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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/23/2015 10:09:27 PM   
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Only a few people can really pull off a bald head. Myself, Patrick Stewart, Bruce Willis and Steve Austin come to mind. You'll notice there's no ladies in that list for me.



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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/23/2015 10:18:42 PM   
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No Demi Moore, Sigourney Weaver, Natalie Portman?

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/23/2015 10:41:59 PM   
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No Demi Moore, Sigourney Weaver, Natalie Portman?



I have only ever found one of those ladies mildly attractive, anyway and I have yet to see a bald lady that I find attractive.

However, I have looked at a bald lady and said: "Wow! She would be drop-dead gorgeous, if she had hair!"



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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/23/2015 11:55:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr
Only a few people can really pull off a bald head. Myself, Patrick Stewart, Bruce Willis and Steve Austin come to mind. You'll notice there's no ladies in that list for me.

Qft, and when I see Jason Statham, I think how much sexier he would look without a shaven head to cover his receding hairline, a look which doesn't bother me.

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ORIGINAL: JVoV
No Demi Moore, Sigourney Weaver, Natalie Portman?

I have only ever found one of those ladies mildly attractive, anyway and I have yet to see a bald lady that I find attractive.

However, I have looked at a bald lady and said: "Wow! She would be drop-dead gorgeous, if she had hair!"


Well, according to your querent's orientation, he doesn't find them sexually attractive either.

(I'll have to scroll backwards to comment on other posts individually, in case any I quote end up getting removed.)

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 12:30:59 AM   
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If you were with the right person, it would never be asked of you because a secure guy wants a secure woman and he doesn't shatter her looks to fill his void.

If you end up like the millions of women suffering from hair loss from medical issues, then I guess it will be a breeze to deal with.

Neither of which appears to be applicable in OP's case, since he already has a primary partner with the long hair he covets and is so vainfully proud of on himself. His unicorn search would be made all the more futile by seeking a side piece who already has alopecia. I suppose he'll have to invest in procuring her with wigs since he reserves the right to send her out to work for a living -- oh wait, she'll probably have to supply her own wigs in order to find a job once she relocates. He plainly states he has no romantic interest in any slave and hasn't yet addressed either poster who has raised the issue of whether he's prepared to support his slave or his kink requirement.

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 1:11:49 AM   
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Look. You can claim it's just for enjoyment, that it's not just a humiliation kink. But you've made several comments in this thread that undermine that statement.

There was your story about the vain slave friend who had to shave her head to learn a lesson about manipulating people.
Then there was dismissing those who aren't into your kink as vain.
Then about how some slaves should have their head shaved in order to "Take them down a notch," presumably regarding how vain they are.
Then the comment about how pride/vanity is a mortal sin.

I still don't know what pride in one's appearance messes with the ability to serve. Neither of you (OP or JV) seem to be able to answer that, other than it makes you hard.



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(1) Same thing. What do you think happens when you take someone "down a notch or two?"

They learn lessons that are important

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(2) Except you just said you enjoy taking slaves down.

No I said I think some need taken down. I don't see the word "enjoy" anywhere in that

Why would you choose a bratty sub for your slave in the first place, unless you would derive enjoyment from doing so, OP. . . or are you so desperate that this wouldn't matter?

If you set your priorities straight, you would have mutual compatibility with your slave, and she wouldn't have to act out in passive-aggressive ways or rebel against unfair and unreasonable bait-and-switch tactics.
(I would consider a Taming-of-the-Shrew kink to be a bait and switch. Or else a sign of an insecure, uncaring, and irresponsible Dominant who mistakes domineering, bullying behavior for dominance.)

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 1:28:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RockaRolla

I still don't know what pride in one's appearance messes with the ability to serve. Neither of you (OP or JV) seem to be able to answer that, other than it makes you hard.



I want to be very clear, first off: I am NOT defending the act of "breaking someone down". That's never been my thing, in any way.

However, I think I can answer the question that I've highlighted in red:

Pride stands in direct opposition to humility.

If I were going to "build" (or describe) the perfect lady for me, humility would be pretty high on that list.

If one finds that their lady (submissive/slave/whatever) is prideful, some might decide that a dose of humility (through humiliation) is what is called for.

There are people who are so prideful of their appearance that they become very self-centered. I wouldn't call self-centered a desirable attribute in a partner, either.

