a LOT more men than women.

When I hike or bike in the mountains, I run into vastly more men than women (it would be rare to run into a lone female hiker, for example, in these sparse mountains).

When I go to a bar with my buddies for a drink, I run into far more men than women (although I don't go to dance clubs, where the men outnumbering the women wouldn't be as abundant).

When I go to work, admittedly in a Geeky place in Mountainview, I run into phenomenally more men then women.

When I search for "submissive" in the sfbay Craigslist personals, I run into tremendously more male-seeking ads then women-seeking (where the difference is hugely revealingly apropos to your thread intent).

Yet, when I drop the kids off at school, I run into far more women then men. Go figure.


Hmm.... What if you went into a spa?


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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 11:21:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

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What I do think is that there are more men than women looking for a quick fuck... or a slow fuck.



Add to that the fact that most woman don't need to go online to get that quick fuck if they want one. If I wanted to get laid (and was single) with no strings attached I could head down to my local bar and chances are I could find someone to fuck pretty easily.


kerbingo!

I'm totally with Jeff on this...

I think once you strip out the horn dawgs, you'd probably find that it's pretty much equal.

The lady horn dawgs (horn bitches, I guess) don't have to go on line and mooch around places like this - they put on a purdy dress and sally forth to the nearest bar and take their pick.

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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 11:23:27 AM   
crazyml


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The chicks they were having the hella awesome lesbian cyber were certainly, actually, in reality, other dudes pretending to be chicks, but what the hey!

good times.

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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 11:39:36 AM   
thezeppo


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Status: offline 		Hahaha! It's like reverse-Shakespeare. The men are men, the women are men pretending to be women. And at least one person is an ass XD

Thank you all for the replies - it has been both helpful and entertaining.

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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 1:05:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Charles6682

I know when I was in college,the majority were females.Females are graduating college at a far higher rate than males.


I'd be hard pressed to name a half-dozen places where women outnumber the men...

Let me try to figure out where women outnumber the men:
- schools (barely, except for teaching, where it's overwhelming)
- malls (almost all stores, no matter the type, including clothing, cosmetics, perfumes, groceries, jewelry, furniture, etc., i.e., all but tools, cars, electronics, and other manly things)
- body services (e.g., nails, feet, & hair, services)
- child services (e.g., daycare, child transportation, etc.)
- home services (some, e.g., cleaning & cooking are likely overwhelmingly female - yet - others - such as fixing & maintaining are likely overwhelmingly male)
- medical services (some, e.g., nurses are likely overwhelmingly female - while others - such as doctors, are likely roughly 50:50 nowadays)

OK. I'm starting to run out of ideas of where women actually outnumber the men significantly in our daily lives ...

QUESTION: Where on this earth do men NOT overwhelmingly outnumber the women?

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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 2:29:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Blankpain

Because men have testosterone, which ruins their minds.

Remember geldings are much more amenably sociable.

Their little brains no longer overrule the big ones.


I actually agree with this in a way, but I think you
are confusing your definition of what a man is with
what makes someone male.

Testosterone, (speaking for myself) is a elemental
aspect of a mans psyche, not just a hormone, it's
rooted deeply into ego, drive, strength to name
just a few things which develop quite differently in
a man to a woman and are important influences in
making me who I am.

I've said it before, and at the risk of being insulting
I'll say it again. There is a difference between
being a male and being a man.

My mind isn't ruined.
I'm not prone to antisocial or violent behaviour.
I'm not ruled by a need to fuck as much as
possible.

What you describe here is initially very evident
in behaviours of teenage males which of course
can probably be attributed to testosterone...
But they are not men, they are boys learning
how to be men, some aren't good learners,
some don't have good teachers.





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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 4:58:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		Zeppo, I LOVE your profile narrative. You seem to have a very clear sense of yourself and a wonderful way of articularing, simply, who you are and what it is you desire. I wish you much luck.

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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 5:09:53 PM   
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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 5:53:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: thezeppo

Something that I have been wondering recently. In a lot of threads here, it is said that there are a lot more men than women, whether Dom, Sub, or Switch. For the last couple of hours I have been wondering why that is - and under what terms that hypothesis stands. I am yet to venture out into real life, I am still an online warrior until I graduate, so apologies if this is a really obvious question that has been answered many times.

Does it mean that there are many more men than women online - or on Collarme specifically - and that in real life there tends to be a more even spread? From what I can tell of the regulars on Collarchat there seems to be a more even spread than the correlation between gender and private messages would suggest. So are men just more desperate then, more willing to send message after message? Generalising massively, it could seem that quite a few of the female regular posters are in committed LTRs, so is the difference just that men are more likely to be single? Having said that, quite a few of the male posters here seem to be in LTRs as well, so is that men are more likely to look outside of their existing relationships and therefore form a bigger group than women? Or is it just that quite simply there are more men into BDSM than women?

As you might be able to tell, I have a tendency to look for a complicated answer to a question where a simple answer probably exists, so if someone could tell me the obvious answer I haven't considered I would really appreciate it, and I could get back to work!


