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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 2:44:00 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: mechski
By the way LP, getting a fresh start means leaving the past in the past. I started the thread that way to let everyone involved in the thread know exactly who I was. And if someone didn't know, good, I wanted a fresh start anyway. I mean the original thread is third from the top right? it is not buried. But, your need to control has sort of ruined that now, hasn't it?

You are quite reminding me of that scene from the Lion King where the baboon smacks the (still) young cub on the head with the stick. The young cub asks the baboon what he did that for and the baboon replies, "what does it matter? It's in the past."

To the baboon, it doesn't matter that the cub is still reeling from the strike. That the offense is recent.

Yesterday, you did an introduction under your old name. Today, you want to take a new name with a clean slate. Which perspective is correct? Yours because you want a "new start," or those who take a different view? Are you cheating people out of "informed" consent?

Oh, and this one is just for fun. If you are so busy being concerned that an opinion is supposedly confused with Dominance, you are looking at the world through the wrong lens.

It's ok.





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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 2:58:46 PM   
LadyPact


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And LP, it seems more than a little hypocritical to say you don't answer messages, when you did just that. And you replied, letting me know that you don't read or answer messages (lol) Out of respect (being the person that I am) I let you know incognito on the thread that I was respecting your wishes. And you immediately had to make it known who I was talking to. Showing your power to your herd (I just lmao) I guess it was my charming personality, you couldn't resist knowing what it is I had to say.

Actually, I didn't. I didn't read your email or know anything about the content. I tried to be polite and shoot off a message to tell you so. (Not everybody sees the tagline.)

In other words, I was nice to you, thinking you wanted assistance. Yep, even I misjudge people, sometimes.



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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 3:18:41 PM   
mechski


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Status: offline 		The power struggle is real. First, I don't owe anyone a fucking thing. I can do what I want, when I want. I am not depriving anyone of anything they really need to know. That is your fucked up thinking. Somehow you want people to conform to your ideas. ALSO, I have been looking around the site and have messaged a couple people. And the name newatdis isn't very appealing is it. Again, get this through your THICK SKULL..my choice, my way. Now, didn't you say if I send a message you wont read it, and block the person. (we already know what happened there) Let me try again and see if I get the desired results.
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: mechski
By the way LP, getting a fresh start means leaving the past in the past. I started the thread that way to let everyone involved in the thread know exactly who I was. And if someone didn't know, good, I wanted a fresh start anyway. I mean the original thread is third from the top right? it is not buried. But, your need to control has sort of ruined that now, hasn't it?

You are quite reminding me of that scene from the Lion King where the baboon smacks the (still) young cub on the head with the stick. The young cub asks the baboon what he did that for and the baboon replies, "what does it matter? It's in the past."

To the baboon, it doesn't matter that the cub is still reeling from the strike. That the offense is recent.

Yesterday, you did an introduction under your old name. Today, you want to take a new name with a clean slate. Which perspective is correct? Yours because you want a "new start," or those who take a different view? Are you cheating people out of "informed" consent?

Oh, and this one is just for fun. If you are so busy being concerned that an opinion is supposedly confused with Dominance, you are looking at the world through the wrong lens.

It's ok.







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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 3:35:54 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		The power struggle is real to you. Not to me. That, and experience, are why I'm a bigger Dominant than you and always will be.

It's not a competition to me. Damn shame that it is to you.


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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 3:44:31 PM   
mechski


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Status: offline 		You know the difference between you and Cinn LP? Cinn read the introduction, knew exactly who I was, and respected the fact that I wanted a fresh start. And gave a friendly greeting. You come in next, and want things your way, immediately. Attacked my character as if I was trying to deceive, and hide.. When clearly I wasn't. Maybe instead of trying to be the know it all in these threads you should take a long hard look at yourself.

BTW) I started this thread being positive. Even let my nemesis know that I actually did get something out of her. But, you come along and fucked that all up with your know it all attitude and demand for conformity. I bet you don't have many actual real life friends. I have many, and for a very long time.

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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 3:48:18 PM   
mechski


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Status: offline 		Lol, shouldn't I be blocked? You will never be more dominant than me. Maybe you can act like, and think that with a willing man that is into S/M. But, I have the one thing that you don't "a dick"...and regarding what you said earlier. I bet I could even buy a bigger one than you.
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

The power struggle is real to you. Not to me. That, and experience, are why I'm a bigger Dominant than you and always will be.

It's not a competition to me. Damn shame that it is to you.




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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 3:52:34 PM   
mechski


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Status: offline 		Also, before the hounds come out. I am not stating having a dick makes one dominant. I just know LP wishes she had one.

