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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/30/2013 7:10:46 PM   
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I am going to have to back track myself a little, I found out that Nancy did have a gun safe, it was in her bed room where she was killed, opened, now that is really and I mean really stupid. You have a person in your house, you claim they are out of control, violent, you leave guns out and not lock them up when you have the means to? I am not trying to fix blame on Nancy, but you have to admit she was irresponsible.

You may not, I am, I am a parent and I know how hard it is to be one, but quite frankly, the woman was either off the rails herself or was completely stupid, I suspect the latter. She wasn't alone in this, the father could be involved and if they wanted to get him committed, the guy had the firepower to do that. The guy is a senior executive at GE Capital in their tax office, I work with someone whose wife works in that division, the father is way, way up the food chain, he is making 7 figures, easily, and had the kind of legal help at his disposal that could get the kid into treatment, but apparently the wife didn't bother to ask him,

Every piece of evidence we have is that she was a stupid sack of shit, and if Oprah wants to claim she is a victim and the rest of the people saying she was a victim, I'll barf. I have heard advocates for the mental health community claiming Adam was a victim, that memorials should mention 28 victims, but that is crap. The kid went there to kill little kids, didn't give a crap, he knew it was wrong, he was wearing body armor, and he killed himself when he realized the cops were coming because he knew the consequences....I don't consider him a victim at all, to be honest.

As far as the mother, I don't want to hear how she was struggling to deal with him, it sounds to me like her answer was to let the kid around guns, shoot with him, and allow the kid to have a mess of weapons around that you wonder about them to to start with. She bought the kid the body armor (he didn't have money of his own), and she sat there while the kid spent most of the day playing violent video games in the basement of the house, and didn't wonder why the kid was doing nothing, doing that for years. My personal opinion she was a nut herself, the survivalist stuff alone, the reveling in gun ownership, smacks of that, but the key thing is she has a kid that a 6 year old child could tell was off, not normal, and she fed that, didn't get him help, sat there while he basically moldered for several years, and allowed him access to all kinds of weapons. She wasn't a victim, she was the poster child for someone with shit for brains, to say the least. I would be concerned if my son was into shoot em up games (he has had a couple, played them briefly, and thought they were hysterical), and all he did was play them day after day and he is normal (though after playing them like that, I wonder if a normal kid would come out straight, it can't be good for you), but she was oblivious to what he was doing. Yes, he was 20, but it was her house, and she could set the rules, but she didn't. And leaving the gun safe open, the weapons lying around the house? That is like leaving matches around a 5 year old and then sitting back and saying "I can't understand how the house burned down".

I don't have problems with gun ownership even though I choose not to, but I also think it is about time we had accountability for gun owners, too, for their stupidity. We have a lot more accountability with cars and boats then we do with guns, and that is idiotic.

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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/30/2013 7:20:42 PM   
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No we don't worship them. We also do not conced power over us by them. they are tools,no more , no less. For me a too; to among other things, defend myself.
You ever try squill hunting with a 9mm? Or bird hunting with a rifle? Hunt a mose with a shotgun and we notify your next of ken. Your entire post proves only that you know nothing about firearms or the people who own them.

I never said there werent legit reasons to have a gun and I was referring to people that have a bunch of guns for no real reason or purpose.. few people that have more than one gun ever hunt or use them all for that.. Lanza and his mother didnt, from the reports.. so why the fuck did she have all these guns?



Yes you said more than one

.. people that think they need more than one gun scare the poop outta me..

For self defence alone the best gun to carry is not the best gun for self defense. A shotgun, two handguns, and a light easy to use rifle. That is not "all those guns" if she had had 40 or so that would be different.
Do you need a car that can go 90?
That isn't legal anywhere and it is dagerous to drive that fast both to you and to others.
Do you want to give upyour car?
Does not wanting to mean you worship your car?
Would you think that anyone who said you did was a crackpot.
Owning firearms is a right.
There is no need to justify exersizing a right.
A car is a previlege you might have to justify that.