There probably are more men. You as a male, even at 26 must know now how the world rotates.

Even if there were 100 men and 200 women...they'd still have the edge....titties and all.

There you go....the lesson stops here.

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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 6:10:58 PM   
SpiritedRadiance


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Status: offline 		There is roughly 975 females for ever 1000 males...

So Men out number women...

And Agent 99

Your incorrect with most of your facts, only because women who did things like Open their mouths prior to the 1970s would be killed or beaten in some ways...

Men didnt... Blah blah blah blah blah,

Men and women created things equally, its just men in their insecurities and issues with ya know that whole oh my god a woman might be smarter than me and make my penis look like a jerkin pickle.. we have to say they are witches, or kill them, or beat them or stone them to death because smart women...smart women are ebil...

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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 6:27:55 PM   
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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 7:07:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance

There is roughly 975 females for ever 1000 males...

So Men out number women...

And Agent 99

Your incorrect with most of your facts, only because women who did things like Open their mouths prior to the 1970s would be killed or beaten in some ways...

Men didnt... Blah blah blah blah blah,

Men and women created things equally, its just men in their insecurities and issues with ya know that whole oh my god a woman might be smarter than me and make my penis look like a jerkin pickle.. we have to say they are witches, or kill them, or beat them or stone them to death because smart women...smart women are ebil...


Well, I for one was against the lifting of stoning of women but, I wasn't an Elder in the church.

And that voting thing hahahahahahahahahahaha....well...it's done, we now have to live with it.

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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 9:47:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance
Your incorrect with most of your facts


Let's be realistic. Look at my post. I stand by the assertions.
Wishful thinking on your part doesn't change 4 billion years of evolution.

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ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance
woman might be smarter than me


I never once said women aren't smarter than I or than anyone else.
You manufactured that.

What I said was men do a lot of things (I provided the list). Particularly, men are highly active here on the forums (mostly trolling, but that's another topic altogether) and, as someone pointed out, on the dating sites (including Craigslist).

The facts are the facts. You might wish to re-interpret them, or wish them to go away, but they are what they are, and they always will be (unless you want to race evolution at its own game).

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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie
Even if there were 100 men and 200 women...they'd still have the edge....titties and all.


Being of a biological upbringing, I have to agree with you on that. Tittles were made for one reason and one reason only, and it has nothing to do with feeding babies milk (the proof is that no other mammal has full-time tits). Tits were made for what they do best - and -damn - they do that rather well.

Nature endowed women, on purpose, so that those tits would influence men.
All the PC talk in the world won't reverse 4 billion years of nature (well, we humans are probably only 4 million years old - but even so - PC talk can't erase 4 million years of evolution either).

Sometimes the truth needs to be told. Lesson stops here.

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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 10:02:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Agent99
Sometimes the truth needs to be told. Lesson stops here.

So out of curiosity, what happens with all your truth and facts and whatnot when the male in question has things like "self-discipline", "self-control", "foresight", "wisdom" and the like?

Cause... you know... I like boobies as much as the next guy but I'm a grown up. More to the point I'm dominant... and that includes over my own dick.

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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 10:06:00 PM   
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I believe you are asking why there are so many more men here on the site. The answer is threefold.

* Men sign up to internet social/dating sites in much larger numbers than women. Often, it's because of the misconception that it will be 'easier' to find somebody. It happens at an even higher rate here because many of these men are under the impression that kinky women are easy to get into bed.

* As a category, BDSM had generally had a higher percentage of males in comparison to females. That's regardless of role.

* Already mentioned, but in a little more detail, women honestly don't need the net for kink or sex. Both are easy to obtain without the additional step of sending emails or participating in chat. All I need from the net is to look up when the next play party is being held. (That's if one of the local members hasn't already called Me and asked Me if I'm going.) If I go, I'm going to have offers from people wanting to play. Darn near any competent female top is going to tell you the same thing.

*Edited to add the Chris Rock link - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=90qpDg5y7Lo


PS. I actually am in Alaska. Guess how big the odds are in My favor?


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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 10:19:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

So out of curiosity, what happens with all your truth and facts and whatnot when the male in question has things like "self-discipline", "self-control", "foresight", "wisdom" and the like?



You mean the self discipline, self control, foresight, and the wisdom shown by Bill Clinton, Eliot Spitzer, John F. Kennedy, Franklin D. Roosevelt, David Petraeus, Julius Caesar & Mark Anthony, Donald Trump, Peter Harding, Admiral Sir Alan West, Tiger Woods, King Louis XV of France, Henry the VIII of England, Napoleon Bonaparte, Prince Charles of Great Britain, Nicolas Sarkozy, Thomas Jefferson, Lyndon B. Johnson, Anthony Weiner, David Vitter, Warren G. Harding, Gen. Dwight Eisenhower, Genghis Khan, John Edwards, and, oh, about a billion or two billion other men living today on this earth who aren't famous enough to get their names in the paper.

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RE: Why are there so many more men? (not a moan!) - 3/28/2013 10:54:03 PM   
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I wouldn't want them any other way!

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