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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 3:43:02 PM

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OP asked a question.
Some have suggested things which are 'almost guaranteed' to work.
Unfortunately, everyone is different and even the same person can be different every day.
It's not the sort of "if I cut your head off, will they live?" kind of question and there is no definitive answer.
What works for some won't work for others.

This is a schoolboy type question for someone trying to get past 1st base.
The OP is a 36yo male and I'm surprised he hasn't learnt a few tricks at his age.

As for someone insisting that something like a wand and intense stimulation does the trick, I can assure OP that if I tried that with my OH I'd find it shoved soo far up my ass that you wouldn't be able to find the off switch!!
And I can categorically say, that not all women have the same switch. Period.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 4:17:12 PM

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I never squirted until in my 30's, and I was one of the ones who frankly didn't believe it existed. From the sounds and hip motions I make and the 'bearing down' sensation, I feel it's analogous to an extremely long male ejaculation.
What irks me is a lot of articles, in books and online, don't make it clear you have to be very aroused for the G-spot to be engorged before it can be easily identified and massaged.
And for me it is the strongest, longest and most exhausting orgasm, to the point that I can fall asleep while still spurting!
And also for me, queening a good man means gravity helps the g-spot engorge much more quickly as well as the obvious arousal properties. And of course, some partners find it to perfection on the first try and are purring 'Come allll over me' in no time, and some need feedback. For me, the only problem is delaying gratification; do I try to come now and have a great multiple orgasm, or do I hang on in hopes of ejaculating? Decisions, decisions, and sometimes my body takes over one way or another; this is one instance where my orgasms are more reliable with a good and trained man who can monitor my responses without my having to; I can just lie back [or otherwise, as above] and literally let go!

Cleanup isn't an issue any more with the 'mink' blankets; much better than a towel. Or just come parallel to the foot of the bed, then have your partner pull you up to your usual sleep position [cuz nope, you won't be in control of your limbs for a considerable time] and away from the wet.

I'm sure after retirement I'll be living somewhere warm and running spurting seminars.
So to all ladies with an interest, a pleasing and intelligent partner and or two vibes, to the question, 'Do you ejaculate?' I would urge you to grin and say, 'Not yet!'

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 5:03:28 PM

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Hey, great if it works for you, I really found it rather meh, I'm not saying that I don't believe you and that it isn't great for you, but the girls I know personally, can't say they were all that excited about it. I guess for some women it's great but from the sound of it and the few times it happened to me, for most of us it's more a "take it or leave it" thing that doesn't enhance orgasms. I guess it's like spices, you like them or you don't.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 5:55:33 PM

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Eh. I like it. Mostly cause he's so into it though.
There really isn't a set way for me. Its almost always a surprise.
One time he has to really work for it, another time if he just touches me just right.
It is most certainly not like porn, at least not for me. I don't gush a geyser out from between my legs like that. I'm not sure if anyone does...

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 6:09:44 PM

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I don't gush a geyser out from between my legs like that. I'm not sure if anyone does...

But unlike many males, I'm not into the metrics of it as in how much or how far; just that it's more forceful than urination and of course, almost completely tasteless.
I did see a video of a girl who volunteered to g-spot orgasm for a radio sex show; I felt sorry for her since after she climaxed and ejaculated yards, there she was, coming down, still jerking and thrusting, and no one to kiss or cuddle her in her orgasmic flush; quite sad. But still, quite instructive, so I hope some good came of it for her as well as for others.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 6:09:51 PM

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Squirting isn't a big deal to me and both Master and I can take it or leave it. To us it's just messy and nothing else. I don't even know I'm squirting until after we're done and he either says something or I'm cleaning up the mess afterwards. It doesn't do anything special for each of us so it's not something either of us go out of our ways to achieve. If it happens, it happens. Meh.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 6:12:08 PM

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I can tell you honestly from personal experience that the come hither method will work almost every time. I have only seen/done it in rapid movements and the woman will squirt almost instantaneously. I have seen it done to 10 women in a row in one night and they squirted almost immediately 100% of the time so I would be hard pressed to imagine it not working unless she is a VERY exclusive case.

I guess I'm exclusive. That gives me great orgasms, but doesn't make me squirt.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 6:52:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

I can tell you honestly from personal experience that the come hither method will work almost every time. I have only seen/done it in rapid movements and the woman will squirt almost instantaneously. I have seen it done to 10 women in a row in one night and they squirted almost immediately 100% of the time so I would be hard pressed to imagine it not working unless she is a VERY exclusive case.

I guess I'm exclusive. That gives me great orgasms, but doesn't make me squirt.

You aren't alone. It never works for us with just that method.
I mean but like I said...I'm generally surprised and there seems to be little to no pattern for me.
The only thing thats been anything close to "consistent" for me is both internal and external stimulation- and even then I feel like its a crap shoot.

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RE: Squirting - 2/22/2014 6:57:42 PM

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Yup, basically. The only one thing that ever is consisten for me is fisting. But everything else is just kinda random. Sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't But like I said, for us, it's just messy. We're both kinda neat freaks so anything that is messy just sorta turns us off.

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RE: Squirting - 2/23/2014 1:08:19 AM

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My Master is only satisfied when I squirt. His method is to put the anal stretcher in then use the butterfly on me. I think all the constant pressure is what does the trick. He likes pink gel because it makes me very slippery and it's easy for him to enter either my ass or pussy when he's ready to climax.

