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Squirting - 2/22/2014 8:29:02 AM

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I am trying to learn how to make a sub squirt? I know about the come hither method. Could anyone offer any more advice?

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 8:40:10 AM

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A specific sub, or subs in general?

Because not every woman can do it, not all of those who can do so reliably, and each woman who does will have a slightly different method that works for her.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 8:44:09 AM

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Intense clitoral stimulation through use of a wand or if you can, oral stimulation. Keyword though is INTENSE, but you have to be careful to not do too much too soon because that is a sensitive area generally. So I would recommend the wand...if she may orgasm once but with continued stimulation eventually squirt. Otherwise, yes...come hither with the two curved fingers. The extremely rapid movement is guaranteed to make her squirt.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 8:52:42 AM

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I presume you mean female submissive? Making a male submissive squirt is no magic trick. Google it under video search. Lots of instructional movies with anatomical drawings.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 8:58:21 AM

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Intense clitoral stimulation through use of a wand or if you can, oral stimulation. Keyword though is INTENSE, but you have to be careful to not do too much too soon because that is a sensitive area generally. So I would recommend the wand...if she may orgasm once but with continued stimulation eventually squirt. Otherwise, yes...come hither with the two curved fingers. The extremely rapid movement is guaranteed to make her squirt.

Over decades of sex with many different partners, none of this has made me squirt, and I'm sure that's true for many other women as well. So while these techniques may work for some women, I wouldn't label them "guaranteed."

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 9:07:12 AM

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What Kalikshama said.

I can squirt, although I really don't like it. None of the methods mentioned would work for me.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 11:24:49 AM

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And I believe squirting is more common for the subsequent orgasms after the first one is out of the way.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 1:54:20 PM

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wtf is the "come hither" way?

The only way I ever squirt is intense orgasms and fisting. Nothing else does.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 2:14:28 PM

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"Squirting", by which I take it you mean female ejaculation as popularized through the venue of modern pornography, may have one of two sources: it may be vaginal lubricant, or it may be diluted urine. Trying to measure the chemical composition of the ejaculate is not as cut-and-dried for women as it would be for men, simply due to biological construction. You're looking at one formative region where multiple fluids consistently gather.

Stimulation may induce either of these liquids to flow (look up Skene's gland if you're curious about current medical opinions), however there is also the mindset to consider. The female orgasm requires mental stimulation as well, and without the right kind of stimulant applied or induced, your odds of success dwindle considerably.

Also worth noting is that intense stimulation is not the same as excessive; going over the same spot repeatedly can cause irritation and unwanted pain.

If you want to sexually please a woman, get into her head, and then explore her body. She is a geography that was always there, but otherwise unexplored (and untamed) by you. Go hither and learn of her, if she is the territory you would claim.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 2:27:17 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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Intense clitoral stimulation through use of a wand or if you can, oral stimulation. Keyword though is INTENSE, but you have to be careful to not do too much too soon because that is a sensitive area generally. So I would recommend the wand...if she may orgasm once but with continued stimulation eventually squirt. Otherwise, yes...come hither with the two curved fingers.]The extremely rapid movement is guaranteed to make her squirt.

Over decades of sex with many different partners, none of this has made me squirt, and I'm sure that's true for many other women as well. So while these techniques may work for some women, I wouldn't label them "guaranteed."

OP, some women can/will, some women can't/won't. And just so you know, some women who don't squirt can have orgasms so intense they pass out, so don't gauge your effect on her this way.

Much to men's occasional frustration and chagrin, one size does not fit all, even on the same woman. What works one day is no guarantee of success next week when her emotional, hormonal, and physical state may be different. When in doubt: ASK what she needs!

