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LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 10:02:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darkinshadows
I am not a great raw meat person, but I did once have some very thin slices of steak (and when I say thin I mean more than wafer) thatwas essentially 'cooked' in lemon juice.  Must say it was one of the most exquiste meats I have ever tasted.
 
But I didn't have to shoot it[;)]
 
Peace and Rapture
Mmmm seviche steak!  And all I've got for lunch is a tin of Dinty Moore beef stew.




darkinshadows -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 10:02:10 AM)

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Since you are directly asking me this I will not hold back... I would not stop eating meat for someone, even if they owned me. They have no right to change the rules of the game once I have negotiated with them my limits, and consuming meat is necessary to dietary health in my eyes.

I have a question (not just to julia though - anyone can answer if they want)... if your Daddy(or whomever) became a vegan or vegetarian and asked the same of you... and I say asked, not demanded.  And You refuse - and you feel that it is a break in the contract as it is not a pre discussed requirement.  What if they came to this decision from whatever reason - say, they watched a program or were witness to something that meant they could not stomach the thought of consuming meat... (for an example... my friend became a photographer with the police - he had to become vegetarian - not out of ethical reasons... but because he just saw so much gore in his work, that he could not bring himself ever again to eat meat or have it in the house)  How is that a break in a contract?  Its something not even considered may happen?  Would you still refuse - purely on your needs - or do you sit down and negociate - discover the reason and find it impossible to have meat in the house - you either choose to stay or go?
 
Not everything is so black and white as a broken contract...
 
Peace and Rapture




Misstoyou -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 10:02:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip


I don't believe it is fair to demand a sub modify their diet.



"Fair" is an interesting word in a D/s setting. There certainly can be a host of valid reasons to demand a submissive modify his/her diet. When my submissive/puppy discovered he has high cholesterol, I immediately restricted him to no red meat in his diet ... unless I am with him, which at the moment can only be a couple of times a week. While not dietary perfection, it's a start, and it has the added benefit of reinforcing "the good stuff" with me. lol




FirmhandKY -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 10:03:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Fawne

FirmHandKY: Would you please pass the steak?
How do you enjoy yours, Sir?  Rare, I'd bet [:D] May I join you?


Certainly, join me.  But the only thing I like rare is my fish (big fan of sushi here).  For a good steak, just a hint of red is my preference. [:D]


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ORIGINAL: Fawne

This whole thing makes me want to scream. Not the subject, or the OP-

But the naviety and assumption that "DOMINANTS KNOW ALL- organically and without consideration, learning, study too!" and if the slave/sub questions... <insert topic> ?

My dear, people are people.  It's a human problem, not simply a dom issue.  Doms simply have the ability to overdo it sometimes.

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ORIGINAL: Fawne

PS vegans can only have plant based foods. Veggies can be ovo lacto (egg + milk) pesco (fishies) but can't eat most things with faces.


I've never talked to, or read about anyone is the "I eat primarily non-meat products" line of thinking who didn't make the decision primarily because of a belief system, rather than for any type of health reason.  Not saying that there aren't such people, just that I've never met any.

I simply see the differences between what they allow themselves to eat as different sacraments within their religion.  Basically, they belong to different denominations of the same church.

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ORIGINAL: Fawne

help....


With ... ?




FirmhandKY -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 10:17:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darkinshadows

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The OP admits it's an ethical issue, not primarily a health based one.  Ethics=beliefs=belief systems= religious.  Food and religion are connected in many ways.  This is just one more.  Would you like me to start listing dietary restrictions of major religions?

I never said that food and religious issues arent linked... I said that you cannot compare the two.  They are there own issues.  Your little chart proves nothing.
So the OP has a ethical reason... that isnt religious.  And if you read the OP and take the topic as a whole, you will see that it isn't really about the ethics... it is about whether or not to insist her slave obey her.  Do not try and sit there and tell me she isn't considering all outcomes - she obviously cares for her boy - and don't try and make it a force issue.  Things change - as I said in another thread - people have sudden revelations all the time  - you can't expect to just sign a contract and agree limits at the start of a relationship and just think thats that... nothing is ever gonna change.  Because if thats how your relationship works or you expect it to work - I have news for you.  It is going to become stagnant pretty damned fast.
 
