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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 7:11:12 AM   
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Wow, that is great! Over here, there are debates on completely banning smoking for people born after Year 2000. This means, those who are already addicted can smoke, but making sure our future generations stop lighting up. I personally really hope they implement this. Smoking IS a choice.



I quite agree! We should make sure that we make laws to tell people what's best for them.

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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 7:19:48 AM   
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But I am wondering if scientists should be cultivating on genetically influencing genes of new born babies that can naturally have high metabolism.






Great idea... until we encounter a famine and now need even more food to survive.

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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 7:26:20 AM   
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Wow, that is great! Over here, there are debates on completely banning smoking for people born after Year 2000. This means, those who are already addicted can smoke, but making sure our future generations stop lighting up. I personally really hope they implement this. Smoking IS a choice.
Won't it be nice when someone decides that BDSM is no good for us?


When a person smokes, it affects others, my hair stinks, their breath stinks when they speak to me, and of course, secondary effects of smoking. When I was with my x-dom, he was a 2 pack a day smoker, and even though he tried to be as considerate as possible not to smoke infront of me, but I got very sick being with him, I was always down with something, my nose gets irritated, my eyes get irritated, I keep getting sore throat, sinuses, I don't know, I've never been so sick in my life. Ever since I broke up with him, being not exposed to cigarette residue anymore, I never get sick, and before I dated him, I've always dated non-smokers and I never get sick. So to me, that is not a lifestyle that does not affect the ones you love.

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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 7:30:52 AM   
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Great idea... until we encounter a famine and now need even more food to survive.

Not sure if high metabolism equals alot of food, because I have low metabolism and I need loads of food. I should only be eating 1500 calories a day, but I really need 5000 calories a day quota for myself.

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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 7:41:55 AM   
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Great idea... until we encounter a famine and now need even more food to survive.

Not sure if high metabolism equals alot of food, because I have low metabolism and I need loads of food. I should only be eating 1500 calories a day, but I really need 5000 calories a day quota for myself.



What are you even talking about?



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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 7:47:10 AM   
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P.S. DS, I think you're going to be getting a bunch of messages soon, or at least a lot more profile views.



Honestly, I just never got all worked up about the "Twiggy"s of the world; even when it was sort of "expected" of me, I just couldn't be asked.

Dogs like bones. Men like meat. Ya heard?!







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Apparently, on this board, thin women are anorexic sickly bones, and all the fat ones are REAL, HEALTHY true beauties.



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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 7:48:39 AM   
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What are you even talking about?


I am saying higher metabolism does not equal need more food.
So I'm saying that my metabolic rate is only about 1500 to 1600, but, I actually need to eat close to 5000 calories a day which is way beyond my metabolic rate, and obesity is specifically caused by people with low metabolism who needs more food than what their metabolic rate is.

Okay, need is a strong word, but I would like to be able to eat 5000 calories a day and to eat that is easy! One 500ML Taiwanese bubble tea is 1000 calories, so 3 bubble tea is already 3000 calories. And I am a bubble tea addict.

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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 7:51:54 AM   
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Apparently, on this board, thin women are anorexic sickly bones, and all the fat ones are REAL, HEALTHY true beauties.

I think you have reading comprehension problem if that's your interpretation. My conclusion from the whole thing is that, many are into different body types. But majority prefer slimmer figures. So if you are on the bigger end of the scale, you have limited your pool of potentials.

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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 7:52:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		My friends dad ridiculed her weight always and guess what she stuffed cake in her mouth. Ridicule is not healthy not productive.
For the record I am almost 6 foot tall size 12 and have waist. I could benefit from more exercise of course! But if I want a donut I am going to eat that donut or three! Lol. I am just not going to do it everyday.
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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 7:56:56 AM   
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My friends dad ridiculed her weight always and guess what she stuffed cake in her mouth. Ridicule is not healthy not productive.


I swear this is quite a common pattern. Alot of extreme obese girlfriends that I had, had fathers who ridiculed their weight when they were like children. So fathers, please be kind to your daughter if she's chubby.

