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What good is helpless bondage if there is no sex?

Once tied up, we almost always have sex

43% (43)

Once tied up, we sometimes have sex

26% (26)

Once tied up, we rarely have sex

11% (11)

Bondage is foreplay - we have sex after

11% (11)

Bondage destroys the mood

3% (3)

Sex is never involved with bondage

4% (4)

Total Votes : 98

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RE: What good is helpless bondage if there is no sex? - 12/19/2013 4:37:14 AM

GoddessManko

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Haha, is this a serious question?

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RE: What good is helpless bondage if there is no sex? - 12/21/2013 3:16:52 AM

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Sex isn't needed to explore a helpless sensation...

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RE: What good is helpless bondage if there is no sex? - 12/21/2013 9:52:56 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pompeii
I ask:
Q: Once the submissive is helplessly bound, what do you prefer next?

We don't even have sex at all when he's tied up. I just do delicous and/or sadistic things to the man while he can't squirm away from me...and he loves it.

That's not to say that sex won't happen but it's more likely to happen after the aftercare when we're more rested and in the headspace.

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RE: What good is helpless bondage if there is no sex? - 12/23/2013 4:04:09 AM

BossyShoeBitch

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

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Why would I want to ruin perfectly good endorphins with an orgasm?

Because what's a symphony without a crescendo?

Very well said Kana!

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