Also note.  We are discussing a dominant/slave relationship here.  If you cannot understand that concept then don't bother answering because your point of view will not meld with this kind of agreement.
 
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Where did I not distinguish between vegetarianism and veganism?  I do know the difference, but most of the time, it's a distinction without a difference.
In your post. (number 29)  You spoke about vegans, not vegetarianism in your post.
 
You also stated.
 
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Even chimps eat meat when they can get it.

If that is your reasons why humans are omnivores, then thats a poor example.
Chimps also rape the females in their tribe.
Chimps also commit regular acts of canniblism.
 
Does that mean we humans must all be rapists by nature - and also able to commit canniblism without negative outcomes?
 
Humans were primarily fruit eaters.  During later devolpment they ate meat when it was available to them - if they found it - there is no evidence that human ancestors killed and became hunter- gatherers until much later in evolutionary history..  I challenge you to give any animal something that isnt on their food chain and they will consume it if they are on a survival mode.
 
Canine teeth are not relevant to the discussion of meat vs plant.  Human canines are smaller than they would be if meat was the main and primary source of nutrition.  Humans have no claws.  They sweat through pores.  The stomach acid is not capable of disolving raw meat in a continous manner.  We have saliva glads that are far advanced.  We have flat rear molars.  Human ancestors were primarily tree dwelling, not ground hunters and only began foragers when we evolved down from the trees.
 
I never said that humans were not omnivores ever, but primarily - in the beginning... they werent even herbivores, but frubivores.
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There are good arguments that meat eating became a requirement for the human race when his brain started to expand.  Or that his brain started to expand because he was able to eat more meat than his ancestors.
 
And?  That doesn't prove that humans were originally omnivores or even carnivores.  It just shows they evolved into being such.
 
Peace and Rapture



You know darkinshadows, it's very difficult for me to stomach your snarky attitude while everyone else is being quite friendly and calmly discussing this issue.

I could decide to take you on point by point (and if you wish to start a thread specifically about this, I will).  I can get quite snarky back.

But I have no desire to have this degenerate into one of those threads, and I believe I have answered the OP's question directly and without animous.

Why not examine your attitude, and address it somewhere outside the forum?

FHky




juliaoceania -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 10:22:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darkinshadows

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Since you are directly asking me this I will not hold back... I would not stop eating meat for someone, even if they owned me. They have no right to change the rules of the game once I have negotiated with them my limits, and consuming meat is necessary to dietary health in my eyes.

I have a question (not just to julia though - anyone can answer if they want)... if your Daddy(or whomever) became a vegan or vegetarian and asked the same of you... and I say asked, not demanded.  And You refuse - and you feel that it is a break in the contract as it is not a pre discussed requirement.  What if they came to this decision from whatever reason - say, they watched a program or were witness to something that meant they could not stomach the thought of consuming meat... (for an example... my friend became a photographer with the police - he had to become vegetarian - not out of ethical reasons... but because he just saw so much gore in his work, that he could not bring himself ever again to eat meat or have it in the house)  How is that a break in a contract?  Its something not even considered may happen?  Would you still refuse - purely on your needs - or do you sit down and negociate - discover the reason and find it impossible to have meat in the house - you either choose to stay or go?
 
Not everything is so black and white as a broken contract...
 
Peace and Rapture



I stated that in my studies of teeth and amino acids and our evolutionary history as a species  I have discovered that meat eating is necessary to my health as a living organism. If my Dom said that eating Vitamin C made him sick to witness, I would  not stop eating things with vitamin C. If he said water drinking was disgusting, I would not quit drinking water. I may not do it in his view, but I would not allow a relationship to negatively affect my health.. this is nonnegotiable.

In my agreement with him he has stated he would never impact my health, family, or career negatively in an intentional way...it would break the contract if he dumped me for being a meat eater after he collared me as one. He can do so, but he is demanding I do something negative in regards to my health is a breaking of the contract, I didn't break it by eating meat.. I have always eaten meat, he broke it by demanding I not do so.

