Marc2b -> RE: Fred Phelps, Westboro Baptist Church Founder, Is 'On The Edge Of Death' (3/21/2014 6:58:19 AM)
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If that's an insult to your character, you're pretty thin skinned. 1) "someone" 2) it's speculative If it's giving you pause, then maybe he's on to something. But also, 3) his statement doesn't judge it either, but observes it. And frankly, I frequently see people violating their principles day to day, and continue to believe they "have" them. It *is* an interesting human trait. I do get how being pulled up short isn't fun. I once mentioned to someone that "old behaviors" were creeping in. He pointed out that they weren't old behaviors if I was still doing them. Ouch. But spot on. And it stung not because I'd been insulted, but because I was presented with the truth, despite the justification I'd been feeding myself. And I'm not judging or criticizing you either. I'm making an observation, one that's not hard to see people doing. Your role was just presenting an off the rack example. Suggestion -- move on with your day. [EMPHASIS MINE] I wasn't responding to Kirata. What would be the point? I am thicker skinned than you could possible imagine. I have nothing against good natured teasing but outright character assault is another mater. I am an affable guy who believes in acknowledging the limits of our knowledge (everyone is ignorant about most things but few seem to realize this) and giving people the benefit of the doubt. I try to be respectful and I expect a certain level of respect from people in return. What I expect I demand. If people are unwilling to grant me the respect I deserve then fuck 'em. They are not worth responding to. Tweakabell, on the other hand, is a poster I do respect so when she makes a post that appears to question my character by agreeing with someone like that, I simply would like to know why.
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