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ORIGINAL: Cinnamongirl67

Ohhhhhhh.....
Yes I misunderstood. The slim brunette brown eyed thing threw me off. It's easy to misinterpret in writing sometimes.
No I have never munched.

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ORIGINAL: mechski
Someone said something about "trying to deceive by being a switch"

Again, how can I be deceiving about something I know absolutely nothing about? I don't get that? I see what you are saying, referring to someone acting like a dom, getting into a relationship when they really a switch. You are talking about someone being deceptive, that is entirely different than someone that doesn't know.

I grew up in a household with 5 women and a brother. Yes, my mom became a lesbian, her partner was the Dom, do you think that environment played any part in who I am? I had no choice but to be submissive to a woman as a child in many ways. (BTW-you didn't do what I expected and thought you would do when I stepped on your toes LP. I really didn't GAF but that made me have some respect for you, also, you made it personal, not me) Anyway, because of those reasons I am both Dom (in the bedroom, always been that way) just like I have always ordered all my ex's food (I asked them first, or suggested something) I have always provided everything we needed, but I also like to cook dinner and bake a cake.

It was just a tip, for future reference, not an accusation.

Are you sure you're not a bratty sub? (Or an Aries, almost the same difference . . . And just so you don't take that the wrong way, my longest term
[ex-] partner was an Aries, spanning a couple of decades.)

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ORIGINAL: dreamlady

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ORIGINAL: mechski
Someone said something about "trying to deceive by being a switch"

Again, how can I be deceiving about something I know absolutely nothing about? I don't get that? I see what you are saying, referring to someone acting like a dom, getting into a relationship when they really a switch. You are talking about someone being deceptive, that is entirely different than someone that doesn't know.

I grew up in a household with 5 women and a brother. Yes, my mom became a lesbian, her partner was the Dom, do you think that environment played any part in who I am? I had no choice but to be submissive to a woman as a child in many ways. (BTW-you didn't do what I expected and thought you would do when I stepped on your toes LP. I really didn't GAF but that made me have some respect for you, also, you made it personal, not me) Anyway, because of those reasons I am both Dom (in the bedroom, always been that way) just like I have always ordered all my ex's food (I asked them first, or suggested something) I have always provided everything we needed, but I also like to cook dinner and bake a cake.

It was just a tip, for future reference, not an accusation.

Are you sure you're not a bratty sub? (Or an Aries, almost the same difference . . . And just so you don't take that the wrong way, my longest term
[ex-] partner was an Aries, spanning a couple of decades.)

DreamLady

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ORIGINAL: dreamlady

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ORIGINAL: mechski
Someone said something about "trying to deceive by being a switch"

Again, how can I be deceiving about something I know absolutely nothing about? I don't get that? I see what you are saying, referring to someone acting like a dom, getting into a relationship when they really a switch. You are talking about someone being deceptive, that is entirely different than someone that doesn't know.

I grew up in a household with 5 women and a brother. Yes, my mom became a lesbian, her partner was the Dom, do you think that environment played any part in who I am? I had no choice but to be submissive to a woman as a child in many ways. (BTW-you didn't do what I expected and thought you would do when I stepped on your toes LP. I really didn't GAF but that made me have some respect for you, also, you made it personal, not me) Anyway, because of those reasons I am both Dom (in the bedroom, always been that way) just like I have always ordered all my ex's food (I asked them first, or suggested something) I have always provided everything we needed, but I also like to cook dinner and bake a cake.

It was just a tip, for future reference, not an accusation.

Are you sure you're not a bratty sub? (Or an Aries, almost the same difference . . . And just so you don't take that the wrong way, my longest term
[ex-] partner was an Aries, spanning a couple of decades.)

DreamLady

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ORIGINAL: mechski
You are really the kind of person to come up and kick a dead horse.

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ORIGINAL: mechski
That is some funny shit Greta. People are still trying to tell me what to do. Let me ask you this? Do you see me jumping around on other threads saying anything unkind, being an ass, whatever? No, I wouldn't. But, when a bunch of jackass's that don't even know me come onto the thread I started telling me what to do, believing their own perception of who I am, I am going to respond. And again, I think it is funny as fuck.

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I did not specify BDSM (as the people society looks down on) you choose to put it that way. And to answer your question, I don't gaf what society thinks.