There is an old expression, that with rights comes responsibility to use those rights wisely. Nancy Lanza is a classic example of a gun owner who abused the right; the good ole boys down south who fill up the trunk of their car with guns and sell them into the black market up route 95 are another; those who fight against rational registration laws and insurance on guns are others. We have laws requiring registration of cars and boats, if you have certain kinds of animals they are registered, when you own a home you are required to get a home inspection done when work is done.....If you car is used in commission of a crime and you haven't reported it stolen, you are in deep shit if the can prove you knew it had been taken, or if they can prove you gave it to a friend to use and lied about it. If a gun is stolen in most places you don't have to report it, and joe billy bob can go buy his guns legally, sell them in the black market, have them traced back when used criminally, and say "oh, done must have lost or had it stolen".....The second amendment says people have the right to own guns, but it doesn't say you have the right to buy and own them without burdens to protect public safety. I don't give a shit if someone wants an AR15 or an AA12 assault shotgun, I don't care if he has a house full of them...but I want to know that someone is aware of it, so douchebag can't sell them without controls on it. If you sell a car to someone and they use it to commit a crime, and you can't prove you sold it and surrendered the plates, you will have a lot of explaining to do. 70% of the guns that are pulled off the streets in big cities were legally purchased originally, and a lot of them flow by so called legitimate gun owners being able to see them to criminals, deliberately, without any kind of accountability. Likewise, we are required to have liability insurance on our cars, but gun owners don't. Hell, in many places people who fly rc aircraft have to have insurance, and the amount of damage one of those can do is relatively minimal......

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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/30/2013 7:42:50 PM   
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Well if Adam was kicked out of the home he would be just one more of the estimated 200,000 mentally ill that are homeless in this country.

It could be that the reason this happened was cuz his mother was considering or planning to put him in a special school/institution and that set him off.. according to some reports there was a court thing she was doing, perhaps to get him committed.. I dont know if the cops have verified that or not.. Its easy for people to flippantly say to throw mentally ill kids/family members in institutions but actually doing that takes time & has roadblocks.. legal ones and emotional ones..

Do you have a butcher knife, you going to sleep well with them in the kitchen and a dangerously unstable person in the house?
Did you ever hear of Ted Bundy or lizzie Borden?


-Strawman argument, and not a good one. For one thing, with a butcher knife, Lanza couldn't have done what he did, someone would have stopped him with very few casualties, if someone is armed with a knife a chair can be used as a shield, a garbage can is a great weapon, a piece of wood can be used to disarm him, whereas a fuck with an AR15 with large capacity magazines can shoot you from 50 feet away. NRA types like to cite the chinese guy who want on a rampage at a school with a knife with glee as proof knives are as deadly as guns, but what they left out is no one died in that (lot harder to kill someone with a knife then spraying bullets, talk to someone who ever had to do hand to hand combat, it isn't that easy).

-A knife in kitchen is used to make food, a gun only has one purpose, to kill people (Lanza wasn't living on the frontier hunting for her food). Someone needs knives to cook and might not think twice about them in the house, whereas a gun is not as common an item, you get a license to purchase them in connecticut, you learn how to shoot them, safety instruction. It is very, very hard to argue that having guns around a lunatic is the same thing as a knife, because knives are part of the background of our lives, guns aren't, even for multiple gun owners. They would be at a military base, but not in the areas and homes most people live in these days.

-And yes, if I had a loon living in my house, I would secure the knives, as much as I could, until I got them out. I don't know if you ever had kids or not, but when you have young kids in the house, you don't expect them to obey the rules, you don't expect to tell a 2 year old not to put a fork in the outlet (you block the outlet), you don't get pissed at them for breaking an expensive item (you keep it out of their way), and so forth. Lanza was a fucktard, pure and simple, and gun owners should curse her, not call her a martyr to gun ownership.

One of the things legitimate gun owners are going to need to realize is the NRA, funded by gun manufacturers, are not going to be there, something so outrageous is going to happen that the NRA is going to be neutralized, millions of dollars from arms manufacturers or not, we are going to have something that makes Aurora or Newtown or Columbine look like child's play, and it is going to turn into a witch hunt...and quite frankly, as much as I am not thrilled with the gun culture in this country, I also think that is wrong for the people who legitimately own them. Gun owners make up only 35% of the population, and they are concentrated in a relatively few states, and if something truly bad happens, and the other 65% get disgusted, all hell will break loose. One of the ironies of the NRA is their gun safety program is excellent, and as an organization they stress gun safety all the way through. The problem is the leadership, emboldened by all the money they get from the arms manufacturers (and it is a lot....), don't understand why the safety program is there, a friend of mine hit the head, he is an NRA safety instructor, and he said the reason is simple, besides not wanting a gun club meeting to look like a MASH unit, he said that it was one of the biggest protections they had against the anti gun nuts, that if they kept their own house in order, it kept the idiots at bay, and he was right. He thinks the NRA leadership, rather then doing what La Pierre did and said the answer is arming everyone (wonderful, just what we need, the wild west, which despite myth, was not kept in line with guns, it was as lawless as the town in "The Quick and the Dead"),should be working to keep gun ownership's image as that of responsible ownership, not the image of a bunch of rednecks ready to fight the next civil war or something... The NRA positions on Talon bullets, teflon coated ammunition, high capacity magazines and the like is idiotic, as are fighting rational laws to keep gun owners accountable. You want guns, then show you are an adult and can be accountable for them.