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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 3:54:13 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		If your "friends" are so plentiful, what are you doing home alone on a Saturday night? I mean, unless you're a "The Walking Dead" fan like me and watching the marathon?

If there are delays, I'm making hamburgers for the "herd".


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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 3:57:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

If your "friends" are so plentiful, what are you doing home alone on a Saturday night? I mean, unless you're a "The Walking Dead" fan like me and watching the marathon?

If there are delays, I'm making hamburgers for the "herd".


I am trying to watch it. When a baby shows up I might have to change the channel.

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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 3:58:27 PM   
mechski


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Status: offline 		That is some funny shit because I am getting ready to go to Beckley WV, to Munchies to watch bands play. Also, I don't need a willing person (pre arranged) to dominate. I will be back about 1-2 AM, most likely half drunk, it could make for some entertainment. (I still have about a half hour before we leave, if you want to play some more)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

If your "friends" are so plentiful, what are you doing home alone on a Saturday night? I mean, unless you're a "The Walking Dead" fan like me and watching the marathon?

If there are delays, I'm making hamburgers for the "herd".




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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 4:04:35 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		My guilty pleasure, "The Walking Dead".

Want some real advice? Be a person, rather than what you think a "Dominant" is supposed to be.


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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 4:08:50 PM   
mechski


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Status: offline 		I am a person, caring and compassionate. Why else would I have volunteered at soup kitchens in Philly, give bums/less fortunate money more times than I can keep track of (like everytime I see one) even when I hardly had any myself. You can't attack the person I am, I laugh at that notion. Again, maybe you need to take a look at yourself.
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

My guilty pleasure, "The Walking Dead".

Want some real advice? Be a person, rather than what you think a "Dominant" is supposed to be.



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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 4:14:55 PM   
mechski


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Status: offline 		And let me give you some real advice. Quit trying to conform everyone to your way of thinking. Give up the need for control.
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

My guilty pleasure, "The Walking Dead".

Want some real advice? Be a person, rather than what you think a "Dominant" is supposed to be.



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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 4:25:05 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Unlike some, I don't need control. You are giving it willingly.

When I sit across the table with other Dominants from these boards, I never think of these things. You do. That is your fallacy.

That is your lack of Dominance.


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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 4:42:08 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		OP, I have no idea who you used to be, but judging you solely by what you've said on this thread, I dislike you.

You admit to lying to people about who you are and that you are seeking to avoid taking personal responsibility for what you've said.

You have displayed such defensiveness that you're attacking people for their opinions, which are quite different than telling you what to do.

I think that you might as well go back to your old name, or make up another one, because until you change, you will never find yourself okay with others' opinions of you.

I'm not sure why you think that being kinky means we aren't judgmental. All human beings judge, it's hard wired into us to decide who to trust and like, and to avoid those who aren't trustworthy and likable. If you want to be liked and trusted, you have to act in a manner that merits that. So far, I've seen no signs of that. Moreover, it's extremely rare for someone to act as obnoxiously as you have in an intro thread. For someone to deliberately act in a manner that will cause them to be immediately disliked. I have to assume you're getting something out of this. I suggest you figure out what that is and whether it's really worth it.

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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 4:47:18 PM   
mechski


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Status: offline 		OMG..LOLOLOLOLOL Admitted to lying? By nature I am not a liar, and despise liars. I have NOT read anything past "admitted to be a liar" that was enough to make me stop and realize you are a donkey. And I dgaf if you like me or not. Good thing I can get along with almost anyone in any atmosphere (just take a look at the people that will be attending munchies tonight) google it on FB (changed to Muncheez) and the band Famz, I am also glad that I don't think all people in one particular group are the same. Or else I would never drive 45 minutes to Beckley for a BDSM meeting. Especially thinking about what was said as far as dress code "don't scare the locals" have fun peeps...Out of here!
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

OP, I have no idea who you used to be, but judging you solely by what you've said on this thread, I dislike you.

You admit to lying to people about who you are and that you are seeking to avoid taking personal responsibility for what you've said.

You have displayed such defensiveness that you're attacking people for their opinions, which are quite different than telling you what to do.

I think that you might as well go back to your old name, or make up another one, because until you change, you will never find yourself okay with others' opinions of you.

