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Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 3:42:09 PM   
Crake


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Status: offline 		please answer assuming you would be attracted to the man if he weren't married:
you may choose multiple answers.
feel free to elaborate on your answer if you'd like to discuss it in depth.

Attractive, married men cheating on their non-kinky wives...
1) are a turn off because of dishonesty
2) are more attractive than the same man if he is single
3) are a turn on, but I would not date one myself
4) used to turn me on until I slept w/ one
5) used to turn me off until I dated one who told me he was single
6) neutral, would sleep w/ him & keep his secret if I liked him
7) should divorce & become poly if they seek variety
8) are a turn off for another reason
9) are great for sex because they don't get clingy
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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 3:46:02 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		Why not add #10

10.  Are the majority of dominant men I have met.

Jeff

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 3:48:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrjx

Why not add #10

10.  Are the majority of dominant men I have met.

Jeff


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And may I add ... thank God for 'em!

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 4:21:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Are the choices different if they're not so attractive?

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 4:22:53 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		I answered in the polls section and it would be redundant to answer here again

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 4:28:00 PM   
Crake


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Status: offline 		Thanks, I was interested to see if submiisves give different results than the general poll gets

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 4:31:45 PM   
Crake


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Status: offline 		good point,
but maybe you know the joke about sexual harassment only being harassment if the guy is unattractive to the person being harassed...

I didn't define attractive, I am interested in getting at what turns people on/off about infidelity.


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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 5:50:20 PM   
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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 7:41:16 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		you're wearing me out here, cross-posting, polling a recapitulation of your profile......

Nahhhhhhhhhhh, piss on this.

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 7:50:18 PM   
WetHotGoddess


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Status: offline 		If it wears you out so much ron, why bother to post?  Is there a race going on that I am not privvy to?  Perhaps..  a prize for the CM poster who posts the most posts gets a post with their posts posted on it?  LOL '
 
 

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

you're wearing me out here, cross-posting, polling a recapitulation of your profile......

Nahhhhhhhhhhh, piss on this.

Ron



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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 9:10:41 PM   
mnottertail


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Nothing as precious as that, I can assure you.

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 9:17:22 PM   
diamonddreamlove


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Status: offline 		Until my husband died many thought that i was a cheater also even tho we had our agreement.  So i can not judge the Doms on that issue alone.  I can say i resent the idea that they are called cheaters.  Just because one is married to a vanilla does not mean they are dead and should not be allowed to participate in the activity they choose.  Instead of looking at the married issue i look at the compatability issues which i think is much more important than their marital status.  Oh and yes my vanilla husband had his vanilla girlfriends.

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 9:22:56 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		Let me ask, are you the married man that you are polling us about? I just had to ask

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 10:10:44 PM   
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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 10:20:16 PM   
juliaoceania


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ORIGINAL: Evanesce

Why is this thread on multiple forums?


I was wondering the same thing

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 11:13:25 PM   
Crake


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Status: offline 		piss on yourself, Ron, you wore yourself out. take responsibility for your actions.
I am trying to have a conversation. a profile reaches a smaller audience than a post.
if you don't have an opinion on cheating, spare yourself the agony of reading this thread.

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 11:15:43 PM   
Crake


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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 11:21:22 PM   
Crake


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Status: offline 		no because
a) I am not married
and
b) none of you know me

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/16/2006 11:48:43 PM   
fullofgrace


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Status: offline 		Attractive, married men cheating on their non-kinky wives...
1) are a turn off because of dishonesty
7) should divorce & become poly if they seek variety
8) are a turn off for another reason

i think they're a turnoff for two reasons: one is dishonesty (which also implies a lack of respect for their partner). the other is...if they won't respect the person they've given marriage vows to, why would they respect me? why would i want to date or sleep with someone who has no respect for me? also, if a married man were to leave his wife for me...he could just as well turn me in for a model that's newer and more exciting, and is more likely to do so, i think, than a man who hasn't cheated. sorry, not interested.

i'm a bit iffy on the should divorce and become poly. i think they should do what they can to save their marriage instead of going outside of it, including perhaps introducing the idea of poly to their spouse (if workable), and only divorce as a last resort. i also don't necessarily think people who cheat do so because they're meant to be poly; some people are just dishonest. but then again, some people who cheat would do well to divorce and become poly. so it depends on the person.

i think the average man (or woman) who cheats (there are exceptions) do so because they're lacking something in themselves - like the ability to know what they want in a relationship and/or to commit to what they communicate that they want. there's also a fair element of loving their IDEA of the person they're with, rather than the person themselves, which leads to easy disappointment and the desire to look outside of the relationship.


< Message edited by fullofgrace -- 8/16/2006 11:51:03 PM >

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RE: Attractive married men cheating on their wives... - 8/17/2006 12:18:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		piss on you, Ron is l33tsauce.  Everyone is allowed to voice their opinions here, if you don't want to hear them, don't post on a public forum.

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