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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/30/2013 7:54:21 PM   
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well.. I have never seen a rabbit or moose in the city.. so I would not be shooting them.. I think that is quite frowned upon in my metro area..

I grew up on a farm and my father had one rifle.. he shot cows & pigs (the ones that ended up as packages in our freezer) and pheasants with it, sometimes other critters.. seemed to work for him..

The number of guns a person has is (imo) a reflection of your American gun culture, which is what is scary.. the mental state of the person in control of the gun(s)..
Thank you for taking the time to answer My question.

The gun that has the firepower to kill the moose would obliterate a rabbit. A smaller gun to kill the rabbit would leave the moose wounded and suffering in the wilderness until it bled to death.

There's a difference shooting animals in the wild than when the animal is fenced in and used to people walking up to it. Moose and bears are not the docile creatures that you find on farms. I didn't know until I moved up here, but moose charge. They are also pretty darn fast for an animal that can weigh up to 1400 lbs. You don't really have to do anything to tick it off.

I don't think I have the link from the last time I was on one of the gun threads, but when I looked it up a couple of months ago, roughly 25% of the Alaskan population hunts at least one time over a three year period. That's not including the hunting licenses that are issued to out of state visitors. Also not included are the people that go camping that need a gun for protection from wildlife. These are still good reasons to own guns.




I tend to agree, but what that leaves out is that the overwhelming majority of people in this country don't live in areas with wildlife, where they have to worry about moose and bears, as people in places like Alaska do or Montana and Wyoming. Weapons are tools, and in places like Alaska , a necessary one. But I understand where the other poster is coming from, most people in the US live in built up areas, and the kind of firepower needed in Alaska would be ridiculous overkill in the northeast. There are over 300 million guns in the US (legal), only about 35% of people own guns, so 100 million people own 300 million guns. I am not an anti gun nut, I have no use for them personally, never felt the need for one, but I also happen to believe a tool is there to be used. I am not into status objects, if I owned a Ferrari or a McClaren SLR it would be because they are incredible driving machines, I don't buy things to impress people and I don't need an object to make me feel good about myself (well, okay, a pair of killer heels or a leather dress, maybe *lol*). I do question those who do build arsenals, of high powered, rapid fire weapons, who think they are going to fight the government (please, like they would stand a chance against drones and 50 caliber machine guns mounted on blackhawks...), or to be honest, the jokers who think it makes them rambo or something...I just happen to think of guns as a tool, and it would be kind of like me having an oxy-acetylene cutting torch, it is a really neat object, but I have no use for it. Owning guns to protect yourself from wild animals, or protecting yourself because you carry a lot of valuable goods like gold or money, I can understand, or having a gun in your home to protect against intruders, I can understand. But owning a ton of high powered, rapid fire weapons, to prove somehow that makes you a hot shot charlie? Don't understand that. I also find the arguments about people being armed deterring crime, all I can say is that the top crime states in this country all have relatively easy gun laws, Texas and Florida are two of the top crime stats on the FBI list....NYC has some of the most restrictive gun laws around, and last year had 600 murders and its crime rate makes it one of the safest cities in the US...NJ has ridiculous gun laws, but too has a relatively low crime rate....tools have purpose, and with guns, I just question their utility in many cases, give where most people live.

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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/30/2013 8:14:46 PM   
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The issue here is weapons that killed 22 people in five minutes and Lanza barely tapped into his arsenal's capabilities.

The Aurora shooter's magazine jammed, and act of God that may have saved 22 or more lives.

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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/30/2013 8:31:29 PM   
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Yeah, if you don't nip that scary knife/sword thing in the bud, you know what comes next, right? Ninjas!!! Ninjas and Asian gangs wanting to sleep with your daughters...

Wasn't that the mantra for the Aussie sword crackdown??

http://www.theage.com.au/articles/2004/03/08/1078594279264.html


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I think for me the scariest was a reported file containing pictures of dead people. As to some many here all I can think of..is what Admiral Rickover said at a congressional hearing on Reagan plane for new ICBM. I am paraphasing "We have the ablity to destory this planet 35 times over, how many more times do we have be able to destory this planet before we feel safe." So much for the National Paranoia.


After I reading some of the thread responses I was kind of dumbfounded and unable to respond. Later I began to think of the US stockpile of Nuclear Weapons and our insane amount of military spending. It's irrational, and it's unhinged. There's just no rational basis to it.

There's no rational basis to have a arsenal of weapons in one's suburban CT home, so the only fallback Gun Nuts have is "my Second Amendment rights."

