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RE: Apprentice - 2/15/2016 12:36:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mechski
What dom? I am new remember? You are going back like 5 years.
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ORIGINAL: mechski
I am the Dom, my rules.

So you read that out of one of your Domly-Dom primers, right? The one on how to be the best Dumbinant you can be. :p

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ORIGINAL: mechski
You are another Greta, and I have known that.

Greta and I may not have a whole lot in common, but it doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that your walk is totally in sync with your backpedaling talk.
(Referring back to your 5th post on this thread.)

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ORIGINAL: mechski
I am already confused seeing how I feel that I am both dominant and submissive at the same time, go figure. Dominant about some things, yet submissive about others.

DreamLady

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RE: Apprentice - 2/15/2016 12:45:03 AM   
mechski


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Status: offline 		Dream) I know exactly what type of person you are. You are exactly like Greta, and I am lmao thinking about the (different levels) you must be a notch or two above. Want to hear something ironic, you are wasting your time researching shit I wrote days ago, who do you think is really in control?

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ORIGINAL: dreamlady


quote:

ORIGINAL: mechski
What dom? I am new remember? You are going back like 5 years.
quote:

ORIGINAL: mechski
I am the Dom, my rules.

So you read that out of one of your Domly-Dom primers, right? The one on how to be the best Dumbinant you can be. :p

quote:

ORIGINAL: mechski
You are another Greta, and I have known that.

Greta and I may not have a whole lot in common, but it doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that your walk is totally in sync with your backpedaling talk.
(Referring back to your 5th post on this thread.)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mechski
I am already confused seeing how I feel that I am both dominant and submissive at the same time, go figure. Dominant about some things, yet submissive about others.

DreamLady



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RE: Apprentice - 2/15/2016 1:42:43 AM   
mechski


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Status: offline 		Hey LP) you asked/said one thing to me today that I have actually remembered. And I have been wanting to answer it all day.

You asked me if "that was a compliment" referring to Heather, you are a little thinner and prettier. But, I can't f-ing stand Heather, and neither can anyone else (except my best friend that is her sub, and she cant stand her half the time) She is a moody bitch when she doesn't get her way, tries to get everyone to conform. She thinks she knows it all. That's why everyone DREADS being around her.

Put it this way, she doesn't even have a FB page.

Compliment, or not? I just said you reminded me of her, and looked like her. You can take it anyway you want.

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RE: Apprentice - 2/15/2016 2:03:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mechski

I just wanted to get a "fresh start" I didn't think I would want to stick around this forum really when I joined. I have gained insight into quite few things, and want to learn more. Even from you Gret, the only thing you have said that has made ANY kind of impact at all to me is to "master yourself first" I have given a lot of thought to that comment. I have done just that in many ways. But, I also know for reasons that I don't care to openly discuss, under certain circumstances I can let my emotions run wild. I do get a grip on it, and I have actually gotten a lot better, but when caught up in it I will express every f-ing thing I am feeling (at that moment) when I could be feeling different about it later. For that reason I have bought books (last night) on controlling emotions, staying calm with Adult ADHD, etc. As curious as I am about aspects of this lifestyle, I need to work on that first. Can we all kiss, break out the toys, and let things previously said go?

Well, it's really hard to master what you don't know. I think I might hold off on mastering yourself until you know yourself. Socrates, I think, wins out over Greta on this one.. but, hey.. it's up to you!

Either way.. good luck to you.

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RE: Apprentice - 2/15/2016 2:20:13 AM   
mechski


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Status: offline 		I know myself completely, and my sexuality. And the role I have always played in every relationship, the shot caller, the provider. What I don't know is this lifestyle, the terms, and whether or not I actually fit. From what I have read, I should be an ace in no time.


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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble


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ORIGINAL: mechski

I just wanted to get a "fresh start" I didn't think I would want to stick around this forum really when I joined. I have gained insight into quite few things, and want to learn more. Even from you Gret, the only thing you have said that has made ANY kind of impact at all to me is to "master yourself first" I have given a lot of thought to that comment. I have done just that in many ways. But, I also know for reasons that I don't care to openly discuss, under certain circumstances I can let my emotions run wild. I do get a grip on it, and I have actually gotten a lot better, but when caught up in it I will express every f-ing thing I am feeling (at that moment) when I could be feeling different about it later. For that reason I have bought books (last night) on controlling emotions, staying calm with Adult ADHD, etc. As curious as I am about aspects of this lifestyle, I need to work on that first. Can we all kiss, break out the toys, and let things previously said go?

Well, it's really hard to master what you don't know. I think I might hold off on mastering yourself until you know yourself. Socrates, I think, wins out over Greta on this one.. but, hey.. it's up to you!

Either way.. good luck to you.



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RE: Apprentice - 2/15/2016 2:54:50 AM   
mechski


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Status: offline 		It just hit me, I am amongst some people that actually don't know who they are...so, that assumption will be placed on me.