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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ORIGINAL: mechski
That is some funny shit Greta. People are still trying to tell me what to do. Let me ask you this? Do you see me jumping around on other threads saying anything unkind, being an ass, whatever? No, I wouldn't. But, when a bunch of jackass's that don't even know me come onto the thread I started telling me what to do, believing their own perception of who I am, I am going to respond. And again, I think it is funny as fuck.

This is a public forum. As someone has already mentioned, if you don't want anybody's opinion in your business, please write in your journal, and not in this forum. Then NOBODY will leave comments. NOBODY knows you here, so you will be JUDGED on how you express yourself on here.

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I did not specify BDSM (as the people society looks down on) you choose to put it that way. And to answer your question, I don't gaf what society thinks.

You are in a BDSM forum, BDSM site, so when you are referring to people on here, the common denominator is that, everyone is into BDSM.

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ORIGINAL: mechski

So, am I clear on this...every submissive is into BDSM? They can't just be a person that is into the dom/sub thing without a lot of the aspects of BDSM?

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ORIGINAL: mechski

So, am I clear on this...every submissive is into BDSM? They can't just be a person that is into the dom/sub thing without a lot of the aspects of BDSM? BDSM is also "power exchange" I fit right in.

You are like an annoying New Jersey beach fly.

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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ORIGINAL: mechski
That is some funny shit Greta. People are still trying to tell me what to do. Let me ask you this? Do you see me jumping around on other threads saying anything unkind, being an ass, whatever? No, I wouldn't. But, when a bunch of jackass's that don't even know me come onto the thread I started telling me what to do, believing their own perception of who I am, I am going to respond. And again, I think it is funny as fuck.

This is a public forum. As someone has already mentioned, if you don't want anybody's opinion in your business, please write in your journal, and not in this forum. Then NOBODY will leave comments. NOBODY knows you here, so you will be JUDGED on how you express yourself on here.

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I did not specify BDSM (as the people society looks down on) you choose to put it that way. And to answer your question, I don't gaf what society thinks.

You are in a BDSM forum, BDSM site, so when you are referring to people on here, the common denominator is that, everyone is into BDSM.

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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ORIGINAL: mechski

So, am I clear on this...every submissive is into BDSM? They can't just be a person that is into the dom/sub thing without a lot of the aspects of BDSM?

I think you will find vanilla people who are natural submissive but will not be inside this website, as the kinks does not appeal to them.

So you were referring to people specifically in here.

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ORIGINAL: mechski

I would like to see a woman come into my life, and, or, my house, and be a dom. I call the shots and its always been that way.

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ORIGINAL: newatdis

You know what is ironic about this, we were into an argument and I asked her "what do you do for me or around here" I took care of almost everything. I even did most of the cooking, and it irritated me at times. I have realized since, she cooked everytime I asked her too. She replied, and I will never forget it "I give you companionship" ..well, that didn't mean shit to me at the time. I have always been in long term relationships. All I can say is this, five years later I get it, loud and clear.

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ORIGINAL: mechski
I would like to see a woman come into my life, and, or, my house, and be a dom. I call the shots and its always been that way.

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You don't seem like such a kink yourself, I mean no 69? Even most vanillas are down with that.

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ORIGINAL: dreamlady

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ORIGINAL: mechski

I would like to see a woman come into my life, and, or, my house, and be a dom. I call the shots and its always been that way.

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ORIGINAL: newatdis

You know what is ironic about this, we were into an argument and I asked her "what do you do for me or around here" I took care of almost everything. I even did most of the cooking, and it irritated me at times. I have realized since, she cooked everytime I asked her too. She replied, and I will never forget it "I give you companionship" ..well, that didn't mean shit to me at the time. I have always been in long term relationships. All I can say is this, five years later I get it, loud and clear.

*clears throat*
You were saying?

DreamLady

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ORIGINAL: mechski
I don't get the point you are trying to make. She didn't control a fucking thing until she walked out. And yes, I loved her, and valued her companionship after she was gone not realizing what I had at the time. Yes, I already made it clear I like to contribute around the house. BECAUSE I WANT TO, I am the Dom, my rules.

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ORIGINAL: dreamlady

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ORIGINAL: mechski
I don't get the point you are trying to make. She didn't control a fucking thing until she walked out. And yes, I loved her, and valued her companionship after she was gone not realizing what I had at the time. Yes, I already made it clear I like to contribute around the house. BECAUSE I WANT TO, I am the Dom, my rules.

Let me get this straight. The Domly rules you made irritated you?

DreamLady