On Edit: These are the reasons I will think long and hard about a collar on my neck and I am not rushing that.




darkinshadows -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 10:31:13 AM)

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In my agreement with him he has stated he would never impact my health, family, or career negatively in an intentional way...it would break the contract if he dumped me for being a meat eater after he collared me as one. He can do so, but he is demanding I do something negative in regards to my health is a breaking of the contract, I didn't break it by eating meat.. I have always eaten meat, he broke it by demanding I not do so.

I can understand the idea of breaking a contract if it is purposeful - but I dont see how it is a willful break of contract if it is something that cannot be helped.  If a Master becomes allegic to something.  If it was in the case of my photographer friend...  whilst I do not deny the qualities meat brings to life - I eat meat myself and adore it - if there was a genuine reason my partner could not eat meat - I would not wish to risk my relationship over it just because I would be stubbon because its what I want.  And I do not see it as a break of contract.
 
I know we are different - I just cannot grasp a lack of compromise. (I know you, julia, will take that as its meant, not an insult, just an observation which is possibly wrong)
 
Peace and Rapture




darkinshadows -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 10:33:59 AM)

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You know darkinshadows, it's very difficult for me to stomach your snarky attitude while everyone else is being quite friendly and calmly discussing this issue.

I could decide to take you on point by point (and if you wish to start a thread specifically about this, I will).  I can get quite snarky back.

But I have no desire to have this degenerate into one of those threads, and I believe I have answered the OP's question directly and without animous.

Why not examine your attitude, and address it somewhere outside the forum?

FHky

How you feel about me is not my responsibility.  Your choice.
My attitude needs no examining as I do not answer to you... and I am responding to your questions.  If you cannot continue a conversation, leave it be. No need to throw offhand comments to try and assert any position.
 
If you wish to continue as discussion and not a pissing contest - it continues here.  If not - have a pleasent day.
 
Peace and Rapture




LL1aintbehavin -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 10:36:08 AM)

i have to agree with Julia on this one.  This is not to me a debate on health issues on eating meat or not, it is should being vegetarian be forced on the sub or slave.
In the beginning of the relationship, especially if it is long term and a live together situation, i believe both have a little adjusting to each others ways, habbits and such which is normal. 
i guess if i knew in the beginning that my Dom was vegetarian and that i would not be allowed meat if we got together, that would be hard one for me.  i have always eaten meat, and it would be difficult to consider giving it up.
Once being in a relationship and eating meat in meals together, then told that the Dom has changed their mind about their eating meat, and that was being forced on me i would resent.
I guess it is all up to the individual.  I would resent being forced to omit meat from my diet when it was not discussed before hand in great detail.
Discussing maybe going to vegetarian is not the same things as saying we are going there and you won't have meat in this house, two different issues.
If this is an issue of accepting any changes that the Dominant demands, then i guess maybe it should be a hard limit discussed before entering a relationship.
(looks up to see if its on my list)
just my opinion of course
aintbehavin




juliaoceania -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 10:40:14 AM)

He is not allergic to it, he has a mental block about it. If we replaced "water" with "meat", I think you would see what I mean.. some people think water is gross, and they will only drink milk, beer, kool aid, or juices.. am I supposed to quit drinking water because they think it is disgusting?...Um, not going to quit drinking water because of someone else's mental block and they would need a submissive that felt that way about water too I guess.

I stated I would not eat meat in front of them if it made them sick, if they formed such a repulsion to meat that I could not keep it in a veggie drawer where they never saw it then that has gone beyond their revulsion to impacting my health. It is being unreasonable, and I would believe they broke their contract with me.. period.




SlaveMusician -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 11:36:05 AM)

Hello everyone. This is Nikolette's slave, Andrew. I have not posted to the forums since before I was collared, but after reading through some responses here, I would like to add my voice to the discussion.

First of all, I'd like to confirm what Nikolette has said so far regarding the nature of our relationship. Although our relationship didn't have a contract with a "vegetarian clause" upon it's conception, the nature of the relationship is a Mistress/slave relationship. The way my Mistress defines this term, and the way I have learned to accept it, is very literal, concise, and to the point: I am hers. I have no more right to any decision that goes against her will then her shoes or any other property would.

This is a concept with which I have struggled in coming to terms with; and yet, this is also a concept that when I do accept it - when I accept complete unwavering submission, when I accept that I have no rights other than what she gives to me - I am happiest. Our relationship is always at it's best when I can truly see my slavery as being complete and submit to her control and total authority.