And that is not a knock to anyone, I find it fascinating.

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RE: Apprentice - 2/15/2016 2:59:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mechski

I know myself completely, and my sexuality. And the role I have always played in every relationship, the shot caller, the provider. What I don't know is this lifestyle, the terms, and whether or not I actually fit.

I am wondering if you have ever questioned anything? Your masculinity? Your sexuality? I never have, because I know exactly who I am.




I must admit, I'm not overtly masculine (sometimes I wear lady panties) but like I already said.. either way, good luck to you. You sound like you have convinced yourself and that's all that matters. First a dom, then told you were a switch so put that dress on.. then took it off and back to being a newbie dom again.. or apprentice dom. I'm a little confused but, hey.. you have it all together and I can't say the same myself so power to ya, noob. You gots this in spades. ::chuckles::

::takes her thin, brunette, self and skips out of your thread:: Bi!






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RE: Apprentice - 2/15/2016 3:10:41 AM   
mechski


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Status: offline 		I am thinking you might be overly masculine, or unsure of who you are. Why else would you be questioning me when you don't even have the cognitive skills to realize it has NEVER been about questioning who I was...it was about the (Phrases of BDSM, and the complexities) can you absorb that? And how good has your Dom taken care of you? Do you even have one? maybe you would if you were a good slave.sub and didn't try to tell doms what to do. yeah, makes sense now..you are more than a little confused.
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble


quote:

ORIGINAL: mechski

I know myself completely, and my sexuality. And the role I have always played in every relationship, the shot caller, the provider. What I don't know is this lifestyle, the terms, and whether or not I actually fit.

I am wondering if you have ever questioned anything? Your masculinity? Your sexuality? I never have, because I know exactly who I am.




I must admit, I'm not overtly masculine (sometimes I wear lady panties) but like I already said.. either way, good luck to you. You sound like you have convinced yourself and that's all that matters. First a dom, then told you were a switch so put that dress on.. then took it off and back to being a newbie dom again.. or apprentice dom. I'm a little confused but, hey.. you have it all together and I can't say the same myself so power to ya, noob. You gots this in spades. ::chuckles::










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RE: Apprentice - 2/15/2016 3:21:20 AM   
mechski


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Status: offline 		You know what is funny? Newatdis received some messages. Even being new, I smelled a fish. I have lived with submissive women all my life, I know how they behave. I didn't answer ANY of those messages except one, because "dogs" were involved. I'm watching out for the switches in disguise too.

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RE: Apprentice - 2/15/2016 3:41:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mechs

And how good has your Dom taken care of you?
He did pretty well for about the first 18 years but I do admit he slacked off somewhat during the last two. I think it has to do with him getting himself killed. It was pretty horrific. Crushed to death in a car accident three days before Christmas. It was pretty bad. Made the news and everything. You can google it if you like. Dec. 22, 2013 in San Diego on Harbor Drive. Pronounced dead at the scene just about 15 mins after dropping me off at San Diego airport so I could fly up north to visit my family for the holiday. Him, being Jewish, didn't celebrate Christmas so this was SOP for the time of year.

Prior to that.. lived in Europe for a few years, travelled all over the world, didn't have to work because he could afford to actually keep a slave.

quote:

Do you even have one?


Nope. I've been mourning for a bit. Just now tempting to put a toe back in the water but.. not really having the heart for it.

quote:

maybe you would if you were a good slave.sub and didn't try to tell doms what to do. yeah, makes sense now..you are more than a little confused.


I had a man give me his forever. He kept me and treated me as his most treasured companion and possession. If you gain even 1/1000th of what we shared together, you will be one of the most blessed men on Earth.

Good luck to you, once again.






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RE: Apprentice - 2/15/2016 3:59:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mechski
I am thinking you might be overly masculine, or unsure of who you are. Why else would you be questioning me when you don't even have the cognitive skills to realize it has NEVER been about questioning who I was...it was about the (Phrases of BDSM, and the complexities) can you absorb that? And how good has your Dom taken care of you? Do you even have one? maybe you would if you were a good slave.sub and didn't try to tell doms what to do. yeah, makes sense now..you are more than a little confused.

Two things, dude. First, just for info, this thread has actually been so bad that it was "spotted" on another site to draw people's attention to your comments here. Congratulations. You now how people on two sites getting a kick out of your behavior.

Second, that is the most f^cked up comment you could have made considering Bita lost her beloved Michael in a car accident not long back. They were together for years and when he died in a car accident, damn near everybody on these boards knew she was in pain. No, you didn't know but that was a completely heartless thing to say. Considering that you've been widowed yourself, I can't believe you'd make such a remark.