Sadly, this is a destructive "right."



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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/30/2013 8:34:16 PM   
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You also consider transgender people who don't do it your way to be "morons"... your words.

Whether you get off on being intolerant or not, the epidemic of suicide and its overlap with the profile of the school shooters is undeniable, and far too strong a positive correlation to be hand waved away.


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I am going to have to back track myself a little, I found out that Nancy did have a gun safe, it was in her bed room where she was killed, opened, now that is really and I mean really stupid. You have a person in your house, you claim they are out of control, violent, you leave guns out and not lock them up when you have the means to? I am not trying to fix blame on Nancy, but you have to admit she was irresponsible.

You may not, I am, I am a parent and I know how hard it is to be one, but quite frankly, the woman was either off the rails herself or was completely stupid, I suspect the latter. She wasn't alone in this, the father could be involved and if they wanted to get him committed, the guy had the firepower to do that. The guy is a senior executive at GE Capital in their tax office, I work with someone whose wife works in that division, the father is way, way up the food chain, he is making 7 figures, easily, and had the kind of legal help at his disposal that could get the kid into treatment, but apparently the wife didn't bother to ask him,

Every piece of evidence we have is that she was a stupid sack of shit, and if Oprah wants to claim she is a victim and the rest of the people saying she was a victim, I'll barf. I have heard advocates for the mental health community claiming Adam was a victim, that memorials should mention 28 victims, but that is crap. The kid went there to kill little kids, didn't give a crap, he knew it was wrong, he was wearing body armor, and he killed himself when he realized the cops were coming because he knew the consequences....I don't consider him a victim at all, to be honest.

As far as the mother, I don't want to hear how she was struggling to deal with him, it sounds to me like her answer was to let the kid around guns, shoot with him, and allow the kid to have a mess of weapons around that you wonder about them to to start with. She bought the kid the body armor (he didn't have money of his own), and she sat there while the kid spent most of the day playing violent video games in the basement of the house, and didn't wonder why the kid was doing nothing, doing that for years. My personal opinion she was a nut herself, the survivalist stuff alone, the reveling in gun ownership, smacks of that, but the key thing is she has a kid that a 6 year old child could tell was off, not normal, and she fed that, didn't get him help, sat there while he basically moldered for several years, and allowed him access to all kinds of weapons. She wasn't a victim, she was the poster child for someone with shit for brains, to say the least. I would be concerned if my son was into shoot em up games (he has had a couple, played them briefly, and thought they were hysterical), and all he did was play them day after day and he is normal (though after playing them like that, I wonder if a normal kid would come out straight, it can't be good for you), but she was oblivious to what he was doing. Yes, he was 20, but it was her house, and she could set the rules, but she didn't. And leaving the gun safe open, the weapons lying around the house? That is like leaving matches around a 5 year old and then sitting back and saying "I can't understand how the house burned down".

I don't have problems with gun ownership even though I choose not to, but I also think it is about time we had accountability for gun owners, too, for their stupidity. We have a lot more accountability with cars and boats then we do with guns, and that is idiotic.



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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/30/2013 9:31:45 PM   
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You also consider transgender people who don't do it your way to be "morons"... your words.

Whether you get off on being intolerant or not, the epidemic of suicide and its overlap with the profile of the school shooters is undeniable, and far too strong a positive correlation to be hand waved away.


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I am going to have to back track myself a little, I found out that Nancy did have a gun safe, it was in her bed room where she was killed, opened, now that is really and I mean really stupid. You have a person in your house, you claim they are out of control, violent, you leave guns out and not lock them up when you have the means to? I am not trying to fix blame on Nancy, but you have to admit she was irresponsible.

You may not, I am, I am a parent and I know how hard it is to be one, but quite frankly, the woman was either off the rails herself or was completely stupid, I suspect the latter. She wasn't alone in this, the father could be involved and if they wanted to get him committed, the guy had the firepower to do that. The guy is a senior executive at GE Capital in their tax office, I work with someone whose wife works in that division, the father is way, way up the food chain, he is making 7 figures, easily, and had the kind of legal help at his disposal that could get the kid into treatment, but apparently the wife didn't bother to ask him,

Every piece of evidence we have is that she was a stupid sack of shit, and if Oprah wants to claim she is a victim and the rest of the people saying she was a victim, I'll barf. I have heard advocates for the mental health community claiming Adam was a victim, that memorials should mention 28 victims, but that is crap. The kid went there to kill little kids, didn't give a crap, he knew it was wrong, he was wearing body armor, and he killed himself when he realized the cops were coming because he knew the consequences....I don't consider him a victim at all, to be honest.

