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ORIGINAL: mechski

Someone said something about "trying to deceive by being a switch"

Again, how can I be deceiving about something I know absolutely nothing about? I don't get that? I see what you are saying, referring to someone acting like a dom, getting into a relationship when they really a switch. You are talking about someone being deceptive, that is entirely different than someone that doesn't know.

I grew up in a household with 5 women and a brother, I am the baby by a few years. Yes, my mom became a lesbian, her partner was the Dom, do you think that environment played any part in who I am? I had no choice but to be submissive to a woman as a child in many ways. (BTW-you didn't do what I expected and thought you would do when I stepped on your toes LP. I really didn't GAF but that made me have some respect for you, also, you made it personal, not me) Anyway, because of those reasons I am both Dom (in the bedroom, always been that way) just like I have always ordered all my ex's food (I asked them first, or suggested something) I have always provided everything we needed, but I also like to cook dinner and bake a cake.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Gee, and normally, I'm so predictable.

I'm guessing that you are referring to the mail system

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ORIGINAL: mechski

Ugggg, I can't even edit my own post. Feeling like this is why I hardly drink.

That's not your drinking. It's the system. You can edit your post up to an hour. After that, it's in the Mod/Admins hands.

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I would like to get a lot of these so called "dominant figures" in a room together. And see what happens there, I already know NOBODY can dominate me. My personality doesn't allow it. Unless you're a female, have my heart, than yes, you would know how to get exactly what you wanted out of me. it wouldn't be hard, I grew up trying to please women.

I regret to inform you that a lot of us 'so called Dominant figures' have been in a room together. I'm not THE highest ranking person who has met the most people from the forums, but I'll bet I'm in the top ten.

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ORIGINAL: mechski
Yes, I was referring to the mail system. Thanks for the info on the edit.

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ORIGINAL: mechski

I did the exact samething "I hadn't anticipated I was going to stick around" I can appreciate your message. What some might not get is that I am not trying to convince anyone of anything (and hardly care what they think, if they are being a jackass) somehow I believe you think I am trying to convince people to like me, accept me, whatever. My dear, not my reasons at all. It is funny to me that I can say truths about myself, and that just irritates people.

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ORIGINAL: satanscharmer

There have been a few posters that changed their name for one reason or another, myself included. I hadn't anticipated I was going to stick around, let alone participate, so I hadn't put much thought into the nick. I used the old one much longer than you, and divulged that information solely because of that. Most probably don't even remember my prior nick, and may never have seen where I mentioned it.
I don't see the big deal here. I have a problem with the argument to let people 'know who you really are' because such a small time under the prior name hardly tells us who you really are.

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ORIGINAL: Dvr22999874

This peewit calls itself an apprentice and yet, when I did my apprenticeship, I was told to look, listen and learn. Nothing was said about trying to take charge/control or bad mouthing those around me. If I tried, I would get my ass kicked by somebody in that kitchen. So I looked, I listened and I learned and all these years later , I am STILL learning.
This peewit will never learn because it has no control over itself yet. How the hell does it think it will ever control others or learn submission.

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ORIGINAL: Greta75

To OP

This thread is another example, of the strong need to work on controlling and mastering yourself. Some of your immature qualities in your replies to LP is showing again. Again, the more you post on here, the more I think you are a teenage boy masquerading as a 50 yr old just trying to wind folks up in here for fun and laughs.

LP was really nice and helpful to you in your other thread. Infact, she's often very consistent and tries to be helpful.

I think she was just explaining to you why this is not cool.

While I appreciate you acknowledging you have some things you need to work on. But now you need to walk the talk.

BTW, you also mentioned you feel both dominant and submissive. That's called a Switch. And it's perfectly fine. There will be people you feel dominant over and there will be people you feel submissive to. And I have no worries if you choose the path of the submissive as you will have a dominant who can manage you. But as a dominant, cool and calm and making mature decisions is important to managing submissives.

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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

FR
Some people think that domineering is being dominant.
Its not...its an unpleasant character flaw.

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ORIGINAL: satanscharmer

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ORIGINAL: mechski

I did the exact samething "I hadn't anticipated I was going to stick around" I can appreciate your message. What some might not get is that I am not trying to convince anyone of anything (and hardly care what they think, if they are being a jackass) somehow I believe you think I am trying to convince people to like me, accept me, whatever. My dear, not my reasons at all. It is funny to me that I can say truths about myself, and that just irritates people.

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ORIGINAL: satanscharmer

There have been a few posters that changed their name for one reason or another, myself included. I hadn't anticipated I was going to stick around, let alone participate, so I hadn't put much thought into the nick. I used the old one much longer than you, and divulged that information solely because of that. Most probably don't even remember my prior nick, and may never have seen where I mentioned it.
I don't see the big deal here. I have a problem with the argument to let people 'know who you really are' because such a small time under the prior name hardly tells us who you really are.

Yeah...I totally wasn't making any assumptions about you. You misunderstood my post.
I was referring to why others want you to be upfront about your screen name.