That being said, this is not an easy thing to do - especially since I am a very opinionated person. Although I love and relish submission, I feel I have a strong personality and have strong beliefs. This is my first true BDSM relationship - my first real relationship of any sort for that matter - although I have wanted such a relationship for my entire life. I always wanted to submit completely to a powerful female, who would love, nurture and control me. However, in my daily interactions with authority, whether it was my parents, teachers, etc. I would never, EVER be submissive - I would always argue until I got my way, and as such developed a degree of arrogance and brattiness which has interfered with me coming to terms with the realities of total slavery. In addition, my Mistress doesn't want me to lose my personality and my opinions - but at the same time she doesn't want me to argue against her own. I have found it to be a very delicate balance for me between mindless autonomic submission and passionately willed ego.

So now we come to the issue at hand - converting to vegetarianism. If my Mistress were to tell me today "That's it, no more meat," would I still go out and eat meat? Not a chance. However, would I complain about it? Would I try to negotiate a middle ground? Of course. Such a radical change will not come easily to me. I would obey her order, but I would not accept it psychologically. And this of course is not appropriate behavior for a slave, and would detriment our relationship and undo much of the work that I have been putting into becoming a better slave.

Many people in this thread have compared changing to a vegetarian diet to changing religious or political beliefs, and while I don't necessarily see it as being as extreme as these things, I do see it in the same vein. It would be different if it was a health issue for my Mistress, and she couldn't eat meat, and wouldn't let me eat it either. It would be a much easier change to make in this case, albeit still difficult due to the fact that my diet is a habit I have had all of my life, and one that will therefore be hard to break. However, my Mistress has made it clear that she wants me to cease eating meat on moral grounds. She does not wish me to stop eating meat because she commands it; she wishes me to not want meat because it disagrees with my moral standings.

Some people have stated that commanding a change in morals is overstepping the bounds of D/s. While this may be true, so far my morals seem to lie along a similar path as my Mistress. She has shown me videos from PETA regarding the cruel treatment of animals in factory farms, and I am appalled at this treatment. I have immediately agreed to give up consumption of beef and pork, as I don't think that I can eat anything that has gone through the treatment those animals have and feel morally decent. I still would eat beef and pork if I was sure it came from a cruelty-free farm, as would my Mistress, but I can not comfortably eat these animals without that assurance.

The big issue with my conversion to vegetarianism at the moment is seafood. I love seafood, and will normally order it whenever I get a chance to do so. I also do not have the same moral issues regarding seafood as I do beef and pork. The seafood that is fished for mass distribution hasn't been tortured throughout their entire lives as have the cows and pigs. It is that torture that is my current moral ground for my conversion. There are other reasons to give up seafood, as my Mistress has informed me of the destruction of the ocean which comes as a byproduct of the methods used to procure it, but as of yet I still feel the need to weigh these reasons before being ready to give up seafood entirely.

I am, however, ready to cutback on it. I am ready to slowly approach the point of possibly phasing out seafood entirely from my diet. I just don't want to abruptly give it up without careful consideration of my moral standing.

Anyway, I am sorry for the long-winded post, but I thank all of you for reading through it, and am looking forward to your responses.




darkinshadows -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 11:41:32 AM)

I was asking hypothetically:  If a person becomes allegic to a product that you loved and felt it integral to your health - even if you could compromise and eat something similar and gain the same nutrients - would you rather lose your relationship or compromise?
 
If - in the case of my photographer friend - it is a lifestyle alteration based on an external force - surely compromise is the key to a healthy relationship?  Not whether or not a contract is broken.
 
Peace and Rapture




Bluetemptation -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 11:54:10 AM)

The problem with seafood is not the way they get it, the problem is that it is full of the toxins our industries pump into the ocean, the first thing I would stop to eat would be seafood and fish
But that might have to do with the fact that I don't like the moral discussion and avoid preaching vegetarians and vegans

I would have no problem to stop eating meat around a partner or friend, because cooking and buying groceries once is much better, but I would reserve my right to eat meat when I am without my partner, cause the moral dilemma is so not mine.
But I know I get meat cravings fairly easy and I am always slightly anemic and need extra iron. And I know that the cravings translate into cravings for all greasy food, which would be a lot more unhealthy than eating meat once a week or so




onestandingstill -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 12:24:59 PM)

This response of mine is also in the  post about "beliefs". I figure since it's the same question I will post the same answer.


