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orgasmdenial12 -> How old are you really? (8/27/2013 7:53:01 AM)
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It's a funny thing, I thought only women lied about their age, but in the last year I must have had at least 20 men lie directly to me about their age. Also, by photographs that men publish of themself, I can see that there is a lot of dishonesty going on regarding age. Why is this?
With multiple BDSM websites, and people often sticking with the same user names that they are known by, it's very easy to compare one profile against another - something which I routinely do if I am being contacted by a potential Dom.
One Dom was lying by at least 15 years! Others routinely lie 6-7 years, anything up to 5 years is commonplace. Why bother to lie about something so petty?
I understand that some websites don't update your age automatically, but if you only joined 2 years ago, then how can it be 5 years out? Lol.
The common wisdom is that men grow better with age and that women enjoy the company of an older man. Is this no longer the case? Are men now under pressure to fake youthfulness to be considered attractive? I often hear older women complain that men their age are only interested in younger women. But are younger women becoming increasingly willing to select for younger men, pushing older men out of the dating loop too? And will older men become more and more dishonest about their age as time goes on, or begin dating more within their age range, thus freeing themselves of the pressure to lie?
And finally, why would a heavily wrinkled person with veiny hands ever think they could pass themselves off as a 38 year old? You can't always tell whether someone is married, or cheating, whether they're being honest about their job or where they live, but somebody's age is pretty much written all over them. So why lie?
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