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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 8:14:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		I was fortunate. I had a father who told me I was beautiful special and his favorite. But he also told my two sisters the same thing! One year my step mom bought us matching tshirt so that said " I'm dad's favorite"
It does make a difference. I think if we had been so ugly or heavy he had to tie a pork chop around our neck to get the dog to play with us, he still would have said we were beautiful. The point is everyone wants to be accepted for who they are. Sometimes once they are accepted big changes occur, such as caring about ones self more.

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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 8:28:06 AM   
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It does make a difference. I think if we had been so ugly or heavy he had to tie a pork chop around our neck to get the dog to play with us, he still would have said we were beautiful. The point is everyone wants to be accepted for who they are. Sometimes once they are accepted big changes occur, such as caring about ones self more.

Agreed completely. Chinese moms are usually the worst. They break down in tears if they think their daughter is turning fat, and goes into a meltdown, like it's the end of the world and start starving you. My mom sent me for those slimming treatments when I was 12, and I was at the end spectrum of a healthy BMI. My poor friend's daugther, she's only 8, but she's dutch in a local school here, and her chinese teacher actually took her mom aside and told her, her daughter is getting unhealthily over weight. Again, my friend's daughter is bigger than Asian girls, but in healthy weight, I mean, she is not even in the overweight category. Of course my friend was outrage when the teacher suggested she puts her daughter on a diet. There is alot of pressure in school and at home to stay a certain size.




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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 8:54:36 AM   
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Wow, that is great! Over here, there are debates on completely banning smoking for people born after Year 2000. This means, those who are already addicted can smoke, but making sure our future generations stop lighting up. I personally really hope they implement this. Smoking IS a choice.



I quite agree! We should make sure that we make laws to tell people what's best for them.

Won't it be nice when someone decides that BDSM is no good for us?







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I quite agree with you DaddySatyr. But shouldn't we ban all fat ppl as well? Because we all know what a huge drain on medical resources they are!

In the U.S., among adults under the age of 70, obesity is second only to tobacco in the number of deaths it causes each year. (1) As tobacco use continues to decline, and obesity rates continue to rise, the number of deaths due to obesity may soon exceed that of tobacco.

Like tobacco, obesity causes or is closely linked with a large number of health conditions, including heart disease, stroke, diabetes, high blood pressure, unhealthy cholesterol, asthma, sleep apnea, gallstones, kidney stones, infertility, and as many as 11 types of cancers, including leukemia, breast, and colon cancer. No less real are the social and emotional effects of obesity, including discrimination, lower wages, lower quality of life and a likely susceptibility to depression.

Source http://www.hsph.harvard.edu/obesity-prevention-source/obesity-consequences/

And of course BDSM cuz we all know what perverts they are!?!?!

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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 9:00:03 AM   
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Apparently, on this board, thin women are anorexic sickly bones, and all the fat ones are REAL, HEALTHY true beauties.

I think you have reading comprehension problem if that's your interpretation. My conclusion from the whole thing is that, many are into different body types. But majority prefer slimmer figures. So if you are on the bigger end of the scale, you have limited your pool of potentials.


Oh, I'm sorry, my reading skills must be way off. I thought you said something insulting as shit earlier, like this....? "Yes, I suppose there doesn't seem to be a term to specify men preferring extremely skinny girls. We need to think of one! Haha, I usually call them pedophiles, because they like the 13 yr old stick figure, no boobs, no butt, undeveloped teenager look. And alot of these are men in their late 40's to 50's."


Oh dear... That's a direct quote isn't it?


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I am saying higher metabolism does not equal need more food.
So I'm saying that my metabolic rate is only about 1500 to 1600, but, I actually need to eat close to 5000 calories a day which is way beyond my metabolic rate, and obesity is specifically caused by people with low metabolism who needs more food than what their metabolic rate is.


That's... That exactly what an increased metabolism means. If your metabolism is increased, than you require more calories.

You eating 5000 calories a day... You don't NEED that if your BMR requires 1600. You are just eating too much. Has nothing to do with metabolism.

If calories in > calories out, then weight is gained, at roughly 3,000 calories a pound.

If calories in < calories out! then weight is lost.

You aren't breaking the rules of thermodynamics, you just eat too much.