While I don't necessarily think it's a requirement to be the same, or think the same as my partner, I do feel what I eat is something a Dom should have control over if I belong to him. If being vegetarian is a hard limit you absolutley will not do I say you should mention it up front. If it came up later and was absolutley important my choice would only be to obey or be released.
I'd be veggie for the one I served if I had one and he wanted it that way, but man wouldn't I miss a big fat T-Bone steak.
Suzanne




Nikolette -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 12:31:03 PM)

This thread did indeed take off in a direction that I was hoping it wouldn't.

There will always be a lot of debate about vegetarianism. There will always be different sets of opinions based on different sets of information. And just like those opinions, real life is flexible and different.

To those who have commented on the error in demanding a slave/sub to change their diet: As I have tried to state a few times, this is something I have tried to handle in a flexible, and now even more so a patient manner. I agree that its improper to simply lay a wall in front of someone with no preparation or plan or understanding of the vast effect it will have. I would not make any MAJOR life change abruptly. And you are welcome to go back and read all of my posts and replies to this affect.

To those who have commented on the health aspects of vegetarianism: Many people make a lot of life decisions for themselves and their slaves/subs without having done much research, put in much thought, or had much experience in the particular given topic. ... Whether it means being a vegetarian, or asking a slave to become polyamorous or to live in total chastitiy... This always turns out poorly in my experience. For me vegetarianism is a well thought out plan to impliment. It has multiple points of reasoning behind it, with ethics being the main motivator, but this does not mean that I am not FULLY and utterly aware of how the body works, and how to become fully functional and healthy has a vegetarian. I failed before, not from LACK of awareness of what I was doing wrong, but poor ACCESS to tools I needed to do it well. I made an educated choice to go back to eating meat, that transended my ethics. I would do the same for myself or my slave in the future.

Neither one of us are worried about the health aspects. I am extremely well educated on nutrition, I do not believe that eating meat is BAD for one's health. I would in fact possibly consume meat products from cruelty free farms, I would in fact slaughter my own animals. I grew up in rural Missouri and I have a very good understanding of the happy lives that many animals have on small farms. I know how to monitor and regulate my protein, vitamins, and carbohydrates to create a full diet. There are lots of supplements and alternative sources for what one can get from meat.

To sum up.... for me this has been a careful, educated, slow, and newly patient choice that I am going to implement in our lives compassionately and intelligently.

I feel like I have probably said all that there is to say on my position and thoughts, background and opinions on this topic in this and PRIOR posts that came after my OP. I look forward to reading whatever else anyone has to say though.

I appreciate everyone with their different opinions, their understanding, and their questions and suggestions!




juliaoceania -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 12:45:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: darkinshadows

I was asking hypothetically:  If a person becomes allegic to a product that you loved and felt it integral to your health - even if you could compromise and eat something similar and gain the same nutrients - would you rather lose your relationship or compromise?
 
If - in the case of my photographer friend - it is a lifestyle alteration based on an external force - surely compromise is the key to a healthy relationship?  Not whether or not a contract is broken.
 
Peace and Rapture


I cannot imagine one applicable example of what you are trying to convey. I was responding to the OP, and I have to say I cannot imagine an allergy to something necessary to my own health would be so bad that I could not partake of it when he wasn't home or I wasn't home. I cannot imagine that something I ingest outside of someone else's presense could make some else physically ill. So I guess your point is lost on me.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 1:00:38 PM)

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
I cannot imagine that something I ingest outside of someone else's presense could make some else physically ill. So I guess your point is lost on me.


Well there's peanuts.  I was friends with a couple once who had two daughters, one of whom was highly allergic to peanuts.  It was so bad that neither her nor her sister could buy candy that had been produced at plants which also processed peanuts.