Again, I am not defending this behavior in the context that we are talking about, but, if we remove the specifics, would you not agree that pride (even in appearance), if taken to an extreme, is a behavior which a dominant/master has a right to correct? Forget that we're talking about shaving hair. I'm talking about the idea of pride being in direct contrast to humility.



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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 5:34:13 AM   
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I'm still confused as to what any of this has to do with medical issues? I don't know of anyone who would force someone going through medical procedures to shave their head, or even force someone who HAS been through them to do so. And if said slave had been through this already, they are probably pretty humble about their hair (or is the phrase "less vain" more appropriate?), so I doubt that would even come into play. It seems a lot of people are assuming the OP is a complete asshat who takes downtrodden women and forces them to shave their head, or that he would force a woman already sensitive about her hair due to medical issues to shave. To me, he stated in his original post that he found bald heads sexy.....all the other bullshit aside that he posted (not all of which I agree with) I think this got blown way out of proportion. Why are we bringing medical and religious issues into this at all?

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 5:39:19 AM   
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Oh Dreamlady, go pound sand or something. I won't even dignify your questions with answers. Covets? Where the fuck did you come up with that? Like and covet are the same? Yeah right. DaddySatyr hit the nail on the head precisely in what he expressed of what I was trying to say on the subject of pride and humility. I seem to have hit on such a hot button topic with the shaved head thing. I had meant for this thread to be more light hearted. But hey, folks get their panties in a wad over things you just don't imagine. Equating head shaving with rape. Now there's a stretch

Edited to add a response to AlabamaPrincess .... yes I did say I found it to be often times sexy (not always of course) and I wasn't meaning this topic to have anything to do with medical or religious. Which I stated also. To no avail. Folks that are upset. Usually don't listen to reason. So no sense in going on the defensive. Best to just let them run out of steam on their own

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 6:35:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ChrchofDrk

Oh Dreamlady, go pound sand or something. I won't even dignify your questions with answers. Covets? Where the fuck did you come up with that? Like and covet are the same? Yeah right. DaddySatyr hit the nail on the head precisely in what he expressed of what I was trying to say on the subject of pride and humility. I seem to have hit on such a hot button topic with the shaved head thing. I had meant for this thread to be more light hearted. . . .


Au contraire, that's what you'd be having your fantasy bald-headed, sun-burned slave doing out in the desert where you live, where sand should be plentiful. With the sunhats she has to purchase for herself.

Your post to kick things off, where you don't get to dictate how light-hearted other posters' responses will be or not:


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ORIGINAL: ChrchofDrk

Call me weird but don't you find a bald female slave sexy and just want to cum all over that bald head?

Edited to add ... How many would consider the taking of their hair a hard limit?

If you had wanted to take a simple poll, then you should have set this up under Polls and Random Stupidity, where it belongs.

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 9:45:52 AM   
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I'm still confused as to what any of this has to do with medical issues? I don't know of anyone who would force someone going through medical procedures to shave their head, or even force someone who HAS been through them to do so. And if said slave had been through this already, they are probably pretty humble about their hair (or is the phrase "less vain" more appropriate?), so I doubt that would even come into play. It seems a lot of people are assuming the OP is a complete asshat who takes downtrodden women and forces them to shave their head, or that he would force a woman already sensitive about her hair due to medical issues to shave. To me, he stated in his original post that he found bald heads sexy.....all the other bullshit aside that he posted (not all of which I agree with) I think this got blown way out of proportion. Why are we bringing medical and religious issues into this at all?


Because no one dictates how a thread goes and I found the topic horrifying.

Is that ok with you and are you still confused?

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 9:51:37 AM   
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Because no one dictates how a thread goes and I found the topic horrifying.


So you lashed out and turned the whole topic into it being all about you and your horrific ordeal. Gee. How mature of you

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 9:55:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ChrchofDrk

Oh Dreamlady, go pound sand or something. I won't even dignify your questions with answers. Covets? Where the fuck did you come up with that? Like and covet are the same? Yeah right. DaddySatyr hit the nail on the head precisely in what he expressed of what I was trying to say on the subject of pride and humility. I seem to have hit on such a hot button topic with the shaved head thing. I had meant for this thread to be more light hearted. But hey, folks get their panties in a wad over things you just don't imagine. Equating head shaving with rape. Now there's a stretch

Edited to add a response to AlabamaPrincess .... yes I did say I found it to be often times sexy (not always of course) and I wasn't meaning this topic to have anything to do with medical or religious. Which I stated also. To no avail. Folks that are upset. Usually don't listen to reason. So no sense in going on the defensive. Best to just let them run out of steam on their own


It's too bad your posts lack the brainpower to understand other points of view. Your posts demonstrate ignorance and a complete lack of empathy. Very sociopathic.

