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RE: Help!!! - 7/3/2007 1:14:17 AM

RealDom69

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I was involved with a Master for a year and a half. Then suddenly, POOF, He was gone. He called on my birthday out of the blue a few weeks ago. I want to get involved with Him again, but I am scared. Any suggestions would be appreciated!!!

He just went POOF .. with no regard for you or your feelings....... He's a self centred prick........ get him out of your life .. you can do a lot better...
just my opinion..
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RE: Help!!! - 7/3/2007 1:51:34 AM

becca333

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I'm NOT going back to that hell.....

Good for you!

If he dumps you with no word, knowing how much it'd hurt you, then picks you up again and still won't explain, he's treating you with no respect at all. Being a sub doesn't mean you don't deserve respect and caring. There's way better out there - there's some lovely guys on this site, for starters. Find someone better. And, again, good for you for making a tough but right decision.

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RE: Help!!! - 7/3/2007 4:01:36 AM

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Realationships need trust be it online or in real life. Only you can say if you trust him enough to have hime back.

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RE: Help!!! - 7/3/2007 2:13:27 PM

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An article in the paper today made an analogy for someone in a similar situation. Let's say that you really like swimming. You find a great pool and start going regularly. Then one day you arrive, the pool is closed and the water drained. The staff have no idea when (if ever) it will be open again. A year and a half later it reopens. Now ask yourself: did you wait a year and a half to go swimming again? Wouldn't you rather have a pool that gave plenty of advance notice, treated its customers with respect, and was more reliable?
I'm saying passion is good but that doesn't mean you should abandon practicality. (pragmatism?)

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RE: Help!!! - 7/4/2007 1:00:56 AM

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I am all over this one.

First instinct is to toss him.
Then I think, no, find out exactly why. My first boyfriend "poofed" after a year and a half because he was kidnapped by his stepfather and taken to Mexico.
Then I think, that's a really bad example, because that boy happened to stalk me over the next three years and then come back into my life as a psychopath who assaulted me and is still on the lam.

So, think that over.

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