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ORIGINAL: Cinnamongirl67

When I was 16, my parents tried to sell me to the circus, when the circus declined, they tried to sweeten the pot, and throw in a car but no luck, the circus pulled out in the middle of the night only leaving elephant dung and candy wrappers blowing in the wind for evidence they were even there...... Lol.
Okay yes I made that up.
I think it's actually true if you brought rope to lady pacts she would give you enough to hang yourself... Which struck me funny btw.
What I think your in need of is an old fashion whipping, the kind that leave welts on your butt.
Any volunteers? They might line up from here to your next block.

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ORIGINAL: Dvr22999874

Your family sounds like mine Cinnamongirl.........................my mother used to pack my school lunch in a road map and then they would move house while I was at school *smile*.
My brother taught me how to swim; I just found that bit about getting out of the sack was the hardest part.
Here is a true one for you though.....................I went to sea at the first possible opportunity and I was away for over five months on my first trip and when I got home, my mother didn't even realise I hadn't been home. We made the Simpsons seem like a living, loving, functional family *smile*.

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ORIGINAL: Dvr22999874

Your family sounds like mine Cinnamongirl.........................my mother used to pack my school lunch in a road map and then they would move house while I was at school *smile*.
My brother taught me how to swim; I just found that bit about getting out of the sack was the hardest part.
Here is a true one for you though.....................I went to sea at the first possible opportunity and I was away for over five months on my first trip and when I got home, my mother didn't even realise I hadn't been home. We made the Simpsons seem like a living, loving, functional family *smile*.

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ORIGINAL: Cinnamongirl67

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ORIGINAL: Dvr22999874

Your family sounds like mine Cinnamongirl.........................my mother used to pack my school lunch in a road map and then they would move house while I was at school *smile*.
My brother taught me how to swim; I just found that bit about getting out of the sack was the hardest part.
Here is a true one for you though.....................I went to sea at the first possible opportunity and I was away for over five months on my first trip and when I got home, my mother didn't even realise I hadn't been home. We made the Simpsons seem like a living, loving, functional family *smile*.

oh the memories can be quite heart warming...

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ORIGINAL: mechski

OMG) HAHAHAHAHAHA, I seen that you posted something in here and I thought to myself (I like her, no matter what she says) and I come read your message and that is exactly why. I hate it when my real life friends make reference to those days and call it a circus. It was a carnival. I ran the Himalaya, I actually have pics from early 80's in Venezuela on my FB page. You are awesome Cinn. I have given thought to you, hoping you don't think I am just some person that dgaf what anyone says. I care what nice people have to say. And you are definitely that.

I know arguing with strangers isn't going to be appealing to a sweet thin brunette switch, preferably with brown eyes. But, the idea is appealing.



Maybe if I rolled over on my belly and bowed to the all mighty (I am not referring to god) or just said what I thought people wanted to hear, I would be more accepted. Just to let you know, that acceptance isn't wanted.

Cinn) I put a couple pics up of me in Venezuela running the ride, look if you'd like. Just got a message on FB someone has my cell, haven't even realized I haven't had it all day, and it is snowing...fuk...time to get er done.

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ORIGINAL: Cinnamongirl67

When I was 16, my parents tried to sell me to the circus, when the circus declined, they tried to sweeten the pot, and throw in a car but no luck, the circus pulled out in the middle of the night only leaving elephant dung and candy wrappers blowing in the wind for evidence they were even there...... Lol.
Okay yes I made that up.
I think it's actually true if you brought rope to lady pacts she would give you enough to hang yourself... Which struck me funny btw.
What I think your in need of is an old fashion whipping, the kind that leave welts on your butt.
Any volunteers? They might line up from here to your next block.

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ORIGINAL: Cinnamongirl67

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ORIGINAL: mechski

OMG) HAHAHAHAHAHA, I seen that you posted something in here and I thought to myself (I like her, no matter what she says) and I come read your message and that is exactly why. I hate it when my real life friends make reference to those days and call it a circus. It was a carnival. I ran the Himalaya, I actually have pics from early 80's in Venezuela on my FB page. You are awesome Cinn. I have given thought to you, hoping you don't think I am just some person that dgaf what anyone says. I care what nice people have to say. And you are definitely that.

I know arguing with strangers isn't going to be appealing to a sweet thin brunette switch, preferably with brown eyes. But, the idea is appealing.



Maybe if I rolled over on my belly and bowed to the all mighty (I am not referring to god) or just said what I thought people wanted to hear, I would be more accepted. Just to let you know, that acceptance isn't wanted.

Cinn) I put a couple pics up of me in Venezuela running the ride, look if you'd like. Just got a message on FB someone has my cell, haven't even realized I haven't had it all day, and it is snowing...fuk...time to get er done.

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ORIGINAL: Cinnamongirl67

When I was 16, my parents tried to sell me to the circus, when the circus declined, they tried to sweeten the pot, and throw in a car but no luck, the circus pulled out in the middle of the night only leaving elephant dung and candy wrappers blowing in the wind for evidence they were even there...... Lol.
Okay yes I made that up.
I think it's actually true if you brought rope to lady pacts she would give you enough to hang yourself... Which struck me funny btw.
What I think your in need of is an old fashion whipping, the kind that leave welts on your butt.
Any volunteers? They might line up from here to your next block.

How can I see the pictures? I have no idea what your FB ID is. (I rarely use it anyway)

And I hate to break your heart darling but I am a 6 foot, blue eyed, blond who has been married 25 years.
Consider me a pal.