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RE: The submissive`s need. - 1/26/2005 7:15:14 AM

slavedesires

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ORIGINAL: INSIDEYOURMIND

angel,

I am standing and applauding you!

Very well said!

me tooooooo

shy

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RE: The submissive`s need. - 1/26/2005 7:28:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: malepleases4ever

re: Human Rights - this is where the train goes off the track for me. Human rights are not something that can be negotiated away. Fun is fun between consenting adults, but it can be taken too far. Just like it is not possible to actually become someones legal slave in the US, it is not possible to relinquish your essential rights. Having no sense of the gravity contained in words like 'some don't believe in human rights' is almost funny here. I only hope the irony is not lost if the evangelicals ship us all off to gitmo.

ok.it is just me?
human rights/essential rights... is he comparing human rights with sub/slave rights?
i thought the thread was about submissive needs?
and what do evangelicals or pagans have to do with rights? (well now, i could answer that, but that has nothing to do with this topic!)
and why is this guy hiding on us... dang it, show us your profile!

i am only assuming its a guy ....

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RE: The submissive`s need. - 1/26/2005 7:49:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: topcat

Your Majesty,

Thank you for pointing this out- I am old and cynical, and just tickled to death that a new seeker like yourself has pointed out that these emperors indeed have no clothes.

Welcome to the boards- I hope you hang around.

Stay warm,
Lawrence

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rotflmao!!!!!!!!!! for an hour!!!!!!!!!!!!

As Master says to me, so i say to YOU Lord Majestic GranPoohba Emporer.........
"you so fucking funny"

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RE: The submissive`s need. - 1/26/2005 10:34:43 AM

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ORIGINAL: sweetpleaser

I think nella is trying to educate new Doms regarding the needs of subs because of another thread that has been running. The new Dom on that thread was pretty stoic in his rules. Nella, stick to what your priorities are in a relationship and don't feel like you are any less of a submissive for it, you are just you. New Doms who are trying to prove themselves will either find a slave to comply or will learn real quick to tone things down a bit.

FUCK.... you just ruined my wetdream.

thanks a lot !

^ ps SARCASM.

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RE: The submissive`s need. - 1/26/2005 10:41:14 AM

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I feel that service and time off need to be coordinated in a healthy manner.

A Master should have his needs met as a priority but they also need to be within reason,and the slave still needs free time to unwind-or she is going to be mentally unhealthy.

This is an obvious no brainer to me,and it makes me wonder why more Tops are so totally self-centered that they fail to take care of thier property in a practical manner.

Isn't it also supposed to be about US?

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RE: The submissive`s need. - 1/27/2005 7:04:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: RealityFix

I feel that service and time off need to be coordinated in a healthy manner.

A Master should have his needs met as a priority but they also need to be within reason,and the slave still needs free time to unwind-or she is going to be mentally unhealthy.

This is an obvious no brainer to me,and it makes me wonder why more Tops are so totally self-centered that they fail to take care of thier property in a practical manner.

Isn't it also supposed to be about US?

Didn't you get the memo? It's all about ME, ME, ME!!! ;)
Timothy

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RE: The submissive`s need. - 1/28/2005 4:38:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: RealityFix

I feel that service and time off need to be coordinated in a healthy manner.

A Master should have his needs met as a priority but they also need to be within reason,and the slave still needs free time to unwind-or she is going to be mentally unhealthy.

This is an obvious no brainer to me,and it makes me wonder why more Tops are so totally self-centered that they fail to take care of thier property in a practical manner.

Isn't it also supposed to be about US?

Didn't you get the memo? It's all about ME, ME, ME!!! ;)
Timothy

i thought the memo read me, me, me?

Master Damian's shy

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RE: The submissive`s need. - 1/28/2005 12:58:46 PM

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toddler taht takes up alot of time. yeah like 90% he's a fairly new Dom. And I think what they don't realize is theres

stevespet-

what you were experiencing sounds suspiciously like stress. Having a young child to care for, plus trying to please a perfectionist or demanding mate is a recipe for disaster, whether its a vanilla or kinky affair. Of course, maybe it's your desire to serve in a perfectionist way that could be compounding the problem. Hang in there. Good luck.

Mark

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RE: The submissive`s need. - 1/30/2005 12:12:06 PM

subrob1967

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ORIGINAL: Goodmix
If you try to change his “style” and are successful, than who was in control?
In the vanilla world, I can get men to do just about anything, and I gotta tell you, I hate them for it. I don’t want to be in control. The challenge of finding someone who is strong enough (within my “style”) to take control.
If I start telling them “I don’t feel like doing that” , and it’s accepted, then I topped them from the bottom.

I'd have to disagree with this, you can't be "on" everytime a Dom/me wants you to, this is a simple fact of life. There will be times when you're just not feeling up to _____ (insert whatever), and your Dom/me should respect that.

Nella,

My suggestion is fill out your profile to include what you want out of a Dom. don't be shy about your needs, because everyone has needs, wants and desires.

Also remember everyone has their own needs, wants, and desires, so some compromise may be needed by both parties for a relationship to work.

I feel a good, upfront profile is your best tool for meeting the Dom of your dreams.

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