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 2:39:02 PM

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........If you want to sexually please a woman, get into her head, and then explore her body. She is a geography that was always there, but otherwise unexplored (and untamed) by you. Go hither and learn of her, if she is the territory you would claim.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 2:46:23 PM

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'Come hither' is the look you get in B&W movies when a woman quirks an eyebrow and crooks a finger, making a 'Come here!' beckoning motion with her index.
Repeat the 'come hither' gesture firmly and quickly but gently inside the top third of the vagina once the g-spot is engorged from foreplay.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 2:52:45 PM

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I can tell you honestly from personal experience that the come hither method will work almost every time. I have only seen/done it in rapid movements and the woman will squirt almost instantaneously. I have seen it done to 10 women in a row in one night and they squirted almost immediately 100% of the time so I would be hard pressed to imagine it not working unless she is a VERY exclusive case.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 3:04:07 PM

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Doesn't work for me, didn't for my ex girlfriend either. Several women in this thread have said, directly or indirectly, that it doesn't work for them. If we're all exceptional cases, it's a hell of a coincidence.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 3:09:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

I can tell you honestly from personal experience that the come hither method will work almost every time. I have only seen/done it in rapid movements and the woman will squirt almost instantaneously. I have seen it done to 10 women in a row in one night and they squirted almost immediately 100% of the time so I would be hard pressed to imagine it not working unless she is a VERY exclusive case.

I hate to burst your bubble, but between my divorce and meeting my next (and current) 'permanent' OH, I must have dated several dozen over a 5 year period.
I had two (yes, just the two) women who would squirt easily.
My OH and probably over half of my previous dates would not squirt at all no matter how hard we tried or how excited they were.
About a third of them were really hard work.
And one lady who I almost married has only ever 'cum' just the once in all our exertions.

If anyone is naive (or pig-headed) enough to spout that xyz method works 'guaranteed' or 'almost every time' is either inexperienced, been plain lucky, or is just a jerk.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 3:16:29 PM

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Also, I have to say that I don't like squirting. Extra mess and guess who has to clean it up? Plus it is not more "extra special" than any of my normal orgasms. In fact, it is less so because it is so freaking wet down there the guy inside me better be very well endowed. And let's face it, most are average.

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Intense clitoral stimulation through use of a wand or if you can, oral stimulation. Keyword though is INTENSE, but you have to be careful to not do too much too soon because that is a sensitive area generally. So I would recommend the wand...if she may orgasm once but with continued stimulation eventually squirt. Otherwise, yes...come hither with the two curved fingers. The extremely rapid movement is guaranteed to make her squirt.

Over decades of sex with many different partners, none of this has made me squirt, and I'm sure that's true for many other women as well. So while these techniques may work for some women, I wouldn't label them "guaranteed."

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 3:21:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko
I can tell you honestly from personal experience that the come hither method will work almost every time. I have only seen/done it in rapid movements and the woman will squirt almost instantaneously. I have seen it done to 10 women in a row in one night and they squirted almost immediately 100% of the time so I would be hard pressed to imagine it not working unless she is a VERY exclusive case.

Ten women is not representative of the entire female population.

I have not now and never will squirt, I've never even come close, and I've had millions of orgasms. I literally came over 100 times in a day and did not squirt. I think it is kind of offensive to suggest that every woman will do it. If I'm being completely honest, I'm not even convinced it's not just peeing due to weak pelvic muscles. *shrugs* you have sex your way and I'll have it my way and if both of us are happy then neither of us needs to be saying what the others should or could be doing :-)

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 3:28:26 PM

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Never have, never will, never saw myself lacking in orgasm quality or frequency.

You can come hither all you want, I would rather be with someone who did not judge my orgasms as a badge of honor or ego boost.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 3:29:45 PM

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Yah...I know it was a straw sample but it worked 100% of the time. It was a bet, and yah, you can guess who won. :)
Because they ALL SAID the very same things some of the women on here are saying. It was their first time in their entire lives squirting and most were older than me.
This is why I said I would be hard pressed to imagine it not working though some of the women on here claim it won't for them.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 3:36:01 PM

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It's happened several time, really don't know why it happened, the sex wasn't magically better, the orgasm not more earth shattering (actually twice they were more of a mild flutter, you know kind of plain faire, not a spicy dish, OK but nothing worth writing home about), never been a big deal for me but the guys behaved like they did something super special and turned into sex gods. Chatting with other women, it seems it's pretty much the same with them. Squirting seems a much much bigger deal for guys than women, because somebody or something (I blame porn), told them that only super studs can do it. I really don't get the big deal about it. Maybe it's something to brag to their friends about?

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