As far as the mother, I don't want to hear how she was struggling to deal with him, it sounds to me like her answer was to let the kid around guns, shoot with him, and allow the kid to have a mess of weapons around that you wonder about them to to start with. She bought the kid the body armor (he didn't have money of his own), and she sat there while the kid spent most of the day playing violent video games in the basement of the house, and didn't wonder why the kid was doing nothing, doing that for years. My personal opinion she was a nut herself, the survivalist stuff alone, the reveling in gun ownership, smacks of that, but the key thing is she has a kid that a 6 year old child could tell was off, not normal, and she fed that, didn't get him help, sat there while he basically moldered for several years, and allowed him access to all kinds of weapons. She wasn't a victim, she was the poster child for someone with shit for brains, to say the least. I would be concerned if my son was into shoot em up games (he has had a couple, played them briefly, and thought they were hysterical), and all he did was play them day after day and he is normal (though after playing them like that, I wonder if a normal kid would come out straight, it can't be good for you), but she was oblivious to what he was doing. Yes, he was 20, but it was her house, and she could set the rules, but she didn't. And leaving the gun safe open, the weapons lying around the house? That is like leaving matches around a 5 year old and then sitting back and saying "I can't understand how the house burned down".

I don't have problems with gun ownership even though I choose not to, but I also think it is about time we had accountability for gun owners, too, for their stupidity. We have a lot more accountability with cars and boats then we do with guns, and that is idiotic.



I don't know where that came from, but it isn't true, that is typical of what passes for debate these days, can't come up with an answer, claim something stupid (I have met transgender people I think who were morons, but wasn't over doing things differently then myself, I have called them morons for judging other people). This isn't about a matter of style, Nancy Lanza had a kid who was off the rails, and it wasn't just being autistic, and if I put a case in front of a jury, few people would assume via the rational man logic that what she did was anything but moronic. She had a kid who had severe problems, couldn't function, and her answer was to let him sit there day after day playing violent video games, she gave him body armor, took the kid shooting, apparently gave him money to buy his own gun, let him have access to the guns (explain to me the opened gun safe), and you consider that responsible parenting? Not to mention a house full of knives, swords, etc? This isn't s disagreement over parenting styles, this is plain old fashioned stupidity.

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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/30/2013 10:20:13 PM   
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I've mentioned on several threads in the past that My girl child (now grown) was pretty tough to raise. As much as I was concerned about being the only adult in the house while MP was deployed for safety reasons, and a gun in the house would have leveled the playing field if we ever had a break in, I was actually more worried about the kid getting the gun. She got in My fireproof document safe more than once. All it took was her finding where I had the combination written down.

The gun safe wasn't going to stop Adam Lanza. Even if Nancy Lanza had made the same choice about not owning guns until Adam moved out, all that would mean would be that he would postpone whatever plan he had until after his twenty-first birthday. In a small classroom at close range, he didn't even need what he had to get off twenty-two shots at mostly young children. The only difference would have been the actual number of holes that he was able to get into each of the victims.

I honestly don't know if tougher gun laws would have prevented Sandy Hook. Have a good look at illegal gun sales.





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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/30/2013 11:09:41 PM   
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Now you are simply lying. You very clearly posted that any TG person who looked at what they were doing as playing around with gender roles, was a moron. Your denial that you posted that isn't going to change the fact that you said it.

And now you are advocating more intolerance for 'loonies' and others who aren't 'normal', while trying to derail any attempt to discuss the importance of mental health issues.

Knock yourself out with the hatemongering, I won't be bothering to read any more of it.



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You also consider transgender people who don't do it your way to be "morons"... your words.

Whether you get off on being intolerant or not, the epidemic of suicide and its overlap with the profile of the school shooters is undeniable, and far too strong a positive correlation to be hand waved away.


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ORIGINAL: Nosathro

I am going to have to back track myself a little, I found out that Nancy did have a gun safe, it was in her bed room where she was killed, opened, now that is really and I mean really stupid. You have a person in your house, you claim they are out of control, violent, you leave guns out and not lock them up when you have the means to? I am not trying to fix blame on Nancy, but you have to admit she was irresponsible.

You may not, I am, I am a parent and I know how hard it is to be one, but quite frankly, the woman was either off the rails herself or was completely stupid, I suspect the latter. She wasn't alone in this, the father could be involved and if they wanted to get him committed, the guy had the firepower to do that. The guy is a senior executive at GE Capital in their tax office, I work with someone whose wife works in that division, the father is way, way up the food chain, he is making 7 figures, easily, and had the kind of legal help at his disposal that could get the kid into treatment, but apparently the wife didn't bother to ask him,

Every piece of evidence we have is that she was a stupid sack of shit, and if Oprah wants to claim she is a victim and the rest of the people saying she was a victim, I'll barf. I have heard advocates for the mental health community claiming Adam was a victim, that memorials should mention 28 victims, but that is crap. The kid went there to kill little kids, didn't give a crap, he knew it was wrong, he was wearing body armor, and he killed himself when he realized the cops were coming because he knew the consequences....I don't consider him a victim at all, to be honest.