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RE: Squirting - 2/23/2014 1:08:35 AM

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Yah...I know it was a straw sample but it worked 100% of the time. It was a bet, and yah, you can guess who won. :)
Because they ALL SAID the very same things some of the women on here are saying. It was their first time in their entire lives squirting and most were older than me.
This is why I said I would be hard pressed to imagine it not working though some of the women on here claim it won't for them.

The problem with this post is that it implies all the women here that don't do it aren't aware enough of their own bodies or haven't had the right sexual experience. We 'claim' that it doesn't work for us because we know our bodies pretty damn well and have tried a lot of things. You're not addressing a crowd of seventeen year old cosmo readers who are new to sex and don't know what's what. There's a vast amount of collective sexual experience here, from women who are confident and self aware enough to try things out and learn what works for them.

Why be dismissive of all these people's sexual experiences? You do know that some women can't orgasm at all, right?

I'm highly dubious that you (or your friend, whoever it was) found ten women who had never done it before and got them all to do so, almost immediately, using the same technique, in a public environment. That sounds like a brag story to me. But even if you did, please don't suggest that all these other people just don't have your sexual prowess.

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RE: Squirting - 2/23/2014 2:37:31 AM

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Its all in getting past what it feels like and to what it is once you pop you cant stop my sub's addicted

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RE: Squirting - 2/23/2014 2:38:58 AM

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And benwaballs will help drain the skene gland to help stop squirting bit you'll leak all day

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RE: Squirting - 2/23/2014 4:25:04 AM

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OK, again...you have to read my second post to why I am "HARD PRESSED" to believe it won't work:
!: These women were all older than me and all said the same thing.
2: It was not only the method used but the WAY it was used.
3: It worked 100% of the time on women who never squirted before in their lives.
4: 10 out of 10 women may not be every woman in the world (I'm aware of that) but it was a BET, they challenged us to make them squirt because they had never done it before and challenge was accepted and met.
5: People have a hard time accepting something that is outside of their own personal experience and I get that.

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RE: Squirting - 2/23/2014 4:58:15 AM

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Much like Tantriqu, it never happened in My world until I was 37. Had you asked Me before that, I'd have been just as firm that I'd never had that particular body response and hugely in doubt that it was going to happen ever. No problems in the orgasm department. The nice way to put it is that I'm very good for the male ego.

However, method alone won't do it in My case. If I'm not exceptionally turned on between My ears as well as between My legs, it's not going to happen.

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RE: Squirting - 2/23/2014 5:15:44 AM

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If you want to sexually please a woman, get into her head, and then explore her body. She is a geography that was always there, but otherwise unexplored (and untamed) by you. Go hither and learn of her, if she is the territory you would claim.

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RE: Squirting - 2/23/2014 5:53:07 AM

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With my girl, it depends on a few different factors. However, she must be highly aroused to squirt. I don't generally try to make her squirt, but it is a byproduct of some favorite activities of mine. Lots of foreplay(including spanking,flogging,etc.), using the two finger "come hither" stimulation of the front upper wall of the vagina, throw in a bit of cunnilingus, keep bringing her near the point of orgasm, stop, back to impact,foreplay, repeat as desired.

I enjoy laying on my back, her on top, in a 69 position, my cock in her mouth, and me with unfettered access to her nether regions. I begin my ministrations, bringing her close to the point of no return, over and over, mixing caressing, fingering, tonguing, licking, nibbling, and ass beating. When it's time, often a well timed blow with a closed fist to her back/shoulders is enough to make her orgasm. Depending on her level of arousal, she will squirt for every orgasm from here on. I'm having so much fun by now, I don't really care if she squirts or not, but she usually is. Some times it is just a trickle, other times, I have seen it actually travel quite far. Messy, yes, but that's all part of good dirty sex to me. Careful, I damn near choked to death one night when an ill timed inhalation almost drowned me. Luckily, I recovered.

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RE: Squirting - 2/23/2014 11:14:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

I can tell you honestly from personal experience that the come hither method will work almost every time. I have only seen/done it in rapid movements and the woman will squirt almost instantaneously. I have seen it done to 10 women in a row in one night and they squirted almost immediately 100% of the time so I would be hard pressed to imagine it not working unless she is a VERY exclusive case.

I wonder if it being in a group setting helped? I would guess exhibitionism would be more common in a group play setting.

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RE: Squirting - 2/23/2014 11:27:02 AM

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Doesn't work for me, didn't for my ex girlfriend either. Several women in this thread have said, directly or indirectly, that it doesn't work for them. If we're all exceptional cases, it's a hell of a coincidence.

Same here and I orgasm easily.

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RE: Squirting - 2/23/2014 11:33:22 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: hlen5

quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

I can tell you honestly from personal experience that the come hither method will work almost every time. I have only seen/done it in rapid movements and the woman will squirt almost instantaneously. I have seen it done to 10 women in a row in one night and they squirted almost immediately 100% of the time so I would be hard pressed to imagine it not working unless she is a VERY exclusive case.

I wonder if it being in a group setting helped? I would guess exhibitionism would be more common in a group play setting.

You know, I never thought of it before about it in the exhibitionist context, but you might be right. I think I may have to test out this theory (if time and place so allows).
What I do know is that the women were consistently held at a diagonal angle upside down where only their shoulders, neck and head touched the surface, arm wrapped around their torso and legs straddled across the shoulder. Index and middle fingers were hooked towards G spot and extremely rapid motions when there was finally penetration. Any other method/positions being able to work as effectively as that one is uncertain and I haven't practiced it outside of the realm of exhibitionism extensively so you may be right hlen5.

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