Just because you picked the Dom label from the drop down menu doesn't mean that any sub has to cow down to you or take your bullshit. Go ahead though. Keep being ignorant. Keep being an asshat specifically to a poster who's been involved in WIITWD for decades and could have helped to teach you the things that you should be wanting to learn.



ETA - Bita, I'm so terribly sorry.



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RE: Apprentice - 2/15/2016 4:52:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

No, you didn't know but that was a completely heartless thing to say. Considering that you've been widowed yourself, I can't believe you'd make such a remark.



Well, he opened my profile before he made his comment but that's not to say he actually read it and I am terribly fair-minded so must give the benefit of the doubt and call it ignorant over heartless. If you read my first post to him.. I asked no question, just made an observation that perhaps he should 'know himself' before attempting to master himself. So far he's called himself newbie, dominant, Master, submissive, switch and apprentice and then accused me of being confused which.. damn.. I do NOT deny I find it very confusing! lol


quote:

ETA - Bita, I'm so terribly sorry.




Me, too, baby. Me, too.


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RE: Apprentice - 2/15/2016 5:15:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		Two things, dude. First, just for info, this thread has actually been so bad that it was "spotted" on another site to draw people's attention to your comments here. Congratulations. You now how people on two sites getting a kick out of your behavior.

Second, that is the most f^cked up comment you could have made considering Bita lost her beloved Michael in a car accident not long back. They were together for years and when he died in a car accident, damn near everybody on these boards knew she was in pain. No, you didn't know but that was a completely heartless thing to say. Considering that you've been widowed yourself, I can't believe you'd make such a remark.

Just because you picked the Dom label from the drop down menu doesn't mean that any sub has to cow down to you or take your bullshit. Go ahead though. Keep being ignorant. Keep being an asshat specifically to a poster who's been involved in WIITWD for decades and could have helped to teach you the things that you should be wanting to learn.

What LadyPact said again.

also I'm new to this board as well, not to the lifestyle but to the board and OP whatever you changed your name to, I would never treat anyone badly but most of your posts have been insulting, insinuating and over swearing. It is clear you do not have any idea what the initials BDSM means or anything about the lifestyle, but you choose to ignore the ones that have been in it a long time.

BDSM= Bondage-Discipline-Domination-Submission-Sadomasochism

and frankly unless you studied it for years and years I don't think you could ever have a handle on it. I would be warning other submissives in BDSM to stay away from you, you wouldn't know what you are doing as a Dominant. Also there are people with submissive personalities in the vanilla world into BDSM, like me for example.

BitaTruble sorry for your loss.

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RE: Apprentice - 2/15/2016 5:16:52 AM   
Cinnamongirl67


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Not able to make sense of this.
I have some ideas, but wtf? This has became sad.

Bitatruble I had no idea your husband passed away. Gives you a huge hug. I'm truly sorry.

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RE: Apprentice - 2/15/2016 5:41:12 PM   
mechski


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Status: offline 		I am sorry for your loss. I know what that is like, try bereavement classes, they helped. And I know it is cliché, but time really does heal.
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble


quote:

ORIGINAL: mechs

And how good has your Dom taken care of you?
He did pretty well for about the first 18 years but I do admit he slacked off somewhat during the last two. I think it has to do with him getting himself killed. It was pretty horrific. Crushed to death in a car accident three days before Christmas. It was pretty bad. Made the news and everything. You can google it if you like. Dec. 22, 2013 in San Diego on Harbor Drive. Pronounced dead at the scene just about 15 mins after dropping me off at San Diego airport so I could fly up north to visit my family for the holiday. Him, being Jewish, didn't celebrate Christmas so this was SOP for the time of year.

Prior to that.. lived in Europe for a few years, travelled all over the world, didn't have to work because he could afford to actually keep a slave.

quote:

Do you even have one?


Nope. I've been mourning for a bit. Just now tempting to put a toe back in the water but.. not really having the heart for it.

quote:

maybe you would if you were a good slave.sub and didn't try to tell doms what to do. yeah, makes sense now..you are more than a little confused.


I had a man give me his forever. He kept me and treated me as his most treasured companion and possession. If you gain even 1/1000th of what we shared together, you will be one of the most blessed men on Earth.

Good luck to you, once again.







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RE: Apprentice - 2/15/2016 5:51:18 PM   
mechski


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Status: offline 		First, just to let you know I could care a less if this thread is on NBC. Also, let me ask you this "did anyone consider my emotional state when I made my first thread"? What I have been through? or, did they just attack? and this person included, part of the herd. And yet you want me to somehow feel responsible and show remorse, for something that happened in HER past that I knew nothing about? Just asked her if she has a dom? Yes, it is unfortunate that I asked that simple question with her recent experiences, had I known, I wouldn't have. But, you can save a lot of your BS in your post.
quote:

ORIGINAL: LilJuly76

Two things, dude. First, just for info, this thread has actually been so bad that it was "spotted" on another site to draw people's attention to your comments here. Congratulations. You now how people on two sites getting a kick out of your behavior.