I maintain that if you STILL don't get it and are unable to see a comparison of a person who actually raped being upset about a play rape thread and a person who went through medical issues that caused involuntary hair loss being upset about a ludicrous thread about how you think it's hot, then you are beyond help.

As for running out of steam? Don't bet on it, sparky.

You fucked up your own "light hearted" thread further when you went into the whole vanity and pride in one's appearance means you can't be a good sub bullshit.


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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 9:59:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ChrchofDrk

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Because no one dictates how a thread goes and I found the topic horrifying.


So you lashed out and turned the whole topic into it being all about you and your horrific ordeal. Gee. How mature of you


Not my horrific ordeal since I still have hair.

I speak to the thousands of women who did and are going bald.

Yes, I am mature, thanks. When I feel strongly about a topic, I speak up. Maturity has nothing to do with it.

You are just miffed because your little wank fest got derailed.

The mature thing for YOU to have done, early on, was to say you were sorry about any offense this caused.

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 10:10:53 AM   
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The mature thing for YOU to have done, early on, was to say you were sorry about any offense this caused.


I've done or said nothing I feel the need to apologize for. Have a good day

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 10:34:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1


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I'm still confused as to what any of this has to do with medical issues? I don't know of anyone who would force someone going through medical procedures to shave their head, or even force someone who HAS been through them to do so. And if said slave had been through this already, they are probably pretty humble about their hair (or is the phrase "less vain" more appropriate?), so I doubt that would even come into play. It seems a lot of people are assuming the OP is a complete asshat who takes downtrodden women and forces them to shave their head, or that he would force a woman already sensitive about her hair due to medical issues to shave. To me, he stated in his original post that he found bald heads sexy.....all the other bullshit aside that he posted (not all of which I agree with) I think this got blown way out of proportion. Why are we bringing medical and religious issues into this at all?


Because no one dictates how a thread goes and I found the topic horrifying.

Is that ok with you and are you still confused?


Wow, no need to lash out at me for asking for clarification. I do however, fail to understand how you can be this rude to people and expect it to go unchecked, yet when someone states their ideals or opinions as clearly as you do, they get treated like shit. And yes, I am still confused as to why YOU felt the need to derail the thread because you found it horrifying. Yes, it IS your opinion, and I respect that, however to continually put that on others simply because they did not agree with your opinion or ignored you is rude. We all have our opinions, and we all can state them here, but to jump all in someone's ass because they don't agree is just plain wrong.

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 10:53:47 AM   
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This is a disgusting kink.


Wow. Judgemental, much?

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 10:58:37 AM   
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Okay, I guess its time I stepped in here.

Let's return to the topic. If it is hurtful, distasteful or anything else, it was started as a kinky something thread and we need to return to that. Threads evolve and drift, but this has taken on a life that wasn't intended and as sorrowful as I feel for some, the bottom line is I'm the mod that has to bring this back to some order.

I do believe there is enough to keep the thread full of interesting comments and responses to what has been said, but lets go back to the first post and that direction.

Thank you

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 11:03:34 AM   
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As someone who was personally offended and lashing out, i have as much right to be offended by this topic as someone does who lashes out at play rape because they were actually raped.


So by the same logic, a victim of physical abuse can 'lash out' in offence at s&m?

The victim of a control freak can 'lash out' in offence at D/s?

A victim of child sex abuse can 'lash out' at age play?

So basically, anyone who has had anything unfortunate happen to them, is well within their rights to 'lash out' at anyone who admits to consensually enjoying a similar activity?

Have we forgotten that 'your kink may not be my kink but your kink is okay'?

I had money stolen once, so now I feel the need to 'lash out' at anyone who consensually pays for things. Because, you know, I was offended that people might enjoy giving their money to others, when I hated having my money non-consensually taken away from me...

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 11:07:25 AM   
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And with that, which I am sure was in the works as I was posting, I will say that if you wish to discus some of the sub topics on this thread, you can start a new thread.

We won't be bashing the kinks of others any further, whether here or on another thread.

Thank you

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