RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?..

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?..

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?..

Page: << < prev 3 4 [5] 6 7 next > >>

Login

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 2:50:01 PM

OsideGirl

Posts: 14441
Joined: 7/1/2005
From: United States
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

I'm just going to say that I don't think that remark was intended to be hurtful.

I don't think so either, but I also think it shows a subtle bigotry and a lack of empathy.

_____________________________

Give a girl the right shoes and she will conquer the world. ~ Marilyn Monroe

The Accelerated Velocity of Terminological Inexactitude

(in reply to xxblushesxx)

Post #: 81

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 2:50:46 PM

kiwisub12

Posts: 4742
Joined: 1/11/2006
Status: offline

I'm an RN, working in the OR - and I don't remember mutant kangaroos in Tank Girl. Of course, it has been a while, and I don't remember much about it.

(in reply to MAINEiacMISTRESS)

Post #: 82

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 3:05:17 PM

mnottertail

Posts: 60698
Joined: 11/3/2004
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS

Those aren't wank rabbits, they are genetically engineered war-kangaroos developed for the military. TANK GIRL was one of My favorite movies.

Blood and destruction shall be so in use And dreadful objects so familiar That mothers shall but smile when they behold Their infants quarter'd with the hands of war; All pity choked with custom of fell deeds: And Caesar's spirit, ranging for revenge, With Ate by his side come hot from hell, Shall in these confines with a monarch's voice Cry 'Havoc,' and let slip the KANGAROOS of war; That this foul deed shall smell above the earth With carrion men, groaning for burial.

I knew that would come in handy someday.

You can of course, as is usual, quote me.

_____________________________

Have they not divided the prey; to every man a damsel or two? Judges 5:30

(in reply to MAINEiacMISTRESS)

Post #: 83

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 3:14:10 PM

xTightlylacedx

Posts: 21
Joined: 4/25/2013
Status: offline

I try very hard to break software for a living. Programmers hate me, but I help make their code better.
And I've never even seen Tank Girl.

(in reply to mnottertail)

Post #: 84

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 3:20:45 PM

anniezz338

Posts: 1183
Joined: 8/17/2010
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

quote:

ORIGINAL: LorraineCA

I'm stuck on California's welfare system due to racism. But this thread isn't about me and how I support my beautiful 5 children. This is about what people do for a living. Thank you.

Really? Since this thread has already been hijacked, would you care to tell us how racism has you stuck on welfare?

I'm very interested in your answer.

BTW: I'm very aware racism exists, and feel free quality child care should be provided for all who can't afford it.

I would like to hear the answer on this too.

And this is one of my biggest pet peeves. If you can't afford to raise your children, QUIT HAVING THEM.

That is all.

(in reply to ChatteParfaitt)

Post #: 85

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 3:24:11 PM

jlf1961

Posts: 14840
Joined: 6/10/2008
From: Somewhere Texas
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: anniezz338

quote:

ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

quote:

ORIGINAL: LorraineCA

I'm stuck on California's welfare system due to racism. But this thread isn't about me and how I support my beautiful 5 children. This is about what people do for a living. Thank you.

Really? Since this thread has already been hijacked, would you care to tell us how racism has you stuck on welfare?

I'm very interested in your answer.

BTW: I'm very aware racism exists, and feel free quality child care should be provided for all who can't afford it.

I would like to hear the answer on this too.

And this is one of my biggest pet peeves. If you can't afford to raise your children, QUIT HAVING THEM.

That is all.

Gee there was a way to ask the question without being brutal. I nominate ChatteParfaitt for the collarme diplomatic question of the month award.

_____________________________

Boy, it sure would be nice if we had some grenades, don't you think?

You cannot control who comes into your life, but you can control which airlock you throw them out of.

Paranoid Paramilitary Gun Loving Conspiracy Theorist AND EQUAL OPPORTUNI

(in reply to anniezz338)

Post #: 86

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 3:27:49 PM

anniezz338

Posts: 1183
Joined: 8/17/2010
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: jlf1961

quote:

ORIGINAL: anniezz338

quote:

ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

quote:

ORIGINAL: LorraineCA

I'm stuck on California's welfare system due to racism. But this thread isn't about me and how I support my beautiful 5 children. This is about what people do for a living. Thank you.

Really? Since this thread has already been hijacked, would you care to tell us how racism has you stuck on welfare?

I'm very interested in your answer.

BTW: I'm very aware racism exists, and feel free quality child care should be provided for all who can't afford it.

I would like to hear the answer on this too.

