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RE: Squirting - 2/27/2014 10:58:30 PM

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Hmm. I don't compete. I'm sure some folks do...insecurity has some people wanting to feel they've one-upped someone. When I was super insecure that was the case with me.

As for squirting. I squirt. A lot. I don't like it. It's fucking messy, and uncomfortable, and while the Mister loves its flavor and scent, I hate it. But I do. Sometimes it's from "G-Spot" stimulation, sometimes when I'm so sexually excited it just happens from barely being touched. It's a completely different substance than urine or thicker ejaculation, although sometimes it does have a more whitish essence to it. It feels much different than a clitoral orgasm. I actually like the feeling - like an inner rush of energy. Sometimes I have to bear down for it to happen (when I know he wants me to), and sometimes it just happens on its own.

It's something my body does. Nothing to brag about. It happens. The first time it happened, I had no idea what the hell was happening and it kind of scared me. The ex used to use a very large, fat dildo on me and use it very hard on/in me (like being fisted, perhaps). It would pour out of me when he did. After that, it just started happening on its own, and it doesn't take that huge dildo. It doesn't take much. Sometimes I can control it. Sometimes I can't.

I see people arguing on threads now & again about whether or not its real, or whether or not its urine, or whether or not it's fantasy, or competition or anything else. Meh. It happens. It's exhausting. And if I don't get up and clean myself off thoroughly right away, I might get a UTI, or I have a higher chance of ingrowns. I don't call that anything to brag about. Some men love it. Some men don't. Some don't care either way.

To make anyone feel "less than" because of what their body may or may not do is ridiculous. For a man to think he's reached his ultimate manhood by "making" a woman squirt is equally silly. The first time I squirted I was masturbating. Guess I should have put up a flag.

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 9:09:22 AM

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............. The first time I squirted I was masturbating. Guess I should have put up a flag.

Hee hee!!

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 12:36:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

To make anyone feel "less than" because of what their body may or may not do is ridiculous. For a man to think he's reached his ultimate manhood by "making" a woman squirt is equally silly. The first time I squirted I was masturbating. Guess I should have put up a flag.

LOL, you know for the guys trying to make the woman squirt because they think that shows what studs they are (and so they can brag to others) it would be such a wonderful put down... "It's not you, darling, it's just I do it so much better myself!" And then watch the ego deflate...

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 12:39:38 PM

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Well, the thing men like about squirting is they know that women are having a powerful orgasm when they do that, and so............men like women to have powerful orgasms, now; is that some measure of their (the mans ego) that they can create the situation? more than likely.....and aint that better than them wanting to clip a bob vila synergistic action racheting vicegrip from sears (c) on that clit?

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 12:48:15 PM

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It seems that the guys who place that much value on if she squirts or not are missing the point and seem to have deep rooted insecurities. I can't think of anything that would turn me off more than a guy intend on making me squirt, orgasms don't tend to happen (at least for me) when I would feel I'm under some pressure to perform. I prefer to have a partner who's intent on me enjoying myself when we're at it, instead of a guy who wants to measure how far I can squirt so he can tell the other dudes in the locker room, errr, I think I pass on that one...

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 1:22:31 PM

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Well, hold the phone, what is the point? Hey, look here I am one of those let's do 68, blow me and I will owe you one. I dont give the glimmer of a good goddamn fuck if you ever come. Not my problem. you women dont know your own bodies, why should we? We hear the harpies bitching, but hey, lets talk about the female orgasm.....well then you guys get all pillow mouthed, dont know, cant tell, well its different (and that is with a period) it changes...........

Hey, there is not one woman on this earth dont want a rodding like its Rah the sun god coming into his heavenly kingdom from doggy style every so often, hell even both lesbians with a strap on.

Based on estrogen running thru you, and testosterone running thru us, and without a knickers worth of how-to from you chaps, (cuz ask me how I wanna come and how to do it, and to say I can be loquacious about it is to understate it as largely as to say, 'King Lear fell into a little pout'.)

It is a communication issue, and the stuff coming out of womens mouths is fuckin that shit magazine asswipe you girls are always thumbin thru. 256 ways to arouse your man at Christmas? 256 ways to arouse your man for the holidays. Shallow, and naive. Blow me, I'm fuckin aroused.

So, where is the conversation? Can I just rut like a pig and you're gonna be ok? Cuz I am gonna love the shit outta that.....

Now, men need women as much as women need men (I should like to repeat that, because it bears repeating) women need men (in the het world I deal in.)

And you fuckers know and learned early the special ways you have to manipulate men.

But there is a pause here, cuz you are all willing to bitch about hubris and foibles of men, who when they do this shit (for their own egos or whatever) are seeking to become skillful lovers.....but you (and I know you guys got fucked in a double standard patriarchal chauvinistic society) aint real forthcoming about what is the way to nirvana here.....thats why you live with cats. Given your 'confusion' and your lack of honest and forthcoming communication about what feels right (yeah, I know...you will be called a whore and a slut for actually liking sex (if its about the sex for you, pass me by) and all that horseshit, and you worry if the iron is turned off, or that your toenail glue-ons are not painted the same color as your finger nail glue-ons..........let me say something about the elephant in the room right now, there aint one goddamn real man in this world who is gonna go, nah.......I can't fuck that ass, you got different colors..........K? Not NEVER. If he does, he is a homosexual anyway (and nothing wrong with that).

