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RE: Squirting - 2/26/2014 6:39:50 AM   
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RE: Squirting - 2/26/2014 7:25:42 AM   
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You don't have to join in a discussion. If your not interested why even bother contributing?


I checked again out of morbid curiosity...

My view, and just my own personal view, mind you, is that if you squirt and you enjoy it, that's fine, if somebody has orgasms and doesn't squirt, that's also fine. The last thing though I want to see is anybody trying to make me feel inferior due to squirting, if and how much, that reminds me too much of guys measuring dicks, something I always found such a turn off, as it shows they are far too obsessed with their equipment.

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RE: Squirting - 2/26/2014 8:27:00 AM   
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Squirting produces a great orgasm but the mess distracts from it. If I could just get the orgasm and not all the fluid, which I have always kinda thought was urine, it would be great. With a partner, I find it slightly embarrassing and it inhibits me when it happens.

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RE: Squirting - 2/26/2014 11:24:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

I *am* interested in the discussion - I'm interested in why it's considered interesting.

Me too. 5 pages on this topic? I guess there's nothing left about BDSM, D/s, and M/s to discuss.

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RE: Squirting - 2/26/2014 1:06:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		OK, try this: "Women are more and more adopting 'competitive' and 'performance' attitudes towards sex that were once the province mainly of men. The aim to squirt is an example of this. Discuss. (100 Marks)."

Well all right, that's probably going a bit far. But, honestly, it's a really grim to get into 'sex as performance', that's all I'm saying.

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RE: Squirting - 2/26/2014 3:57:11 PM   
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Well, I'm not a maledom and I don't like the feeling. Get on with responding to my point, please. I don't like to be kept waiting.

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RE: Squirting - 2/26/2014 4:00:35 PM   
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RE: Squirting - 2/26/2014 4:02:13 PM   
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RE: Squirting - 2/26/2014 4:03:46 PM   
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Yes you do, if a man's got a fifty pence bit handy, anyway.


Is there nothing you wouldn't do for a good beating, you slut?

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RE: Squirting - 2/26/2014 4:06:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Jesus. I ask a question like this, and all the women go quiet, like a bunch of schoolgirls whose headmaster has just wagged his finger at them.

Well, I'm not a maledom and I don't like the feeling. Get on with responding to my point, please. I don't like to be kept waiting.

What exactly is your question, Whether women are competitive with one another as it relates to sexual performance?

Some women are sexually competitive, those who feel they have something to prove. Not the ones I know. I think women compete more for mates, or to brag on their man.

It seems to me it's the guys who are hung up on acquiring bragging rights. Perhaps you misunderstood what I meant by sexual prowess. It's not about competing with other women.

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RE: Squirting - 2/26/2014 4:42:40 PM   
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It seems to me it's the guys who are hung up on acquiring bragging rights. Perhaps you misunderstood what I meant by sexual prowess. It's not about competing with other women.


Really, FO? It's beginning to look suspiciously like that, I have to say. Blokes always talk in terms of how they're not competing with other blokes too . . . .


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RE: Squirting - 2/26/2014 5:10:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Really, FO? It's beginning to look suspiciously like that, I have to say. Blokes always talk in terms of how they're not competing with other blokes too . . . .


Please allow me to reiterate:

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

Some women are sexually competitive, those who feel they have something to prove. Not the ones I know. I think women compete more for mates, or to brag on their man.


To which I'll add: ... and how well he treats them.

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RE: Squirting - 2/27/2014 12:25:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think it has become very competitive. Not a lot mentioned on this site but take a look at the groups on FL. I suppose the thing that irks me a little is the huge amount of ignorance surrounding this sort of stuff. Women claiming it comes out of their womb, men insisting that 'he' can make every woman squirt, her letting go of a pint but getting all offended when people tell her its chemically changed urine and then tries to explain its some other love juice from her feminine pouch which is tucked deep inside her cunt.

Porn is what's brought squirting out into the open. Much of it is smoke and mirrors, some of it is real. Some find it sexy, others don't. Some people can properly squirt, others just piss themselves and claim they are squirting and some women will never squirt.

I agree with LC when she says, 'The last thing though I want to see is anybody trying to make me feel inferior due to squirting'.

Oh and this btw is a really good little article; http://kinseyconfidential.org/female-ejaculation-complicated/

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RE: Squirting - 2/27/2014 6:41:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


quote:

ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
It seems to me it's the guys who are hung up on acquiring bragging rights. Perhaps you misunderstood what I meant by sexual prowess. It's not about competing with other women.


