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LadyPact -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/16/2015 7:57:52 AM)
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ORIGINAL: respectmen
littleboyfluff
Excellent post. The best post I have seen around here in a long time. It's a breath of fresh air compared to gynocentric claptrap others say.
It is fair to say that there are a very large percentage of women on these sites who are self absorbed narccissts who show little to no consideration for male sexuality. Besides what LBF said, another problem I see is that men are expected to be like women when it comes to their sexuality or else we are wrong and oppressing poor women. Sorry my little privileged princesses but men are not women, men are men. We will always be men, men will always have a penis, men will always be wired different compared to women.
And here we go...
First person to be willing to take one for the team. (At the same time, we're going to see just how many hypocritical statements are within your post.) Totally and absolutely into BDSM for what I get out of it and I'm guessing that a huge majority of people being honest about it would be saying the same thing. It's why I don't engage in kinks I don't like and all kinds of other stuff. And, if the exact same thing wasn't true for you, you'd be off bottoming for all of the males that just want the chance to top somebody.
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I'd have to say I've seen about as many vajayjay pics as dick pics... plenty gross... yes... but that just goes with the territory of being on a sex site and you move along. Create a cute female girl profile like I did once on Mate1 (because they charged if you were male and I just wanted to look around.) Ohmigod theflood of unsolicited vajayjay pics from shot out old lesbians! But you know what, that just is part of the territory, you roll with and enjoy the brutal uncensored view of humanity.
Yucky thoughts in the head or yucky private parts... however offensive... you learn about life and suck it up and drive on..
Just so we're clear here, I do get the occasional va-jay-jay pics. Not nearly as often as the dick pics but it does happen from time to time. Do you know how much good that does when contacting straight women? It doesn't.
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Well put. This is the nature sex sites creates. To all the whiners on here that are butthurt over cock pics, please stop expecting the world to change for your self absorbed arse. If it was men demanding women to change their ways in sex sites we would get laughed at. So to be equal and fair, so should women.
Well, at least you know we're laughing.
It is laughable that men think we're going to be attracted to the random cock shot. Google is your friend and it wouldn't be terribly hard for you to find a few articles where they've done research on the subject. Know who is more likely to be attracted to the penis pics? Gay and bisexual men. Males are just plain more likely to be sexually attracted based solely on visual. So, if you're really trying to attract het women with the penis shot, you're probably fishing with the wrong bait.
Let me add something to this. Since I was the one who made the comment about how folks need pants, allow me to inform you of the other shots that means. You would be absolutely AMAZED at how many men think that a shot of them bent over giving someone the brown-eye is attractive. The only polite way to say this is that it's VERY obvious that some of these folks lack basic general hygiene or there must be a shortage of toilet paper somewhere. I wish I was kidding, but I'm not.
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That said, I always find it funny how it only seems to be cock pics that bothers some people while pics of women's private parts is all okay. After all, it's only the human body for fucks sake. So fucking what. Plenty of people find the sight of fatties disgusting, even clothed ones. So should we demand no pics of fatties too?
That last bit is just a juvenile remark but it's going to make a great point. You just proved that you're not attracted to everybody with a vagina. Guess what? Most het women aren't attracted to everybody with a dick. Most of us are aware of how much of the male population are fascinated with their own penis but you'll just have to understand that's not a universal opinion. Unless you're willing to step up to the plate and give the other males the orgasms they want, don't expect other people to want to do it. I'll bet Ron's ready for his blow job now.
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There will always be the same double standard where when a male makes a sweeping statement on female dommes or women in general like LBF did, he is more likely to get shunned for it and/or people arguing that he is wrong. On the other hand, when say a domme explains that most male subs are "do me subs" who have evil intentions to use women, or any negative claim, the said woman who expressed it wont likely get shunned for it and nearly everyone will mindlessly agree and even defend the position. It seems good to generalise men but bad to generalise women.
Do you really think do me bottoms don't exist? I can assure you that they do. Nobody said it was limited to one gender, either.
Very, very few males with profiles on this site will own up to the fact that they are not submissive and really just prefer bottoming. There's nothing wrong with being a bottom but around here (meaning CM/CS) it's really not going to make anyone the first round draft pick. Most male bottoms on the site know this and that's when the "I'm so submissive" song starts to get sung. That's probably what bugs people about it is the lack of being honest and frankly, I don't blame them.
It is absolutely not that difficult for women to find people who want to be topped. I took time off from playing there for a while but as soon as I went back to it, I had play partners within a week. And, yes, I do it on my terms. If I just wanted to be someone's service top, I'd have probably gone pro years ago.
Enjoy your day.
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