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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 9:03:38 AM   
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I ought to receive a standing ovation for that one. Hahaha

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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 9:25:21 AM   
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Oh, I'm sorry, my reading skills must be way off. I thought you said something insulting as shit earlier, like this....? "Yes, I suppose there doesn't seem to be a term to specify men preferring extremely skinny girls. We need to think of one! Haha, I usually call them pedophiles, because they like the 13 yr old stick figure, no boobs, no butt, undeveloped teenager look. And alot of these are men in their late 40's to 50's."

Oh dear... That's a direct quote isn't it?

And I still stand by it. I think there is something wrong with older men who specifically lust for very precise 12 to 13 yr old lookalike bodies that does not look fully developed. I definitely think they have pedophilia kinks, except, they are sane enough to keep it legal by finding a legally aged woman who can look like a 13 yr old. And that clearly does not mean all extreme obesity is by default beautiful, as what you claim it means.


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That's... That exactly what an increased metabolism means. If your metabolism is increased, than you require more calories.

That doesn't make any sense to me since the whole idea of staying at a healthy weight is to eat below your metabolic rate. So the further away from your metabolic rate you can eat, the healthier you will be. Infact, in our country, it's greatly encouraged that we only eat 70% of our metabolic rate to as a health directive.
I don't see an increased of metabolism the equivalent of an increased in appetite, that is what I'm trying to say.

I know runners who run alot who experience decrease and complete loss of appetite. They are thin because of that, but the higher their metabolic rate went up, the less they eat.


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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 9:31:46 AM   
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Why we are at it I think arrogant egotistical men Should be banned because they increase insurance rates due to increase in office expense visits and medication needed for mental health due to their insensitive nature toward others.


I ought to receive a standing ovation for that one. Hahaha


Guess I need to remind the poster that an arrogant egotistical woman raised the issue in the first place!

Truly I'm a live and let live kinda guy. If you want to destroy your life by whatever means be it Drugs, overweight, alcohol Rock ON! I've seen more stupid bull shit posted in this thread than I've seen in a long time. Thin ppl are not as healthy as fat ppl. Italian ppl are somehow magically thinner. And a direct quote "Chinese moms are usually the worst." at belittling their kids. Fucking really????

While we are at it let's toss in a few more stereotypes.

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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 9:34:41 AM   
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I quite agree with you DaddySatyr. But shouldn't we ban all fat ppl as well? Because we all know what a huge drain on medical resources they are!

This is only a problem if tax payers money goes to paying for obesity treatments. Good thing, we have no welfare. So if obese people start having health problems, they are literally screwed, because number 1, our local health insurances discriminate against obese people and refuse to insure them, because obesity is seen as a pre-existing problem like cancer. These obese people better make sure they are damn rich to afford their own treatment or they are screwed. And if someone is obese, they make themselves sick, but they can't make other people sick by getting obese, just like BDSM.

Smoking is seriously having too much secondary consequences. And end of the day, I also view smoking as an addiction. I bet most smokers would not smoke if they didn't feel addicted to it. And I really do not care if people smoke if it does not affect me. I don't care what people voluntarily do to self-harm themselves if it does not affect me. It's their life, and they should have the right to choose EVEN if they want to choose to harm themselves, as long as their actions don't harm others.



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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 9:52:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		Greta you are a piece of work. Apparently you don't understand the concept of Insurance. The healthy ones pay for the sick ones thru the bill you get each month to pay for INS. Most Industrialized countries have some sort of socialized INS. So either you pay a portion of the cost via payments or the government does via taxes.

I guess your saying some overweight ppl are not addicted to food?!?!? Please tell me you are not that naive.


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RE: Why is being into "big girls" still consi... - 5/13/2014 9:52:26 AM   
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Humpy dumpy hAd a great fall
All the kings horses and all the kings men
Couldn't put humpty back together again

What they failed to tell you is if humpty was a man or woman. He had a vodka in one hand, a pill in his mouth, a cigarette in the other hand, I am guessing he/ she was overweight, could have been skinny not sure. Had a bag of donuts at his side. Didn't have insurance so they refused him treatment.

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