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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 11:11:58 AM   
Lucylastic


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Nope I dont find it sexy at all, but then im a female. oh and a dominant, but apart from that, if anyone tried or even suggested that shaving my hair so he could cum on my head let alone it might teach me some humility??, I would be teaching him some humility he would never expect. Oh and teach him how to sleep with one eye open for the rest of his life.

It has nothing to do with me judging a kink and everything to do with being a personal hard limit....attempt to cross it and you wont be around long in my life.
You have a kink, you posted it in the general BDSM fora...expect to have your "kink" not be everyones cup of tea.
I like CBT do you?, I like really twisting testicles and weighing them down with weights, giving him a few smacks on the ass before inserting a strap on in his ass? listening to the cries as the weights move with every thrust.
If not....why not?
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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 11:13:53 AM   
orgasmdenial12


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Status: offline 		Years ago when I worked in a shop, a young girl with long brown hair came in and asked if I would sponsor her to have her head shaved for charity.

I honestly thought this girl was kind of stupid, and that she would look like a complete idiot. She wasn't very good looking in the first place, her face was kind of thin and spotty and unremarkable. I felt very sorry for her that she'd decided to do such a stupid thing so of course I sponsored her, to make it worth her while.

A couple of months later a cute androgynous girl with short, soft, fluffy brown hair came in and asked for her money.

I couldn't believe it was the same girl! She actually really suited the haircut - it made her look cool and edgy and sexy and kind of powerful. I was so impressed and I decided then that, sometime in my life, I'd shave my head, just for the heck of it.

I've never seen a woman that looks bad with a closely clipped haircut, at any rate, no worse than the vast majority of men who walk around with such haircuts every day.

To suggest that a haircut that is simple, flattering, convenient and stylish for men is just the worst thing that can ever happen to a woman is sexist and short-sighted. The truth is, both men and women can suit a range of hairstyles.

It's laughable that people are screeching about how it isn't vain to love their long hair, and wrapping it up in all kinds of justifications about confidence and needing to earn money. Are men not confident with their short hair? Do men not earn money with their short hair? Why, exactly, do you think a woman would be unable to do the same?

Of course it is vanity - not that there's anything wrong with vanity but, just like make up and manicures and heels and a whole bunch of other stuff we do to feel kickin' it can get in the way of our development as a human being, if we let it. I certainly see nothing wrong with stripping it all back and accepting yourself as a healthy human being first, and a human decoration second. I like to think that my boss hires me for attributes that lie inside my skull rather than outside it; if you genuinely might be sacked for having short hair, then what exactly does that say about your boss and your company and the profession you work in? What will they do when you get old and wrinkly and saggy, will then sack you then too?

And, of course, we are only talking about consensual play here. So if it's a hard limit for you, then so be it. But there's really no need to slam someone else for their kink.

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 11:15:04 AM   
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Do and die kind of thing.

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 11:24:00 AM   
SinFix


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Status: offline 		For me, I could care less about my head being shaved or not. I, myself do not use my hair as a way to feel feminine or good about myself. I would have issue with the reasoning, if it was to "take me down a notch or two" that is just ridiculous. Even with DS's example, that is their personality and was there when you got involved with them, so I think it is on the Dom to either live with THEIR choice of partner or to end the relationship. I have seen so many times that the women that use their hair as a form of "identity" cry after just a short haircut, shaving it off would be way more detrimental than what the OP is thinking.

Now if he knows that it would be harmful and decided to do it either because either he feels they need to be taken down a notch or just cause it gets his dick hard, then I would think he was a complete fool and would feel sorry for any slave that crossed his path.

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 11:45:24 AM   
DaddySatyr


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ORIGINAL: SinFix

For me, I could care less about my head being shaved or not. I, myself do not use my hair as a way to feel feminine or good about myself. I would have issue with the reasoning, if it was to "take me down a notch or two" that is just ridiculous. Even with DS's example, that is their personality and was there when you got involved with them, so I think it is on the Dom to either live with THEIR choice of partner or to end the relationship. I have seen so many times that the women that use their hair as a form of "identity" cry after just a short haircut, shaving it off would be way more detrimental than what the OP is thinking.

Now if he knows that it would be harmful and decided to do it either because either he feels they need to be taken down a notch or just cause it gets his dick hard, then I would think he was a complete fool and would feel sorry for any slave that crossed his path.



Not exactly. Unfortunately, there are those that believe that "putting one's best foot forward" is a good way to enter into a relationship. So, the other party might not know that they're getting involved with someone that falls in love with the person in the mirror until they're ... well ... already involved.

