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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/11/2013 8:12:30 PM

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Yes, LIFE is all about money. Now can we move on?

Well excuse me. Feel free to add to the important discussion, don't mind me or us. I was just addressing something I think you would have addressed had it been you. I just did it light heartedly. I'm not feeling so generous now.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/11/2013 8:14:12 PM

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It wasn't meant towards you. It was meant towards the op. I think we hear this sob story about 3 times a week.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/11/2013 8:16:24 PM

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It wasn't meant towards you. It was meant towards the op. I think we hear this sob story about 3 times a week.

Then I apologize for snapping at you.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/11/2013 8:31:06 PM

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I think the OP is confusing what goes on online with 'real life', and the twain in some cases shall never meet. The studies about people meeting online include professional matchmaking services like match.com and so forth, which is a little different then places like collar me because they are basically open to anyone, and in the online world with open sites the ratio of noise to real tends to be a lot, lot higher. It wouldn't surprise me if a lot of the women the OP found on here are pros (someone asking for money up front is a pro IMO), to say that all the younger dommes want money is false just because that is what happens on here. The reality is many of the dommes posting on here are pros looking for clients, and are probably more likely to respond if someone pings them then it is for a domme looking for a real life relationship.

It isn't that people can't meet online, they do, but rather that the noise to signal ratio is really high (it is like looking for a job, doing it online is the same way, the best job leads come from knowing people, networking), and I agree with others that you are far more likely to find a 'real life' relationship meeting people in person. To me, a fin domme relationship is inherently a pro one since in effect the whole relationship is giving money and things to the domme, but that is just my view of it, I don't quite get how someone could be a fin domme and have other levels to the relationship, but then again, since it is not my thing and I haven't done it, can't speak as an authority either:)

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/11/2013 8:35:01 PM

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We all want something here: Dominant/sub/slave/Top/bottom/Financial Dominant/Fetishist/Do Me/Female Supremacists/Goreans/Poly/Professional/Life Styler/Weekend Warrior/Master/slave/Sadist/masochist/Professional Dominants/switches/video models/writers/Online/Cam/Real life/whatever...........

Everyone wants something, so live and let live.

Some people want to vent and complain, so let them!
We cant stop these threads, but we can stop responding to threads we don't like.

I dont care if people start 500 threads on this topic every day.
Why the hell should I care?

To each their own

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/11/2013 8:44:33 PM

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I know I am absolutely, positively disgusted with financial Dommes. Cause only men are dumb enough to pay for it. Don't know too many financial Masters out there. Come on you female types. Start shelling out already!

Wow.

Most people figured out I was joking. You knew that, right?

As for payment. Everyone knows to use PayPal nowadays!

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/11/2013 8:46:25 PM

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Most people figured out I was joking. You knew that, right?

As for payment. Everyone knows to use PayPal nowadays!

Personally, I'm still waiting on your price list.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/11/2013 8:50:16 PM

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Damn it Bita, I say we all make wish lists and be done with it!!!

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/11/2013 9:48:36 PM

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I wouldn't care about woman who state in their profile that they are looking for money if I were you. It is actually quite convenient because you can just hide them and move on.

I can understand your frustration though. Just act like they never existed in the first place so that it doesn't bother you so much. Think about it...You wouldn't WANT to be with them anyways!

As for your statement about BDSM becoming all about the money, that isn't the case. It is just that so many fakes are able to quickly and easily try to scam gullible guys in the internet age. It literally takes a few minutes and they could potentially make hundreds or thousands of dollars for little to no work after making the profile.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/11/2013 10:11:50 PM

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I wouldn't care about woman who state in their profile that they are looking for money if I were you. It is actually quite convenient because you can just hide them and move on.

I can understand your frustration though. Just act like they never existed in the first place so that it doesn't bother you so much. Think about it...You wouldn't WANT to be with them anyways!

As for your statement about BDSM becoming all about the money, that isn't the case. It is just that so many fakes are able to quickly and easily try to scam gullible guys in the internet age. It literally takes a few minutes and they could potentially make hundreds or thousands of dollars for little to no work after making the profile.

