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RE: UNICORN HUNT. - 8/19/2006 9:55:26 PM

MzMinx

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btw twice *smiles* ... it happens on this side of the world as well

Some of it does have to do with the differences in the way (most) males think and relate and the way (most) females think and relate

It takes time to work through all the differences in expectations .... but the good ones *smiles at you* as the three of you know ... make it all worth while ... even though it can be frustrating

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RE: UNICORN HUNT. - 8/19/2006 9:59:39 PM

MisPandora

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ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip

> And yet you have NO comeback to the point that a
> majority of the presenters who teach BDSM across
> the US are femdoms who clearly don't fit your bill.
> Is there a reason for that?

If I understand you correctly, all these presenters are
just fuckbuddies since they demonstrate on subs
with whom they are not in a 24/7 relationship.

At Club Kink in Fort Lauderdale, all the presenters
are male Doms. I never heard of femdoms teaching
BDSM. I have no idea what you are talking about.
And even if this were true, I don't see its relevance.
I don't know what you mean when you say, "FemDoms
don't fit my bill"? I have no idea what you mean.

I've been to Club Kink and hardly consider that the be-all end-all of models of educational forums. In fact, if you were looking for something or someone to take as an example, it would be Mistress Carla and Command Performance right there IN Ft Lauderdale.

Whatever you're otherwise blathering about (involving this convo somehow with the fuckbuddy statement), you're off in your own little world right now, not making any sense. Nothing more to see here on this train wreck site.

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RE: Excuse me. - 8/20/2006 3:55:01 AM

twicehappy

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ORIGINAL: justheather

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Why would a Domme want to give someone she really likes or loves, pain?

Because for some people, the giving over of oneself/taking of another in such a manner is a form of lovemaking

Beautifully put, yes, lovemaking, how simply yet powerfully true.

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ORIGINAL: cynthiamarie

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Why would a Domme want to give someone she really likes or loves, pain?

Because we like the sound of the impact of floggers or paddles on their skin?

Because the marks look beautiful...leaving our mark can provoke passionate thoughts

The heat rising up off the skin is nice to touch and absorb?

Because the flinching is almost hypnotic?

The changed breathing is like music?

Because that drugged look of subspace really gets to me?

Because if he cares for me and wants to give something of himself to me, it becomes a spiritual thing, not just a generic topping/bottoming scene.

With someone I care for, when I left welts on him from upper back to almost his knees, I felt much more bonded with him. We both felt pride in his marks and were rueful when they disappeared 3 or 4 days later.

Am i the only one who needed a cold shower after this post?

You describe the connection and deeper levels of this sort of mental and physical intimacy in an almost hypnotically erotic fashion.

For all of us here in this house this connection, this love, this heat is what drives our M/M/s physical encounters. I could not imagine Jewel reaching for or touching some one she did not have this bond with, she must trust and care for, if not love the one she shares her passion with. As for Scooter i can honestly say he would not scene with some one he did not love. It is the look in my eyes, that helpless loving devotion, that melting of my emotions that drives his arousal, not hyper active genitalia.

< Message edited by twicehappy -- 8/20/2006 3:58:02 AM >

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RE: Excuse me. - 8/20/2006 4:19:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I think you have mistaken your needs and wants from other people's.. which is a common enough mistake.

As well as projecting his own experiences to be the same as everybody else's, i think you have it exactly right here.

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

(from whipthe hip's profile)

I am trying to start a new religion.

This is scary, if he offers you Koolaid...........

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ORIGINAL: MzMinx

Why would I want to indulge such intimate and yummy things with someone I dislike .... why would I want their energy any where near me

This sentiment is my own as it is obviously that of many other posters.

I for one cannot stand to feel the vibes of some one who makes my mind feel icky. Lol, not a very apt description but for those who have felt the slimy enery from another to the point of not being able to shake their hand you know what i mean. It can ruin your whole day and make you actually need to leave the room.

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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

I hope I did not imply with my note that finding people on-line is impossible.

Nor did i take it that way, no worrys.

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My own personal definition of psychotic behavior is doing the same thing over and over again, hoping for a different outcome.

Is that why i keep running Enduros? ROFLMAO......

You know i enter the damn things so hyped and happy then about a few hours into it i am asking" somebody please tell me why i thought this was a good idea?" But i enter the next one just as hyped and excited; here i thought it was only the masochist in me.

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

Whatever you're otherwise blathering about (involving this convo somehow with the fuckbuddy statement), you're off in your own little world right now, not making any sense. Nothing more to see here on this train wreck site.

But there are still bodies lying around, big silly grins......

PS; I love that corset, simple yet elegant, nice choice for your photo

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RE: UNICORN HUNT. - 8/20/2006 6:29:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora
I've been to Club Kink and hardly consider that the be-all end-all of models of educational forums. In fact, if you were looking for something or someone to take as an example, it would be Mistress Carla and Command Performance right there IN Ft Lauderdale.

The few times that I have been to CP, I enjoyed it much more than Club Kink. It has a completely different atmosphere than Kinks and I very much enjoyed meeting Mistress Carla.

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