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ORIGINAL: Snitch

I don't see any problem whatsoever with the OPs attitude.
In fact, I'm surprised the OP took all the psychobabble crap handed to him, like a man.
If I called the cops on everyone in my life who stared a few minutes too long, I'd own my own jail by now.

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ORIGINAL: kevin32
This. I was baffled by so many judgements and criticisms thrown at the OP, and equally astonished at his peaceful, non-confrontational resolve.

Ilyrium, I personally don't think anything is wrong with you. I think what's happening is you're simply expressing your love and appreciation for the female body through your thoughts. You should know that there is nothing wrong with this. You're as a blooming flower growing among the weeds of fear and separation.

It would seem that the creepiness factor only comes into play when a man is incongruent in his attitude. He wants to look but feels ashamed. He wants to express himself, but is afraid of backlash. But when you can boldly look at a woman's body through loving eyes, and revel in all those exciting feelings, even if she's a complete stranger and all you want to do is pleasure her, then on some level she will pick up on your sincerity and appreciate you in return, even if initially her conditioning resists and thinks something's wrong with you. When the tension between your interaction ends and you go your separate ways, she will ultimately say within herself, "He was appreciating me."

I am presently sending women into your life that you can enjoy the pleasure of beholding. But you should know that these women are not the kind you can only watch from a distance. They are women who are open to love, women who want not only to be looked at, but to be touched and ravished in love. And you are the man they are going to want enjoying them, freely.

The greatest thing you can do for humanity is be the man you feel yourself to be down in your soul. Embrace yourself as a man who appreciates the female body.

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It would seem that the creepiness factor only comes into play when a man is incongruent in his attitude. He wants to look but feels ashamed. He wants to express himself, but is afraid of backlash. But when you can boldly look at a woman's body through loving eyes, and revel in all those exciting feelings, even if she's a complete stranger and all you want to do is pleasure her, then on some level she will pick up on your sincerity and appreciate you in return, even if initially her conditioning resists and thinks something's wrong with you. When the tension between your interaction ends and you go your separate ways, she will ultimately say within herself, "He was appreciating me."

I am presently sending women into your life that you can enjoy the pleasure of beholding. But you should know that these women are not the kind you can only watch from a distance. They are women who are open to love, women who want not only to be looked at, but to be touched and ravished in love. And you are the man they are going to want enjoying them, freely.

The greatest thing you can do for humanity is be the man you feel yourself to be down in your soul. Embrace yourself as a man who appreciates the female body.

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ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity
There is a night and day difference between a "wow, she is pretty" look
...and "OP's "wow, she's pretty. Wonder what her clit and nipples would look like with my tongue wrapped around them. Oooh yeah, and my hands. Hands all over her breasts. What time is it? Shit, I've been doing this for the past hour. What the hell did I come to the library for?"

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ORIGINAL: Ilyrium

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ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity
There is a night and day difference between a "wow, she is pretty" look
...and "OP's "wow, she's pretty. Wonder what her clit and nipples would look like with my tongue wrapped around them. Oooh yeah, and my hands. Hands all over her breasts. What time is it? Shit, I've been doing this for the past hour. What the hell did I come to the library for?"

While this is very true, that's the entire reason I asked the question in the first place.

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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1
Most males don't cross that line even if they are thinking it.
You, apparently, do.

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ORIGINAL: dollenburg

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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1
Most males don't cross that line even if they are thinking it.
You, apparently, do.

You make me sorry for women in general. I read every response here and in none of them did the guy say he touched anyone or even made them uncomfortable. Yet you assumed he crossed the line.

Are you the thought police?

Tell me. What line did he cross?

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ORIGINAL: dollenburg

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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1
Most males don't cross that line even if they are thinking it.
You, apparently, do.

You make me sorry for women in general. I read every response here and in none of them did the guy say he touched anyone or even made them uncomfortable. Yet you assumed he crossed the line.

Are you the thought police?

Tell me. What line did he cross?

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ORIGINAL: Ilyrium

My question is hard to pose in words but what has always amazed me is that the moment I see any woman's breasts, I just want to hold them in my hands, fondle them, and suckle on them - yet - I doubt many women feel the same way about cocks.

I can't speak for "all men", but, as "on man", the moment I see a short skirt, I want to lift it up, and to give the woman the pleasure of a good licking. I wonder if women feel the same say about a man, say, in shorts (or a kilt?). Somehow I doubt it - but that's what I'm asking.

For men or women (of any ilk), do you have the same (or similar) feelings of wanting to lick and suck (in my case) a woman's breasts and kitty? When I see a nice set of buns, I just want to stick my tongue and make her writhe in pleasure.

What confuses me is whether I'm just weird, or if a lot of others strongly desire to lick another's body where they show it.

This is getting complicated to explain, but, this desire doesn't happen as much if the woman, for example, is in rollers and a house dress running errands at the grocery store.

It happens, to me, when a woman is "dressed up", and, in particular, that usually means a skirt, lipstick, heels, etc. So, for example, to further explain my dilemma, say I went to meet a hypothetical female friend who, say, (for whatever reason) dressed up for the occasion by wearing a miniskirt and a low slung tight blouse and red pumps. Trust me when I tell you, even if she were my best platonic friend, I'd STILL want to hold those boobs in my hands and pleasure them with my mouth, and even if we were BFF, I would STILL think about lifting that skirt and licking her to pleasure her until she screamed, and doing the same to her behind were she to enjoy that.

Of course, if I thought this hypothetical best female friend didn't want it, I would NEVER do it. ... but ... my dilemma is that there is absolutely no way I could stop myself from THINKING about pleasuring her, just by the sight, sound (of her voice and clicking heels, for example), and smell (various scents) of her.

Sorry for the long winded question, but, to try to summarize, do women (and other men) also feel like ripping the clothes off someone dressed sexily in order to pleasure them with their lingual abilities?

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ORIGINAL: Ilyrium




In fact, the woman who was baring her boobs in the grocery store chatted with me like anyone else would

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ORIGINAL: dollenburg

You make me sorry for women in general. I read every response here and in none of them did the guy say he touched anyone or even made them uncomfortable. Yet you assumed he crossed the line.

Are you the thought police?

Tell me. What line did he cross?

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ORIGINAL: TigressLily

Quickie Diagnosis: Your horniness is out of control. Get a grip of yourself. (Not that kind of grip.)

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ORIGINAL: Ilyrium

There's absolutely no way she's not seeking attention. And, just as absolutely, she knew what she was wearing in the morning. So, it's very hard to escape the conclusion "she just wants to be looked at" in a sexual way.

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

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ORIGINAL: Ilyrium
There's absolutely no way she's not seeking attention. And, just as absolutely, she knew what she was wearing in the morning. So, it's very hard to escape the conclusion "she just wants to be looked at" in a sexual way.

What the fuck?

Is this really an "It's the slutty bitch's fault" defence?