I'm not sure why you think that being kinky means we aren't judgmental. All human beings judge, it's hard wired into us to decide who to trust and like, and to avoid those who aren't trustworthy and likable. If you want to be liked and trusted, you have to act in a manner that merits that. So far, I've seen no signs of that. Moreover, it's extremely rare for someone to act as obnoxiously as you have in an intro thread. For someone to deliberately act in a manner that will cause them to be immediately disliked. I have to assume you're getting something out of this. I suggest you figure out what that is and whether it's really worth it.


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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 4:56:55 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: mechski

OMG..LOLOLOLOLOL Admitted to lying? By nature I am not a liar, and despise liars. I have NOT read anything past "admitted to be a liar" that was enough to make me stop and realize you are a donkey. And I dgaf if you like me or not. Good thing I can get along with almost anyone in any atmosphere (just take a look at the people that will be attending munchies tonight) google it on FB (changed to Muncheez) and the band Famz, I am also glad that I don't think all people in one particular group are the same. Or else I would never drive 45 minutes to Beckley for a BDSM meeting. Especially thinking about what was said as far as dress code "don't scare the locals" have fun peeps...Out of here!
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

OP, I have no idea who you used to be, but judging you solely by what you've said on this thread, I dislike you.

You admit to lying to people about who you are and that you are seeking to avoid taking personal responsibility for what you've said.

You have displayed such defensiveness that you're attacking people for their opinions, which are quite different than telling you what to do.

I think that you might as well go back to your old name, or make up another one, because until you change, you will never find yourself okay with others' opinions of you.

I'm not sure why you think that being kinky means we aren't judgmental. All human beings judge, it's hard wired into us to decide who to trust and like, and to avoid those who aren't trustworthy and likable. If you want to be liked and trusted, you have to act in a manner that merits that. So far, I've seen no signs of that. Moreover, it's extremely rare for someone to act as obnoxiously as you have in an intro thread. For someone to deliberately act in a manner that will cause them to be immediately disliked. I have to assume you're getting something out of this. I suggest you figure out what that is and whether it's really worth it.



Won't be long. Have fun.


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The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 7:38:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		This peewit calls itself an apprentice and yet, when I did my apprenticeship, I was told to look, listen and learn. Nothing was said about trying to take charge/control or bad mouthing those around me. If I tried, I would get my ass kicked by somebody in that kitchen. So I looked, I listened and I learned and all these years later , I am STILL learning.
This peewit will never learn because it has no control over itself yet. How the hell does it think it will ever control others or learn submission.

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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 9:01:35 PM   
Greta75


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This thread is another example, of the strong need to work on controlling and mastering yourself. Some of your immature qualities in your replies to LP is showing again. Again, the more you post on here, the more I think you are a teenage boy masquerading as a 50 yr old just trying to wind folks up in here for fun and laughs.

LP was really nice and helpful to you in your other thread. Infact, she's often very consistent and tries to be helpful.

I think she was just explaining to you why this is not cool.

While I appreciate you acknowledging you have some things you need to work on. But now you need to walk the talk.

BTW, you also mentioned you feel both dominant and submissive. That's called a Switch. And it's perfectly fine. There will be people you feel dominant over and there will be people you feel submissive to. And I have no worries if you choose the path of the submissive as you will have a dominant who can manage you. But as a dominant, cool and calm and making mature decisions is important to managing submissives.

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RE: Apprentice - 2/13/2016 9:13:28 PM   
Greta75


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For a bunch of control-freaks, kinks, pervs, sadists, whatever (mostly the people society looks down on) a lot of you are judgemental fucks that think people should do, and act the way you want them to. That surprises me!

If you consider people into bdsm that are folks that society look down on, why would you want to be part of the crew that society look down on? Seriously...

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BTW) I started this thread being positive. Even let my nemesis know that I actually did get something out of her. But, you come along and fucked that all up with your know it all attitude and demand for conformity. I bet you don't have many actual real life friends. I have many, and for a very long time.

Not taking any responsibility for your own actions. You are blaming LP for your childish outburst again right now? Seriously?

LP can say whatever she wants, and so can many people online, but how you react to it, shows the kind of person you are. I actually have no beef with you, but I just don't believe you have the temperament suitable for a Master or a dominant.

People can be different online and in real life. I just hope in real life, you are different and have a better grip of your temper.

I am not friends with anybody on here, I am on my own Island, and together with LP and almost everybody who replied you, I have had heated disagreements with at one point of time or another. But still most of the time, I felt like it was adult to adult.

With you, so far, it's like dealing with a juvenile.

Also, if your first reply to LP was simply saying, "I change my user name because "Newatdis" seem to be like a bad username when I am trying to befriend people." That would have been the end of it. Just calmly explain the real reason you changed it. Nothing to get mad about.

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