CreativeDominant
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ORIGINAL: slvemike4u And your solution .....? One solution? Anybody involved with CPS...whether it be the case workers or the therapist who brainwashed Alicia Wade into testifying her father raped her And who was later found to be innocent...gets penalized for their zealous nature. Oh wait...she was...to the tune of 11/2 million dollars for her part in the disruption of a family, the ruining of a good man's name and his career. Oh...And thank GOD, the California CPS was too...to the tune of 2 million dollars. Another solution? Quit wasting time and money spent on bogus investigations into Free Range parents...those who dare defy the system...And spend that time and those dollars on investigating cases where ACTUAL harm may be being done. Stop going after fathers like me and others who dared to swat our kids butt because sometimes, timeouts and reasoning don't work with a smart-ass resentful 11 yr old and soon to be ex-wife is pissed off and go after parents leaving marks on their kids. Okay I'm not the guy you want to be talking to.I'm one of those people who feel it's wrong,in all instances, to hit/swat/smack or otherwise strike a child. Sorry,that's just the way I feel.To me when an adult resorts to striking a child that adult has already lost control of the situation. I managed to raise a child without hitting that child......IMO(and only in my opinion) there's isn't an 11 year old smart assed enough to convince me that reaching that child is thru striking that child. As I said that's my opinion,it's also a core belief that it's going to change.....so don't waste your time. I won't try to waste your time. But since you've never done it and, as far as I know, weren't there, you really have no idea whether I was in control or not, do you? Apparently, the state agrees with my point of view since it is legal in Colorado to spank your child...within limits. So ,because you and the state of Colorado disagree I should change my opinion on what is out of bounds for a parent in dealing with their child....I don't think so. My opinion on these matters is a firmly held belief .You do as you wish,within the law,with your own children. I'll keep my opinions and beliefs thanks all the same... Again...you're wrong in what you think I think. You are free to raise your child the way you want...and that includes what you think is out of bounds for YOU and your child. Keep those beliefs. But I was also free to raise my child as I wished. And for me, that included a swat on the ass, when needed. It wasn't done out of anger or a loss of control, despite your belief. The problem comes in when you want to make the state enforce YOUR beliefs on everyone else.
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