And this is one of my biggest pet peeves. If you can't afford to raise your children, QUIT HAVING THEM.

That is all.

Gee there was a way to ask the question without being brutal. I nominate ChatteParfaitt for the collarme diplomatic question of the month award.

Oh I could have been alot more brutal since I am one of the women who could never have kids. Mind your own business wankrabbit.

(in reply to jlf1961)

Post #: 87

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 3:49:00 PM

jlf1961

Posts: 14840
Joined: 6/10/2008
From: Somewhere Texas
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: anniezz338

Oh I could have been alot more brutal since I am one of the women who could never have kids. Mind your own business wankrabbit.

My original reply was pulled, so suffice it to say, one who turns and attacks allies soon find themselves with ass swinging in the wind and the rope about to break.

_____________________________

Boy, it sure would be nice if we had some grenades, don't you think?

You cannot control who comes into your life, but you can control which airlock you throw them out of.

Paranoid Paramilitary Gun Loving Conspiracy Theorist AND EQUAL OPPORTUNI

(in reply to anniezz338)

Post #: 88

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 3:51:55 PM

servantforuse

Posts: 6363
Joined: 3/8/2006
Status: offline

I guess Lorraine didn't want to expand on that. I too would like to hear her reason.

(in reply to ChatteParfaitt)

Post #: 89

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 4:11:37 PM

Dvr22999874

Posts: 2849
Joined: 9/11/2008
Status: offline

I was a chef but these days, due to my sheer laziness and sloth, I am a navel draughtsman...................I design belly-buttons for teddy bears

(in reply to servantforuse)

Post #: 90

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 4:22:55 PM

Rasciallymisty

Posts: 5749
Joined: 4/16/2012
Status: offline

Owner of a daycare....which allows me to act like a kid all day and no one questions me when I am doing so.

_____________________________

~misty~

Been here since 2004

Fear has two meanings: "Forget Everything And Run" or "Face Everything And Rise." The choice is yours!!!!!

(in reply to tallandsweet16)

Post #: 91

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 4:58:32 PM

Phoenixpower

Posts: 8098
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Wow. This thread took the express train to hen-party hell.

That's one way of putting it.

Here's the thing, though. There are women out here who very much wanted children but for whatever reason were unable to have them (conceive, IFV, adopt, etc). For some of us, that reality was gut wrenching. I personally went through a grieving process in therapy.

Not anyone's problem, I get that. But we are constantly faced with hearing from moms how great, important, difficult their jobs are. And I get that. What I *don't* get is the constant "less than" message we get: "You don't know what tired is, unless your a mom." " You do t know what real, deep love is, unless you're a mom." "You don't know what difficult/worry/stress/etc. is, unless you're a mom."

Add to that, the work place. When you're the only woman working the overtime, or covering work for the moms with sick kids, etc.

Trust me when I say it gets old. And it can feel like salt on a wound. So, at times, we react to it. Especially when someone throws in, "I feel sorry for you, because you're not a mom."

I was not offended by the remark, but I didn't like it. And I admit to getting irritated at the overall message of, "Your life is not as important or fulfilling, because you're not a mom."

Very well said...in day life when I observe how some mothers behave in stores or on footpaths as if they deserve the red carpet just for driving their kid around and expect everyone to be oh so interested in their nappy-wearer and jump the queue for it and feel oh so special and so on, all I can think of is "another one who forgot her brain in the hospital after the childbirth..."

Now thats just my sarcasm and not to offend anyone but observing mothers can really be quite interesting

_____________________________

RIP 08-09-07

The PAST is history, the FUTURE a mystery, NOW is a gift - that's why it's called the PRESENT

www.butyoudontlooksick.com/navigation/BYDLS-TheSpoonTheory.pdf

(in reply to NuevaVida)

Post #: 92

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 5:19:28 PM

LorraineCA

Posts: 114
Joined: 12/10/2013
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

quote:

ORIGINAL: LorraineCA

I'm stuck on California's welfare system due to racism. But this thread isn't about me and how I support my beautiful 5 children. This is about what people do for a living. Thank you.

Really? Since this thread has already been hijacked, would you care to tell us how racism has you stuck on welfare?

I'm very interested in your answer.

BTW: I'm very aware racism exists, and feel free quality child care should be provided for all who can't afford it.

If your are referring to me, I never hijacked this thread. I realize that people joke around, butt shoulders, ask silly questions and make silly comments and this is all cool. But when someone hijacks a thread they are changing the subject without any provocation. I never did this. Someone aks me a question and I answer it honestly. If you are looking for people who hijacks threads, why don't you nail those people who aks questions of another that has nothing to do with the subject matter?

