Marini
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You missed out on a lot of fun dates.
Can't argue with you there. 
One of the most crap feelings of my life, turning down a woman for a date. Truly bloody hideous and absolutely miserable. I used to bellyache about how women should do the asking, to make things equal .... I don't, now. It feels fucking awful to turn a woman down and I still have *no* idea how to do it well. (Not that it happens every day, mind you - far from it ... but I'll avoid getting into the sort of situation where it might arise like the plague, these days.)
IMO: a woman dominating a man in the sack - easy enough. A woman whacking a bloke up his jacksie with a strap-on - bit of a thing to get your head around, but still doable. I'd venture to suggest that physical acts aren't that important for the average male.
But matters to do with etiquette - much more of a struggle. A *woman* asking *a man* out - still way beyond any role-reversal challenge than any of the aforementioned, for me. Funny, really.
I agree with you peon.
I don't mind being "suggestive", but I want the man, to ask me out /and make the first big move.
I am a Dominant woman, if I approach a man/or submissive first, he probably won't feel as if he has to work as hard to "get" me.
I like to be courted, woed, chased... I want him to crawl, beg, plead.
oops getting carried away
Point is, these days many men suffer from NOT being gallant and chivalrous.
The LAST thing most of them need to feel, especially initially, is to feel over-confident.
People that are over-confident tend not to work as hard.
Often if a woman makes the first move, many men will feel, they don't have to work as hard to get her.
If you want my ass, you better go to work.
If you can't approach me, you don't want me.
The thing is to each their own.
If a woman wants to ask a man out, or into her bed she can.
It's not a big deal.
There is no right or wrong, do whatever floats your boat.
< Message edited by Marini -- 8/6/2016 2:33:03 PM >
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