But the thing is, if it helps, it aint about you. Its about my ego if you squirt...does that take the pressure off? and hey...........for the bonus round.........I didnt get er done this time? I will practice like a motherfucker until I get it right.

Viola!!!! Un Homme!!! Regarde!!!

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 1:35:55 PM

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What would I know? 10 years with the same guy, quite happy and not sexually frustrated, and I didn't need to hand him a manual. So he might be super talented or he might not bother about the silly shit, oh and we're happily living with cats and dogs....

And seriously, if he would ever become such an ass that he'd put pressure on me and would feel the need to manipulate round so I squirt (because he wouldn't trust that I tell him that my orgasms are pretty good, though I have a feeling he does notice) so he'd feel he's done a good job, then I guess it would be time to look for another guy.

I could be wrong here, but I always thought sex is a team sport with at least 2 participants (not that I can't enjoy it on my own, but with the right guy it's just much better), not something where I have to perform something for the ego of a guy and because he doesn't know shit about my body or doesn't ask me what works for me...

You sound a bit frustrated, what's wrong? Somebody punctured your fave inflatable toy?

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 1:36:49 PM

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But the thing is, if it helps, it aint about you. Its about my ego if you squirt...does that take the pressure off? and hey...........for the bonus round.........I didnt get er done this time? I will practice like a motherfucker until I get it right.

Okay. First. Bolded part is the most important statement of the whole post. Second. That's the longest post I've ever seen from you. Damn! Your fired up!!

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 1:40:06 PM

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I'm not sure "Sunny" is the best descriptor for that post, but even so, it deserves the Sunny Quote of the Day nod, the whole damned thing

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 1:51:11 PM

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Ive never been with anyone who could make me "squirt", but when I masturbate, it just sort of all gushes out at one time, not really shooting out...Im not sure if that would count or not.

-Kitty<3

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 2:11:20 PM

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What would I know? 10 years with the same guy, quite happy and not sexually frustrated, and I didn't need to hand him a manual. So he might be super talented or he might not bother about the silly shit, oh and we're happily living with cats and dogs....

And seriously, if he would ever become such an ass that he'd put pressure on me and would feel the need to manipulate round so I squirt (because he wouldn't trust that I tell him that my orgasms are pretty good, though I have a feeling he does notice) so he'd feel he's done a good job, then I guess it would be time to look for another guy.

I could be wrong here, but I always thought sex is a team sport with at least 2 participants (not that I can't enjoy it on my own, but with the right guy it's just much better), not something where I have to perform something for the ego of a guy and because he doesn't know shit about my body or doesn't ask me what works for me...

You sound a bit frustrated, what's wrong? Somebody punctured your fave inflatable toy?

NO, the thing is.......so you hanging out with someone....you have low expectations, and insofar as I understand it, most women do.

Hell, I know if i started wrenching on a Jaguar with harbor frieght tools specials, I would be ok too.

How did I get to be the dickwiggler in this deal?

I get more blowjobs than you get mail addressed to postal patron honey. Like you say, not a contest, lets not make it one, I am asking questions from a mans perspective, trying to open a communication.

I was honest about what I said, blow me, I so dont give a fuck.

Having said that, relations are more than sex, but when a man says hello to you, you better believe that unless you are in a business deal and you are the lawyer for that mans company (hell even then and if you dont get it.....) we are in a conversation about how you gonna get all female with my penis.

another thing.

I got me a Puynus....that fuckin sucks, girls got breasts,

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 2:19:40 PM

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Thanks for making me really grateful for what I have, in terms of a husband and in terms of friends, I occasionally ran into guys who think with their dicks, but I always managed to run faster, so should we ever meet in person, somebody please remind me that I bring low heels or even better, running shoes....

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 2:56:55 PM

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I wouldn't give you the time of day in reality, nor would most.

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 2:58:55 PM

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Ive never been with anyone who could make me "squirt", but when I masturbate, it just sort of all gushes out at one time, not really shooting out...Im not sure if that would count or not.

-Kitty<3

Oh, hell ya girl.........you go!!!

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 3:06:37 PM

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Given that 80% of women have faked orgasms, I wonder how many of these squirters are actually just peeing?

Sorry, guys: 80 percent of women fake it

...Women do this because their men are so goal-directed they won’t stop until a woman climaxes, the authors say.

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 3:11:55 PM

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kali, do you have a deal with a shrink? I bet you gave some guys a real complex now...

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 3:13:49 PM

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And I ask a simple question, and want a response, what do women want? Cuz while they are bitching and fucking around, I am gonna come in their pretty little mouths. Its gods plan., for christs sake.

Their bleedin gawpin, but not sayin nothin.............excellent suckholes. Just sayin

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 3:15:26 PM

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If they can talk while blowing you, I'm just not interested. Never been a size queen, but I'm not happy with a tooth pick

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 3:17:53 PM

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OK..I have never understood this........you fuckin gashes say...........ooooooooooooh, you're so big.man is supposed to squirt over a county.

I say you're so big..........you start a bleedin war

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RE: Squirting - 3/5/2014 3:31:32 PM

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If they can talk while blowing you, I'm just not interested. Never been a size queen, but I'm not happy with a tooth pick

funny, but you have been with your man, by your own words, for 10 years.........I am pretty sure unless you are non compis mentis, you can suck that fucker like somebody was gonna beat you if you could not

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