You don't seem to understand something, it's not all about fakes and gullible guys. It's about men who want this kink of giving away their money, or buying things for women and the women who supply what they desire. There is a strong core here of people who seek out a particular act that satisfies them, and the people who furnish the act. Because of the nature of the act, money consensually changes hands.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/12/2013 6:23:20 AM

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If it's what a domme offers, no one has to take her up on it, so it's not really a problem. I used to think that it was a strange kink to have, just to give your money away for what seems like little or nothing in return, but if this is what the client/sub wants, then it is no stranger than any other kink I guess.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/12/2013 7:34:48 AM

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I know I am absolutely, positively disgusted with financial Dommes. Cause only men are dumb enough to pay for it. Don't know too many financial Masters out there. Come on you female types. Start shelling out already!

Wow.

Most people figured out I was joking. You knew that, right?

As for payment. Everyone knows to use PayPal nowadays!

My apologies then :)

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/12/2013 7:30:24 PM

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It is a market indicator of supply and demand. If you see the market as a bad one for male subs, you are right.

The good news is that's it's a great one for fem doms.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/13/2013 4:11:25 AM

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Oh dominant women are out there, they just may not be packaged the way they picture us. We are of all ages, shapes and sizes and though we have our differences, we rarely cater to the needs of the horny masses of men claiming to be submissive. There may be fewer of us out there than those catering, playing a part, focused on certain fetishes, etc, but we are there.

'Horny masses of men'?

Rawni, you make us sound like herds of randy buffalo

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/13/2013 5:31:26 AM

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I agree Op. You will find it down to pot luck and kettles...little wonder few genuine souls stay on this site for long. They simply get the wrong impression usually as some married bloke (yup mainly blokes are to blame or a 90-10 split) wants to insert the kitchen sink into various orifices whilst thrashing them with a toaster.

As for the findommes they should be placed in their own section...in with the olde drunken beat one out at 3am porn sites, mind you that means almost no-one at all would show up on my browse..oh that's right nearly all the genuine souls have had gone as this is their first real exposure to the theme and they perceive it to be full of mainly deranged loonies (not the lovable kind) escaped from the local sanatorium running amok, or that over 30-70% of ("female") users are after money.

Copyrighted images, whilst I am on the grumble id delete all em too, (what the fuk is the point of having a disclaimer on upload only to do fuk all about it when the loons upload garbage..(and remember some of those fin dommess it isnt even them (or its a picture 10 years olde or all the reality photoshopped out it) - usually man women gorilla looking to sucker in the poor genuine souls and take all their gold

But let’s not give a fukity - the site has changed little over the years..except there are less genuine people on it, which I thought not possible. People’s choices are limited here or fet...but again all websites are pretty much the same, same people, same lies, just the concentrations of genres, varies.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/13/2013 5:33:44 AM

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Oh dominant women are out there, they just may not be packaged the way they picture us. We are of all ages, shapes and sizes and though we have our differences, we rarely cater to the needs of the horny masses of men claiming to be submissive. There may be fewer of us out there than those catering, playing a part, focused on certain fetishes, etc, but we are there.

'Horny masses of men'?

Rawni, you make us sound like herds of randy buffalo !

I AM a herd of randy buffalo.

And you can quote me. (I ain't your average motherfucker)

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/13/2013 6:08:58 AM

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Oh dominant women are out there, they just may not be packaged the way they picture us. We are of all ages, shapes and sizes and though we have our differences, we rarely cater to the needs of the horny masses of men claiming to be submissive. There may be fewer of us out there than those catering, playing a part, focused on certain fetishes, etc, but we are there.

'Horny masses of men'?

Rawni, you make us sound like herds of randy buffalo !

I AM a herd of randy buffalo.

And you can quote me. (I ain't your average motherfucker)

I shall quote you on that

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/13/2013 6:29:29 AM

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No worries. We're all good. Actually we're all mostly naughty. But in a good way!

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/13/2013 6:35:43 AM

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It really shouldn't surprise anyone that there are people who want to be paid for the right to have their company. Certainly is just as common in the vanilla world.

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RE: Is it all about money??? - 7/13/2013 7:06:47 AM

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Randy Buffalo would either make a great band name or porn star name. Back to the OP's question, yes it is all about money. Just like everything else in our world ultimately revolves around money. Even if a potential doesn't actively seek it out, just getting together with them will involve money. I could reel out a laundry list of the connections, but I'mn sure you get the point.

Now if you'll excuse me, I need to go take a shirtless ducklips picture in my shabby bathroom while flipping the bird. Apparently, it's time to become a Fin-DOM. Hee hee hee.

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