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RE: Dommes wanting too much respect - 11/1/2006 5:13:51 PM

orfunboi

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Najak-not-very-charming-at-all,

You are letting your lack of experience show, young one.

...snipped, so no one else has to read it all again...

i find it very difficult to be respectful to someone who has to resort to name calling and such a condensending attitude. Now i have never met you or Najakcharmer in the real world, but based on both of your posts, there is little doubt in my mind who i would be more respectful to if we ever did meet.

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RE: Dommes wanting too much respect - 11/1/2006 9:19:06 PM

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I agree with Morrigel.

A good slave realizes a Mistress is always right (even if he feels She is wrong). he must tread carefully.

But some Dommes assume to be a Mistress means to act rude and bitchy. A wise Domme knows that to gain respect you must act respectful.

I have witnessed many male doms being disrespectful to Dommes for no reason at all. It is as though they feel that the ultimate challenging game is to dominate a Domme. A waste of his time as well as Hers.

Respect goes both ways. Consider the laws of Cause and Effect. If you are rude to someone they will usually be rude back. If you treat someone with kindness they will usually respond back with kindness. Sadly it is not always the case, but most often.

I prefer to dominate slaves in a kind manner. It should not be about hate or anger.

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RE: Dommes wanting too much respect - 11/1/2006 9:45:16 PM

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A good slave realizes a Mistress is always right (even if he feels She is wrong).

A good slave may fantasize that Mistress is always right, but in the real world, humans are flawed and a good slave will recognize those flaws and embrace their slavery and be obedient to their dominant despite those flaws knowing they, themselves, are equally fallible. Gods and Goddesses do not dwell on planet Earth ... they only think they do.

What you seek to create is illusion but it dissipates in the face of reality. It has no substance, no depth. It's superfical at best and deceitful at worst. You would have slaves seek perfection and it does not exist.. might as well have them chase rainbows to find a pot of gold.

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RE: Dommes wanting too much respect - 11/1/2006 10:53:50 PM

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I agree with Morrigel.

A good slave realizes a Mistress is always right (even if he feels She is wrong). he must tread carefully.

And people wonder how some poeple become homeless and bankrupt...

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RE: Dommes wanting too much respect - 11/1/2006 11:04:24 PM

DiurnalVampire

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Whoa, I in no way shape or form want the responsability of being "always right"
I am not, nor will I pretend I am. I also cant have much respect for anyone who thinks they always are, nor ACTS like that always are even if they arent.
I dont remember Dommes ever being universally respectful of other Dommes just becasue of their status. Actually, from what I remember of the scene when I was involved in it publically... trying to swipe someone elses property was rather common.
Personal attacks, especialy on forums where one person barely knows the first thing about another, just prove why while everyone deserves to be treated politely (until they prove otherwise) not everyone deserves respect.
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RE: Dommes wanting too much respect - 11/1/2006 11:10:53 PM

Najakcharmer

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble
A good slave may fantasize that Mistress is always right, but in the real world, humans are flawed and a good slave will recognize those flaws and embrace their slavery and be obedient to their dominant despite those flaws knowing they, themselves, are equally fallible. Gods and Goddesses do not dwell on planet Earth ... they only think they do.

What you seek to create is illusion but it dissipates in the face of reality. It has no substance, no depth. It's superfical at best and deceitful at worst. You would have slaves seek perfection and it does not exist.. might as well have them chase rainbows to find a pot of gold.

Oh, well said. **applause**

Somehow, I suspect the notion of "a Mistress is always right" would not go over well on the science forums. Though it would be certainly convenient to dismiss the need for such nuisancy things as actually testing a hypothesis or bothering to do any research. I'm just always and automatically right. Hey, I like that! I'm going to go let all my colleagues know that the rules have changed.