As far as the mother, I don't want to hear how she was struggling to deal with him, it sounds to me like her answer was to let the kid around guns, shoot with him, and allow the kid to have a mess of weapons around that you wonder about them to to start with. She bought the kid the body armor (he didn't have money of his own), and she sat there while the kid spent most of the day playing violent video games in the basement of the house, and didn't wonder why the kid was doing nothing, doing that for years. My personal opinion she was a nut herself, the survivalist stuff alone, the reveling in gun ownership, smacks of that, but the key thing is she has a kid that a 6 year old child could tell was off, not normal, and she fed that, didn't get him help, sat there while he basically moldered for several years, and allowed him access to all kinds of weapons. She wasn't a victim, she was the poster child for someone with shit for brains, to say the least. I would be concerned if my son was into shoot em up games (he has had a couple, played them briefly, and thought they were hysterical), and all he did was play them day after day and he is normal (though after playing them like that, I wonder if a normal kid would come out straight, it can't be good for you), but she was oblivious to what he was doing. Yes, he was 20, but it was her house, and she could set the rules, but she didn't. And leaving the gun safe open, the weapons lying around the house? That is like leaving matches around a 5 year old and then sitting back and saying "I can't understand how the house burned down".

I don't have problems with gun ownership even though I choose not to, but I also think it is about time we had accountability for gun owners, too, for their stupidity. We have a lot more accountability with cars and boats then we do with guns, and that is idiotic.



I don't know where that came from, but it isn't true, that is typical of what passes for debate these days, can't come up with an answer, claim something stupid (I have met transgender people I think who were morons, but wasn't over doing things differently then myself, I have called them morons for judging other people). This isn't about a matter of style, Nancy Lanza had a kid who was off the rails, and it wasn't just being autistic, and if I put a case in front of a jury, few people would assume via the rational man logic that what she did was anything but moronic. She had a kid who had severe problems, couldn't function, and her answer was to let him sit there day after day playing violent video games, she gave him body armor, took the kid shooting, apparently gave him money to buy his own gun, let him have access to the guns (explain to me the opened gun safe), and you consider that responsible parenting? Not to mention a house full of knives, swords, etc? This isn't s disagreement over parenting styles, this is plain old fashioned stupidity.



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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/31/2013 12:00:01 AM   
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I've mentioned on several threads in the past that My girl child (now grown) was pretty tough to raise. As much as I was concerned about being the only adult in the house while MP was deployed for safety reasons, and a gun in the house would have leveled the playing field if we ever had a break in, I was actually more worried about the kid getting the gun. She got in My fireproof document safe more than once. All it took was her finding where I had the combination written down.

The gun safe wasn't going to stop Adam Lanza. Even if Nancy Lanza had made the same choice about not owning guns until Adam moved out, all that would mean would be that he would postpone whatever plan he had until after his twenty-first birthday. In a small classroom at close range, he didn't even need what he had to get off twenty-two shots at mostly young children. The only difference would have been the actual number of holes that he was able to get into each of the victims.

I honestly don't know if tougher gun laws would have prevented Sandy Hook. Have a good look at illegal gun sales.





Your have a couple of assumptions, one is based on your own experience. I am not sure what type of safe Nancy had but with some taken some precautions, combinations and keys can be hard to obtain. As to Adam moving out or being confined until he is 21 then released that too is questionable. If it is true Nancy was having Adam committed he would spend alot more time past the his 21st birthday before his release. If Nancy also became Adam conservator and was given powers 7s, which is most likely the case she would have the authority to not only place Adam in an total institution but have a say in how long he would stay there or where he would go after discharge. I know many people once committed are never released.

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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/31/2013 12:03:30 AM   
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Thank you njlauren for you insight and comments.

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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/31/2013 7:12:31 AM   
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Yeah, if you don't nip that scary knife/sword thing in the bud, you know what comes next, right? Ninjas!!! Ninjas and Asian gangs wanting to sleep with your daughters...

Wasn't that the mantra for the Aussie sword crackdown??


What are you trying to say?

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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/31/2013 7:47:15 AM   
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Thank you for taking the time to answer My question.