Or there's the case of my aunt and her husband.  He was exposed to a chemical at work and over time developed a huge allergy and health problems which basically took him from an active, healthy strong young man into someone who can't leave the house on hot and muggy days due to breathing problems.  My aunt has had to change her entire perspective on the relationship, act in a completely new role than it was established for the first years, they don't go out on trips, they don't socialize as much, their sex life is completely different. 

Things change.  Deciding whether you can accept change or not is a personal choice and one is not bad or wrong for deciding that they cannot accept a certain change- but to deny out of hand any possibility of growing with the change seems a bit short sighted.




mnottertail -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 1:03:05 PM)

Oh Boy!!!

I can't wait, I am adding this to my repetoire............ you are gonna eat this roasted onion, you bitch, or you can go over in the corner and lay down by the blow up doll....ask her how her day went when she didn't swallow........ Brilliant!!!!!

LOLOLOL,
Ron

I am in agreement with jo(not to be confused with jlo, but I haven't seen a picture of that portion of her being.......lololol.) where is the harm? who is aggrieged by this?




darkinshadows -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 1:12:29 PM)

Thats my point I was trying to make Em... if something would cause serious harm or there was serious risk and you couldnt have it in the house at all... would a person still not compromise.  It happens.  Some people can become so allergic to an item that to even have something that has been in contact with that item can cause a seriuos health complaint.  An extreme example I know but with times changing as they are it DOES happen.
 
I simply cannot understand the statement that its a break in a contract.  Its unavoidable and no one is to blame.  So why do people refuse to compromise?
 
Peace and Rapture




FirmhandKY -> RE: Forced Vegetarianism??? (8/17/2006 1:49:45 PM)

(darkinshadows mostly in italics and centered)

I never said that food and religious issues arent linked...

Post 40:                Religion is totally different to food.

Sounds like you did to me.

I said that you cannot compare the two.  They are there own issues. 

They are strongly related issues.  Are they not?

[snark alert] Your little chart proves nothing.

So the OP has a ethical reason... that isnt religious. 

Her decision to "go vegetarian" is based on her ethics and her belief system.  A belief system is a collection of beliefs which are mutually supporting in that a test for any one of them is a test for many of the others. (link).

Religions are also belief systems.  From a psychological point of view they are the same thing - although not legally.  But generally, vegetarianism and veganism come from the same place as religion, and have the similar impacts.

Isn't it generally accepted that ethics are based in religious beliefs?

I gave an explanation in a later post why I thought it was a "religious issue" and why I inadvertantly didn't put " ... and vegetarian" along with the word "vegan" in my post 29, to wit: "... but most of the time, it's a distinction without a difference."

It's a matter of degree, if an individual decides to become a vegetarian based on moral or ethical principles as the OP has done or take that further step and become a full blown vegan. You don't have to agree with me, although I'm more than willing to advance my case in detail.  You certainly don't advance your cause or case by being snarky and belittling.  State your case and we'll argue the specifics. 

 And if you read the OP and take the topic as a whole, you will see that it isn't really about the ethics... it is about whether or not to insist her slave obey her.

Isn't that an ethical question in this context?  Doesn't it seem to be an ethical problem for her, whether or not to "force" her sub to do something that he and she have strong and diametrically opposed beliefs about?  Isn't she wrestling with her conscience? Isn't that an ethical dilemma?

 [snark alert] Do not try and sit there and tell me she isn't considering all outcomes - she obviously cares for her boy - and don't try and make it a force issue.  Things change - as I said in another thread - people have sudden revelations all the time  - you can't expect to just sign a contract and agree limits at the start of a relationship and just think thats that... nothing is ever gonna change. 

I didn't "sit here" and "try to tell you" anything of the sort.  Don't project, or post to me about something that I didn't do, or say.  This comment comes totally out of left field as far as I can determine.  As a matter of fact, what I actually said was:  "The OP's situation with her sub is their own dynamic, but I wouldn't castigate or blame the sub if he decided to not assume a vegan [or vegetarian] diet, nor would I particularly care if he accepted it."

And I think you have it exactly correct about there sometimes being "sudden revelations" - but from the wrong end.  Why should a sub suffer and put up with something outside of the accepted dynamic without re-negotiating?  Suppose, all of sudden your dom decided he liked the taste of roasted femsub, and you were on the menu?  I guess you'll just hop on into the oven?