Someone aks me, "Your profile reads like you are single so how can you be a stay at home single mom of 5 kids? Heck, I have only 2 and could not afford to even be just part-time!!" Why didn't you say to this person, "Oh you are hijacking this thread because you are aksing a question that doesn't even relate to it."? But when I give an honest answer you says, "I hijack the thread."

Why is that?

To the Moderator: I never hijacked this thread. People aks me a question and I give an honest answer. I even stated earlier that this thread is about the original question and not about me. Don't I have a right to answer someone if they aks me a question?

(in reply to ChatteParfaitt)

Post #: 93

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 5:23:33 PM

mnottertail

Posts: 60698
Joined: 11/3/2004
Status: offline

Lorraine,

since this is casual banter, in off topic, the 'hijacking' of threads is more benevolently overseen here, and great latitudes of thread drift are common.

At some point a moderator may indeed come in here and restate the topic and say get on with it (not doing so is a 3 day ban) but usually they are quite laissez faire here in this forum.

_____________________________

Have they not divided the prey; to every man a damsel or two? Judges 5:30

(in reply to LorraineCA)

Post #: 94

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 5:28:15 PM

LorraineCA

Posts: 114
Joined: 12/10/2013
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Lorraine,

since this is casual banter, in off topic, the 'hijacking' of threads is more benevolently overseen here, and great latitudes of thread drift are common.

At some point a moderator may indeed come in here and restate the topic and say get on with it (not doing so is a 3 day ban) but usually they are quite laissez faire here in this forum.

Thank you for letting me know. I didn't know this. But I still assert I didn't hijack this thread. And my premise still remains. If my answers are considered hijacking the thread, then the person aksing me the question is also hijacking the thread.

(in reply to mnottertail)

Post #: 95

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 5:34:08 PM

shiftyw

Posts: 2837
Joined: 6/6/2013
From: The Shire
Status: offline

I don't think she said you intentionally hijacked this thread.

I think she said "Since we're already so far off topic, I'm going to continue the trend"
(just how I read it)

But for what its worth- I'd also like to know the answer to her question.

(in reply to LorraineCA)

Post #: 96

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 5:36:58 PM

MAINEiacMISTRESS

Posts: 1180
Joined: 9/12/2012
Status: offline

I used to be a Nauga breeder specializing in spotted and lop-eared Naugas. However, that all ended with the hoof & mouth outbreak a few years ago.

(in reply to shiftyw)

Post #: 97

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 5:39:06 PM

OsideGirl

Posts: 14441
Joined: 7/1/2005
From: United States
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: LorraineCA

If your are referring to me, I never hijacked this thread.

She didn't say you hijacked the thread. She said...."since it's already drifting, I'm going to continue the drift".

And Mods view that going off topic in the Off Topic forum is acceptable.

_____________________________

Give a girl the right shoes and she will conquer the world. ~ Marilyn Monroe

The Accelerated Velocity of Terminological Inexactitude

(in reply to LorraineCA)

Post #: 98

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 5:41:39 PM

ShaharThorne

Posts: 11071
Joined: 2/24/2009
From: Somewhere in TX
Status: offline

Disabled due to mental illness which is hereditary. Used to do volunteer work at my daughter's Headstart program while going to college, did electronic retail, maintain webpages, temp jobs until getting hired by the State of Texas as an admin tech II (dealing with insurance companies). Was on welfare for 18 months until I started going to college so I could spend time with my only (4 miscarriages, 5 babies) child.

_____________________________

Goddess of Yarn

You are making two and a half feet of irresistible, tubular sex! -Lola, Kinky Boots

Founder: Bitch with Tits

Whip me, beat me, make me feel cheap and have great sex

(in reply to shiftyw)

Post #: 99

RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?.. - 1/8/2014 5:45:38 PM

VideoAdminGamma

Posts: 2233
Status: offline

Closed for review

_____________________________

"The administration has the authority to handle situations in whatever manner they feel to be in the best interests of the forum, at that moment, in response to that event. "

http://www.collarchat.com/m_72/tm.htm

(in reply to ShaharThorne)

Post #: 100

Page: << < prev 3 4 [5] 6 7 next > >>

All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> RE: what does everybody do!? for a living/job?..

Page: << < prev 3 4 [5] 6 7 next > >>

Jump to:

New Messages	No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages	Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages	Locked w/o New Messages

Post New Thread

Reply to Message

Post New Poll

Submit Vote

Delete My Own Post

Delete My Own Thread

Rate Posts

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.109