The gun that has the firepower to kill the moose would obliterate a rabbit. A smaller gun to kill the rabbit would leave the moose wounded and suffering in the wilderness until it bled to death.

There's a difference shooting animals in the wild than when the animal is fenced in and used to people walking up to it. Moose and bears are not the docile creatures that you find on farms. I didn't know until I moved up here, but moose charge. They are also pretty darn fast for an animal that can weigh up to 1400 lbs. You don't really have to do anything to tick it off.

I don't think I have the link from the last time I was on one of the gun threads, but when I looked it up a couple of months ago, roughly 25% of the Alaskan population hunts at least one time over a three year period. That's not including the hunting licenses that are issued to out of state visitors. Also not included are the people that go camping that need a gun for protection from wildlife. These are still good reasons to own guns.
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Alaska and fairly undeveloped places like that definately are different.. I dont disagree with that.. but most people live in or near a metro area cuz thats where the jobs are.. a gun is not a toy, its a tool but one that needs a lot of respect, if you need a certain gun for a specific logical reason, I have no problem with that at all.. as I have said, I am not anti-gun..

I just find gun "nuts" that glorify guns and rambo and Dirty Harry take-the-law-into-your-own-hands types to be scary.. those tend to be the ones that blow away door-to-door seafood salesmen, etc.. shoot first, ask questions later happens way too often imo..

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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/31/2013 7:50:56 AM   
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For those of us who find the left ridiculous check out this thread on my favorite Pro-RKBA forum http://www.thehighroad.org/showthread.php?t=710783 , it's about trying to see how the left sees firearms. It's hard not to laugh because you can totally see the idiots in the liberal media describing these guns in this fashion.

We need better civil commitment laws for the potentially deranged and dangerous. In Florida it is miserably difficult to Baker Act or Marchmen Act someone when you are not a cop. I get requests to help people with some degree of regularity and I turn them down because the process is an unmitigated joke. If I was ever to agree to an additional tax on firearms, I would agree to a five percent tax increase on firearm and ammo sales if it meant that at least one judge per county was to be available 24/7 for civil commitment hearings. If a judge, and two witnesses familiar with the party found the person to be a danger to themselves or others would result in a minimum three day detention with an in depth evaluation of the person. A doctor who found the person to be demonstrating signs of derangement or lack of empathy could sign off on the person to be interred for an additional week where a separate doctor would make another evaluation to determine if further detention was appropriate. After the three day and one week detention, any doctors further requesting detention would not be protected from suit for medical malpractice. Arresting officers who find a suspect to be making statements threatening violence or talking of suicide would also be able to write up a request for a doctor to evaluate the suspect and the suspect would not be able to go for bail till after a doctor made an evaluation.

So that's a start. Let's focus on the mental disease side of things because the right is not going to willingly give up its guns. Mental disease seems to be the cause in many murders and acts of crime so if we first deal with that and the issue persists, then we can evaluate what comes next. Till then, the feel good idiotic laws the left wants will be resisted at all turns by the right regardless. Simple as that.

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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/31/2013 9:01:50 AM   
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When the headlines and the legislators have to whip up hysteria over knives, I'm cynical that something is going on besides a deep concern for the thousands of schoolchildren killed every year by scary looking knives.

After Columbine there was a frenzy to ban 'bomb making materials', and any media report on an interaction between a teen wearing black clothing and law enforcement would dutifully intone 'Police seized 3 knives and bomb making materials from the suspects bedroom.'
The latter invariably turned out to be candles, matches, and a high school chemistry book.

Nobody would think it rational to try to solve another problem this way.

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Yeah, if you don't nip that scary knife/sword thing in the bud, you know what comes next, right? Ninjas!!! Ninjas and Asian gangs wanting to sleep with your daughters...

Wasn't that the mantra for the Aussie sword crackdown??


What are you trying to say?



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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/31/2013 9:29:24 AM   
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Your have a couple of assumptions, one is based on your own experience. I am not sure what type of safe Nancy had but with some taken some precautions, combinations and keys can be hard to obtain. As to Adam moving out or being confined until he is 21 then released that too is questionable. If it is true Nancy was having Adam committed he would spend alot more time past the his 21st birthday before his release. If Nancy also became Adam conservator and was given powers 7s, which is most likely the case she would have the authority to not only place Adam in an total institution but have a say in how long he would stay there or where he would go after discharge. I know many people once committed are never released.

Do you have a reference link that shows any attempt that Adam Lanza was in the process of being committed? My comment about him turning 21 was in reference to the fact that at the age of 21, he wouldn't have needed Nancy Lanza's weapons. At that time, he would have been an adult and could have purchased his own. The kid wasn't incompetent or a criminal before the shootings. There would have been no reason to have prohibited his own gun purchases.