An extreme example, yes, but it fits your definition.  Are you one of those "no limit" subs/slaves?  Or would you be talking a mile a minute about "trust", "limits" and "our prior understanding"?

[snark alert] Because if thats how your relationship works or you expect it to work - I have news for you.  It is going to become stagnant pretty damned fast.
 
[snark alert] Also note.  We are discussing a dominant/slave relationship here.  If you cannot understand that concept then don't bother answering because your point of view will not meld with this kind of agreement.

Since these two sentences are nothing other than ad hominen, BS personal attack, I'll let your words speak for themselves.
 
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Where did I not distinguish between vegetarianism and veganism?  I do know the difference, but most of the time, it's a distinction without a difference.

In your post. (number 29)  You spoke about vegans, not vegetarianism in your post.

You are correct.  I have also explained my position above, and in an earlier post.  To wit: it is simply a matter of degree (in most cases) whether one decides to dip their toes in the waters of vegetarianism, or take the plunge in the deep end and become a vegan.  Argue the point if you wish, but please drop the snide snarky remarks.
 
You also stated.
 
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Even chimps eat meat when they can get it.

If that is your reasons why humans are omnivores, then thats a poor example.
Chimps also rape the females in their tribe.
Chimps also commit regular acts of canniblism.

Homo sapiens also rape females in their tribe.  Homo sapiens also commit regular acts of "canniblism".  I fail to see how this invalidates my point.  Rather, it reinforces my point that as a class, the family of primates that homo sapiens is related to, also eat meat regularly.  There are exceptions, but that's what they are - exceptions.
 
Does that mean we humans must all be rapists by nature - and also able to commit canniblism without negative outcomes?

Yes.
 
Humans were primarily fruit eaters.  During later devolpment they ate meat when it was available to them - if they found it - there is no evidence that human ancestors killed and became hunter- gatherers until much later in evolutionary history.. 

Humans (homo sapiens) are not, and have never been "primarily fruit eaters".  Cite some legitimate source if you wish to assert this.

What is "later development"?  Do not confuse all hominds with homo sapiens, which is what it sounds like you are doing.  If you want to get into a detailed discussion about the evolution of man, and what different species of hominds may have eaten at different stages, then we can go into that detail.

The anthropological record shows that the most of the extinct primates that lead to homo sapiens were at least occasional meat eaters.  While they would eat fruit, it was likely not their primary/only source of food as you seem to be stating.

I challenge you to give any animal something that isnt on their food chain and they will consume it if they are on a survival mode.

I'm not sure of your point in this.  On the surface, it seems to support my position, not yours.
 
Canine teeth are not relevant to the discussion of meat vs plant.  Human canines are smaller than they would be if meat was the main and primary source of nutrition.  Humans have no claws.  They sweat through pores.  The stomach acid is not capable of disolving raw meat in a continous manner.  We have saliva glads that are far advanced.  We have flat rear molars.  Human ancestors were primarily tree dwelling, not ground hunters and only began foragers when we evolved down from the trees.

I'll give you the canine teeth thing, although I do believe it is relevent.  I do not buy into the "display" theory of canine development.  Your other examples?  I'm not sure how they are relevent either.  Man is an omnivore.  He has characteristics of both carnivores and herbivores.  Go look at the two links I posted earlier.  If you wish to cherry pick certain facts to support your case, and ignore others, be prepared to be challenged.
 
I never said that humans were not omnivores ever, but primarily - in the beginning... they werent even herbivores, but frubivores.

Again, cite some relevant source for this incorrect assertion.  Homo sapiens have never ... I repeat ... NEVER frubivores.  Nor, from memory were any of the accepted "ancestor" species of homo sapiens.

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There are good arguments that meat eating became a requirement for the human race when his brain started to expand.  Or that his brain started to expand because he was able to eat more meat than his ancestors.
 
And?  That doesn't prove that humans were originally omnivores or even carnivores.  It just shows they evolved into being such.

What it "proves" is that meat and man have a long, long history.  It is the organ of the brain that makes "man" uniquely "man", in my eyes.  And ... again ... you make my point by admitting that "man" is an omnivore.  Isn't that what you disagreed with me about to a large extent?

FHky




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