Really, FO? It's beginning to look suspiciously like that, I have to say. Blokes always talk in terms of how they're not competing with other blokes too . . . .




Geez.... That measuring stick is going to be useful... Once guys locker room is done with it... We can send it over to the girls locker room to see who can spit the farthest!

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RE: Squirting - 2/27/2014 8:02:16 AM   
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Also Wikipedia on female ejaculation.
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Female ejaculation vs. squirting or gushing

Some aspects of the research community distinguish between female ejaculation and what is colloquially known as squirting or gushing.[2] These terms are used by the public interchangeably, which can lead to confusion. In these research publications, it is suggested that "real" female ejaculation is the release of a very scanty, thick, and whitish fluid from the female prostate,[2][46] while the "squirting or gushing" shown frequently in pornography is a different phenomenon, the expulsion of clear and abundant fluid, which has been shown to be a diluted fluid from the urinary bladder.[2] It is suggested that much of the obscurity and the uncertainties about female ejaculation are related to mixing up these two phenomena.


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RE: Squirting - 2/27/2014 8:08:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		Do you guys believe all female can squirt? I have never squirted in my life, and I'm the type that can be tied down with a wand vibrator until the wand vibrator burns out before I would cry for it to stop, if I lay in bed playing with vibes on myself, 8 hours can pass very fast, not kidding, and I can orgase forever non-stop, the multiples goes on forever. Even if together with finger stimulation, or additional dildos going in and out or whatever, never squirted. Even when I feel like I'm gonna pee, and I just let go, and nothing comes out. I felt like I have peed but nothing was release, felt like I just peed air.

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RE: Squirting - 2/27/2014 9:19:31 AM   
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The search for the Holy Grail continues!!!!

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RE: Squirting - 2/27/2014 11:40:43 AM   
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Found at the Other Site, by MariaB, who is too modest to post it here herself:



The real reasons why England was flooded

There once was a woman called Grace,
Who squirted all over the place,
This magical gold
She never could hold,
She really was quite a disgrace.

The women all wanted to know,
How she managed to have such a flow,
That they wanted it too
And if only they knew,
How to orgasm just like a pro

Grace advised other women to push,
If they really wanted to gush,
To sit on his weany
Bear down with her heany
And the water would come in a rush.

The women, they all had to try,
And not one of them claimed to be dry,
England was flooded,
All the people were hooded,
And the elders all started to cry.

The boat builders cottoned on fast,
A sailboat with fanciful mast,
As women kept gushing
The people kept rushing,
Cos water was coming in fast.

Poor Grace, she just took to her bed
And when she was asked, she just said,
I take all the blame
For the women that came
And no longer outside can I tread.

Then she put on her wellington boots,
And collected her heap of lawsuits,
Rowed down to the town,
In her silk dressing gown,
Where she met with a large crowd brutes

She wrote something out with a pen,
And then handed this note to the men,
Stop all your boasting,
Ill take the roasting,
And the water will subside in ten……. Weeks!

By MariaB!!!


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RE: Squirting - 2/27/2014 11:56:29 AM   
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RE: Squirting - 2/27/2014 10:42:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AlexisANew

I think it has become very competitive. Not a lot mentioned on this site but take a look at the groups on FL. I suppose the thing that irks me a little is the huge amount of ignorance surrounding this sort of stuff. Women claiming it comes out of their womb, men insisting that 'he' can make every woman squirt, her letting go of a pint but getting all offended when people tell her its chemically changed urine and then tries to explain its some other love juice from her feminine pouch which is tucked deep inside her cunt.

Porn is what's brought squirting out into the open. Much of it is smoke and mirrors, some of it is real. Some find it sexy, others don't. Some people can properly squirt, others just piss themselves and claim they are squirting and some women will never squirt.

I agree with LC when she says, 'The last thing though I want to see is anybody trying to make me feel inferior due to squirting'.

Oh and this btw is a really good little article; http://kinseyconfidential.org/female-ejaculation-complicated/

You're making me feel old, because the middle-aged women I know don't carry on like this. Not saying there aren't any who do. I know women can get competitive with one another, but it usually wasn't about female functions like orgasms or G-spots, and we didn't know about squirting back then. Is this a BDSM-centric thing, in your opinion?

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