SusanofO
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I am seeking friends only right now, but am contemplating how I want to re-write my profile in the future. I am wondering what people's reaction is when a submissive notes in a profile the types of practical service they can offer they feel they are good at doing. In my case, that would be things like cooking, housework, laundry, entertaining (planning parties, dinners), practical errands (grocery shopping), and a few other things. I am hesitant to list these things because I am afraid it will sound: 1) Boring 2) Like I am seeking marriage, which is not necessarily the case (that would depend, of course, on the person). I was married for 15 years, and am not really that anxious to do it right away, if ever, again. But am not ruling it out, either. I do feel I am good at doing those things, and did them for many years, and enjoy doing many, if not most of them. But - do these types of things even interest many Dominants? I am not "advertising" myself here - I am really just desiring an answer and am curious and would much appreciate helpful and-or honest comments. *Of course I realize the person is what matters most (at least to me they will) as well as what kid of "chemistry", sexual connection, and shared values people may have in common. *But - then I hear talk from Dominants about "service" and wonder if people mostly refer here to sexual- bdsm activity types of service when they mention this, or are they talking about practical, everyday types of tasks (grocery shopping, etc.)? *Does it matter if I list these things in a profile? Will this be seen as more of a detriment than an asset, overall, or is it "nuetral"? Are many people seeking this type of service? I know some say they are, but are they, really? (am asking not because I doubt anyone's veracity, but really would appreciate knowing). I think it might not matter, but - I also have a friend who, at the age of 30, has never done housework or cooked a meal, and learned only a few years ago how to do laundry (really). Wouldn't a submssive like this be a challenge for some Dominants in a 24-7 relationship, in some ways? (no slam to my friend, I am not going to date her, we are friends only). Just wondering. Thanks. - Susan
< Message edited by SusanofO -- 7/17/2006 2:41:54 AM >
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