Second, that is the most f^cked up comment you could have made considering Bita lost her beloved Michael in a car accident not long back. They were together for years and when he died in a car accident, damn near everybody on these boards knew she was in pain. No, you didn't know but that was a completely heartless thing to say. Considering that you've been widowed yourself, I can't believe you'd make such a remark.

Just because you picked the Dom label from the drop down menu doesn't mean that any sub has to cow down to you or take your bullshit. Go ahead though. Keep being ignorant. Keep being an asshat specifically to a poster who's been involved in WIITWD for decades and could have helped to teach you the things that you should be wanting to learn.

What LadyPact said again.

also I'm new to this board as well, not to the lifestyle but to the board and OP whatever you changed your name to, I would never treat anyone badly but most of your posts have been insulting, insinuating and over swearing. It is clear you do not have any idea what the initials BDSM means or anything about the lifestyle, but you choose to ignore the ones that have been in it a long time.

BDSM= Bondage-Discipline-Domination-Submission-Sadomasochism

and frankly unless you studied it for years and years I don't think you could ever have a handle on it. I would be warning other submissives in BDSM to stay away from you, you wouldn't know what you are doing as a Dominant. Also there are people with submissive personalities in the vanilla world into BDSM, like me for example.

BitaTruble sorry for your loss.



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RE: Apprentice - 2/16/2016 8:51:49 AM   
BitaTruble


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ORIGINAL: mechski

Also, let me ask you this "did anyone consider my emotional state when I made my first thread"?


Yes, I did.

quote:

What I have been through? or, did they just attack? and this person included
You accuse me, again, of attacking you. I don't know why you keep lying when everyone can read exactly what I've written.


My response to your post and the first and only time I had ever written to you prior to this thread and it was in comment for your following words:
quote:

sucks that I didn't have instructions to the game.


That's because you get to write them yourself. It's a dom perk.

Show the path that you decide, the one which you feel the most comfortable and confident to pursue ... let someone else find it attractive and if you are being authentic with what you present.. you don't need to worry about someone else writing 'your' history book for you because those who do choose to follow are already doing it 'your' way. You win, partner wins.. everyone wins and that hardly ever sucks.

Good luck!]

My second post to you was on this thread.

Well, it's really hard to master what you don't know. I think I might hold off on mastering yourself until you know yourself. Socrates, I think, wins out over Greta on this one.. but, hey.. it's up to you!

Either way.. good luck to you.

At the time I wrote that you had called yourself A Master, a dominant, a submissive, a newbie. Had admitted to bouts of temper, inability to control your emotions to the point where you got books on the subject to teach you how to do so.

The rest of the thread is in the history books and folks can see for themselves who got called a stupid cunt and who was treated poorly between the two of us.

Please, you still think me an attacking cunt so your condolence is actually, unwelcome. I have no need for the false sorrows of people who believe me to be nothing more than a stupid cunt.

I won't be bothering you or bother reading you again though, so no worries to either of us.








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RE: Apprentice - 2/16/2016 9:03:45 AM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		LilJuly and LP.. thank you both for your sincere condolence. Those are both welcome and appreciated.. and Cin.. don't be sad for the nanosecond of tragedy.. be happy for me. I got 18 years of bliss.. and thank you, too.. but please.. if you get sad.. I'll get sad and I'm working really hard on my happy right now. k? ;)

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RE: Apprentice - 2/16/2016 12:49:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

It means don't dress in fetish wear to go to the restaurant.



Hmmm...my 'lifestyle' keeps going and going like that cute energizer bunny and does not stops at our doorstep. I bet some of you in the audience like to "scare the natives" and some natives like to be scared. It can add a certain spice to dinner out. If you got it...

a girl of Avalon


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RE: Apprentice - 2/16/2016 10:29:12 PM   
Greta75


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ORIGINAL: theHouseofAvalon


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

It means don't dress in fetish wear to go to the restaurant.



Hmmm...my 'lifestyle' keeps going and going like that cute energizer bunny and does not stops at our doorstep. I bet some of you in the audience like to "scare the natives" and some natives like to be scared. It can add a certain spice to dinner out. If you got it...

a girl of Avalon




I do respect and admire anybody who defy conventions and dress whatever they want to go out. You know, BDSM and Proud! Like Punk and Proud, or Skinhead and Proud, or Goth and Proud and all that stuffs. I was talking about this male executive in my country who will cross dress as a woman whenever he goes out with his wife in public, to restaurants, malls, movies, everywhere. That's freaking brave of him and he has a wife who accepts that. I think it's amazing.

And please continue what you enjoy.

But I think it also depends on your occupation, and whether you can afford to be seen as a person into kink without jeopardizing your livelihood. Sometimes reality of how the world works steps in.

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