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no hands - 9/2/2006 10:17:30 AM   
Homestead


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Status: offline 		Imagine you as a sub, are kept in locking bondage mittens for a day. Thickly padded totally losing the use of your fingers and thumb. The Top would be around- how do you think it would play out?

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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:19:17 AM   
mstrjx


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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:19:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		What if they had to take a poop?

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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:20:32 AM   
Homestead


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(this is obviously not for the faint of heart, or easily squicked)

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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:21:01 AM   
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What if they had to take a poop?


ROFLMAO

Even with your hands tied your ass still works....but I guess that means to finish the job you might just have to lend them a hand...lol.

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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:22:53 AM   
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What if they had to take a poop?


ROFLMAO

Even with your hands tied your ass still works....but I guess that means to finish the job you might just have to lend them a hand...lol.


This excercise is very much about the responsibility that goes along with extremes of control. There are always some sacrifices to be made.

On both sides, not unilaterally.

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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:24:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

What if they had to take a poop?


ROFLMAO

Even with your hands tied your ass still works....but I guess that means to finish the job you might just have to lend them a hand...lol.


lol................. yes, the "end game" was what I had in mind.
 
Homestead, fair enough answer, and no, I did not find it too squicky.

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:25:32 AM   
Homestead


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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

What if they had to take a poop?


ROFLMAO

Even with your hands tied your ass still works....but I guess that means to finish the job you might just have to lend them a hand...lol.


lol................. yes, the "end game" was what I had in mind.
 
Homestead, fair enough answer, and no, I did not find it too squicky.


Do you grok the purpose of the excercise?

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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:27:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Homestead

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

What if they had to take a poop?


ROFLMAO

Even with your hands tied your ass still works....but I guess that means to finish the job you might just have to lend them a hand...lol.


lol................. yes, the "end game" was what I had in mind.
 
Homestead, fair enough answer, and no, I did not find it too squicky.


Do you grok the purpose of the excercise?


I'm grokking like a mofo here lol........ kidding aside, to me it could work well as a way of asserting control. What you had in mind?

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:28:48 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Level

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ORIGINAL: Homestead

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ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

What if they had to take a poop?


ROFLMAO

Even with your hands tied your ass still works....but I guess that means to finish the job you might just have to lend them a hand...lol.


lol................. yes, the "end game" was what I had in mind.
 
Homestead, fair enough answer, and no, I did not find it too squicky.


Do you grok the purpose of the excercise?


I'm grokking like a mofo here lol........ kidding aside, to me it could work well as a way of asserting control. What you had in mind?


Control, and..........?

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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:29:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hmm, a dependence of sorts..... a need. Yes?

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:37:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think I'd be tempted to just ask if I could nap for awhile, since there would be do much I could not do.
I realize my Dominant might have other things  in mind, in which case, I'd have to comply, but it would be very limiting, as I am a hands-on type - if you know what I mean...hehe.


- Susan  

< Message edited by SusanofO -- 9/2/2006 10:38:08 AM >

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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:37:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Homestead

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: Homestead

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

What if they had to take a poop?


ROFLMAO

Even with your hands tied your ass still works....but I guess that means to finish the job you might just have to lend them a hand...lol.


lol................. yes, the "end game" was what I had in mind.
 
Homestead, fair enough answer, and no, I did not find it too squicky.


Do you grok the purpose of the excercise?


I'm grokking like a mofo here lol........ kidding aside, to me it could work well as a way of asserting control. What you had in mind?


Control, and..........?


vulnerability?



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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:39:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SusanofO

I think I'd be tempted to just ask if I could nap for awhile, since there would be do much I could not do.
I realize my Dominant might have other things  in mind, in which case, I'd have to comply, but it would be very limiting, as I am a hands-on type - if you know what I mean...hehe.


- Susan  


One can only hope to find out

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:40:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: deltadawn

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ORIGINAL: Homestead

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ORIGINAL: Level

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ORIGINAL: Homestead

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ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

What if they had to take a poop?


ROFLMAO

Even with your hands tied your ass still works....but I guess that means to finish the job you might just have to lend them a hand...lol.


lol................. yes, the "end game" was what I had in mind.
 
Homestead, fair enough answer, and no, I did not find it too squicky.


Do you grok the purpose of the excercise?


I'm grokking like a mofo here lol........ kidding aside, to me it could work well as a way of asserting control. What you had in mind?


Control, and..........?


vulnerability?




One purpose of this was to throttle back control freak submissives. Objectification. That on occasion, simply to be was all the service required.

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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:41:45 AM   
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Control, and..........?


Trust.

It would also force me to see myself as more than my service, which would be very difficult for me. I tend to see my value in my service rather than just my being.

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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:42:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		Unless we were playing or I was sleeping like Susan suggested I would see this as punishment and would hate it. I have the smallest bladder in the universe and having him help me pee every five minutes would suck. Not to mention not able to type on the computer, push the remote control buttons, or turn a page in a book. I would not be a happy Pita that is for sure.

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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:42:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well if they're going to literally "tie your hands" (with Mitts) for an entire day - then there will be thing they might not get to enjoy that you'd otherwise be doing for them. But if they want to do it anyway, then they've  probably considered that. I am not sure I'd  like doing this, but that may be the point (I am not sure).

- Susan 

< Message edited by SusanofO -- 9/2/2006 10:44:08 AM >

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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:45:29 AM   
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Well if they're going to literally "tie your hands" (with Mitts) for an entire day - then there will be thing they might not get to enjoy that you'd otherwise be doing for them. But if they want to do it anyway, then they've  probably considered that.

- Susan 


Yes, I'd hope there would be a reason, and as Homestead said, getting a submissive to pull back and just be... to perhaps refocus on their service, and the dominant's desire, would certainly be a good one.

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

~~ Stone Temple Pilots

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RE: no hands - 9/2/2006 10:47:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		imma thinkin' if you are going to have my hands essentially immobile all day... you better damn well be prepared for the  consequences! .... sort of like 'you reap what you sow'

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