Like it or not, it does happen that certain personality traits don't surface right away and people do change, over time. If these things weren't true, we wouldn't have so many relationships ending, the way and as frequently as they do.



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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 11:56:27 AM   
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Unfortunately, there are those that believe that "putting one's best foot forward" is a good way to enter into a relationship. So, the other party might not know that they're getting involved with someone that falls in love with the person in the mirror until they're ... well ... already involved.



I would venture to say that "vanity", in most of its incarnations, is one of the first things that is visible about someone.



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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 3:48:07 PM   
orgasmdenial12


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if it was to "take me down a notch or two" that is just ridiculous.


Maybe I'm missing something here - but why is it ridiculous?

My Master does all kinds of things to take me down a notch or two. Not to grind me into the ground but just to keep me in place and the right headspace.

Are we saying it's okay to control a woman's diet and clothes, to whip her, to smack her and stick needles through her, to make her sleep on the floor or eat out of a dog bowl, to make her speak in third person or call herself a slave, but all of this is okay because it won't 'take her down a notch or two'?

Perhaps we have different approaches to what it is that we do. If I didn't want someone to dominate me and keep me submissive, then I wouldn't be doing all of this.

What exactly is wrong with being taken down a notch or two, so long as it's consensual?

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 4:01:40 PM   
shiftyw


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Status: offline 		I think it's the presumption that any of us with long hair are vain or those of us who hard limit this are vain. I also think there is a lot to be said regarding why women are upset by losing their hair to medical reasons- it implies she is vain because she is upset by this- and that's what I have the issue with. I think she can be upset about losing hair to chemo because- cancer sucks and that's just a daily reminder- I don't think vanity has to factor in.

Personally- I'm a waitress some of the time- I know for sure my fat face would not look good without hair framing it- and my individuality would be pretty stifled by not being able to do my hair in a way that expresses who I am to my customers- and I'm willing to bet that would effect my tips dramatically.

Heck- I love my glasses- but when I wear them I make less money- so now I wear contacts. If he wants to knock me down a few pegs- he better be prepared to pick up the goddamn slack.

Personally- my thyroid often makes my hair thin. I'd love to shave it off. Love to. But- I would look funny and socially I'm sure my friends and family would have a shitload to say about it. My jobs- both of them- would wonder why I did that. My job as a waitress would be easier without hair- I'd be a lot cooler in the summer. But I know society would think I'm weird, and I think this would effect my job oppourtunities. I'd love a Mohawk- I'd love a Miley- I'd love to shave one side and keep the other long- but I know these things would effect my employment and income- so much like a tattoo or piercing that is visable- it is not for me.

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 4:31:11 PM   
JVoV


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Status: offline 		I think a sub going through any sort of major crisis has enough on their plate. It's not a time to push or test limits, but to give them as much support and comfort as possible. If they are able to play at all, you stick to what they enjoy most.

@shifty I think you could totally rock a Miley.

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 4:51:48 PM   
shiftyw


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I think a sub going through any sort of major crisis has enough on their plate. It's not a time to push or test limits, but to give them as much support and comfort as possible. If they are able to play at all, you stick to what they enjoy most.

@shifty I think you could totally rock a Miley.


I'd look like Big Boo from Orange is the New Black- and while I'm glad she is confident in that look- I would not be- at all. And isn't that what all us women are told is the "sexist" thing about us? Confidence?

But thanks

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 5:04:50 PM   
SinFix


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Status: offline 		Well, since you only took the second part of the sentence then it is whatever you want it to be... Since the sentence actually starts with the word I, and the second part says me.. There is no issue except you seem to want there to be one...


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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 6:07:40 PM   
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Call me weird but don't you find a bald female slave sexy and just want to cum all over that bald head?



I was JUST thinking about that VERY thing!!!!!

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/24/2015 10:13:59 PM   
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This is a disgusting kink.


Wow. Judgemental, much?


Yes. About this topic. Not really judgemental about most things unless they have to do with kids, animals, maiming permanently and cannibalism.

Carry on.

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/25/2015 8:38:05 AM   
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I like CBT do you?, I like really twisting testicles and weighing them down with weights, giving him a few smacks on the ass before inserting a strap on in his ass? listening to the cries as the weights move with every thrust.
If not....why not?
smiles




Goddamn that is hawt!!!! I think I love you....will you be my Domme? :-)

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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/25/2015 8:39:13 AM   
Lucylastic


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RE: Call me weird .... - 3/25/2015 8:47:51 AM   
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smiles anytime dahlink:)



:-)

And to think men post whining on how tough it is to find a Domme?

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