It's not terribly hard to obtain a key or a combination when a person lives with you. How many people do you know that take their keys into the shower with them or wear their keys around their neck when they sleep at night? It's ridiculously easy for somebody who is in your own home to obtain your keys, especially if there's been no prior indication that you need to hide them from your own kid.



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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/31/2013 10:43:10 AM   
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The issue here is weapons that killed 22 people in five minutes and Lanza barely tapped into his arsenal's capabilities.

The Aurora shooter's magazine jammed, and act of God that may have saved 22 or more lives.

Yes cloudboy you are so right.

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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/31/2013 10:53:35 AM   
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Your have a couple of assumptions, one is based on your own experience. I am not sure what type of safe Nancy had but with some taken some precautions, combinations and keys can be hard to obtain. As to Adam moving out or being confined until he is 21 then released that too is questionable. If it is true Nancy was having Adam committed he would spend alot more time past the his 21st birthday before his release. If Nancy also became Adam conservator and was given powers 7s, which is most likely the case she would have the authority to not only place Adam in an total institution but have a say in how long he would stay there or where he would go after discharge. I know many people once committed are never released.

Do you have a reference link that shows any attempt that Adam Lanza was in the process of being committed? My comment about him turning 21 was in reference to the fact that at the age of 21, he wouldn't have needed Nancy Lanza's weapons. At that time, he would have been an adult and could have purchased his own. The kid wasn't incompetent or a criminal before the shootings. There would have been no reason to have prohibited his own gun purchases.

It's not terribly hard to obtain a key or a combination when a person lives with you. How many people do you know that take their keys into the shower with them or wear their keys around their neck when they sleep at night? It's ridiculously easy for somebody who is in your own home to obtain your keys, especially if there's been no prior indication that you need to hide them from your own kid.




It was reported in a few newpaper, however I myself have found no referrence to it. It is possible that Nancy could simply as many reported felt she could no longer contorl Adam and was preparing to have him declared a ward of the state. As reported and my own research seems to indicate that Connecticut has no age limitation on the purchase of rifles in fact it does appear Adam did attempt to purchase on prior to the incident but was turned down, the reason is not clear. So Adam did not need to turn 21 to purchase of rifle. It depends on what measure one takes to secure a safe key or combination. My own Mother had a small safe, and I could never find the combination. On her death, I has conservator had to have the safe opened by a licensed person.

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RE: It's Just so Scary -- Adam Lanza - 3/31/2013 11:24:47 AM   
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For those of us who find the left ridiculous check out this thread on my favorite Pro-RKBA forum http://www.thehighroad.org/showthread.php?t=710783 , it's about trying to see how the left sees firearms. It's hard not to laugh because you can totally see the idiots in the liberal media describing these guns in this fashion.

We need better civil commitment laws for the potentially deranged and dangerous. In Florida it is miserably difficult to Baker Act or Marchmen Act someone when you are not a cop. I get requests to help people with some degree of regularity and I turn them down because the process is an unmitigated joke. If I was ever to agree to an additional tax on firearms, I would agree to a five percent tax increase on firearm and ammo sales if it meant that at least one judge per county was to be available 24/7 for civil commitment hearings. If a judge, and two witnesses familiar with the party found the person to be a danger to themselves or others would result in a minimum three day detention with an in depth evaluation of the person. A doctor who found the person to be demonstrating signs of derangement or lack of empathy could sign off on the person to be interred for an additional week where a separate doctor would make another evaluation to determine if further detention was appropriate. After the three day and one week detention, any doctors further requesting detention would not be protected from suit for medical malpractice. Arresting officers who find a suspect to be making statements threatening violence or talking of suicide would also be able to write up a request for a doctor to evaluate the suspect and the suspect would not be able to go for bail till after a doctor made an evaluation.

So that's a start. Let's focus on the mental disease side of things because the right is not going to willingly give up its guns. Mental disease seems to be the cause in many murders and acts of crime so if we first deal with that and the issue persists, then we can evaluate what comes next. Till then, the feel good idiotic laws the left wants will be resisted at all turns by the right regardless. Simple as that.



After reading this you only prove your biased and at time humorous. Those with mental illness are no more dangerous then any other group. You seem to want to return to days of France in the 1800s were mental institutions were used to interaint people, nightly show were common. For someone who runs a carpet cleaning business it would appear you have a lack of training in mental health nor understanding. Oh and in civil confinement there is no bail. Also the Marchmen Act is for drug addiction. And do you still believe that those who commit suicide go to prisons? Nor is having a sign of a lack of empathy a sign of mental illness, read the DSM



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