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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/10/2006 9:54:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I have (blah blah blah) years experience in the "lifestyle"

OK, play along now -- what should they be saying instead?

Have you ever noticed how everyone has "20 years" ? I don't know, it just seems like awfully high number of people entered the lifestyle in 1986. ;)

I often tell people that I have been dominant my entire life but entered the lifestyle to explore this, 2 years ago. I also think that simply telling someone that you've been involved in the lifestyle for a certain number of years basically means nothing unless you know what they were doing during that time. There is a wide variety of things that a person can learn - or NOT learn - over 20 years.

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/10/2006 10:00:06 PM

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The one most annoying thing I hear from subs very often...
"I will be better for you than your boy is"
In an initial email, when you know nothing about me, him, or anything else... how can you even consider saying that and being taken seriously?
That and the ones who want to tell you what a true submissive or true slave they are becuase of what they are willing to let you do to them.

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/10/2006 10:03:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

The one most annoying thing I hear from subs very often...
"I will be better for you than your boy is"
In an initial email, when you know nothing about me, him, or anything else... how can you even consider saying that and being taken seriously?

I get that in the reverse...how someone will be a better dominant to me than my Master is. If it weren't so ignorant and ludicrous, it would be insulting.

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RE: Annoying things Bdsmers say - 12/10/2006 10:09:44 PM

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Folks who say this or that is boring...if you are bored it is because you are boring , please dont place the blame out side of yourself....own it.

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RE: Annoying things Bdsmers say - 12/10/2006 10:13:56 PM

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Folks who say this or that is boring...if you are bored it is because you are boring , please dont place the blame out side of yourself....own it.

If its boring, you are doing it wrong *laugh*

I also love the responses that jusdge whether I am a "real Domme" based on my interests and how I treat Angel.
I want the definition they are working from, for a real Domme.

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/10/2006 10:37:16 PM

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"Age is just a number"

From the oh so domly 20 somethings who want to own a 42 year old woman and cant understand that just because THEY love older women, I DONT love younger men.<shakes head>
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That's HILARIOUS! I can't believe you've gotten that, since I, on the other side (as a 22 y/o domme) get it all the time from middle aged men who think it would be awesome to be owned by someone who could be their daughter. If I get one more "I'm 42 but I don't look or feel a day older than 24" I will scream.

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/10/2006 10:43:00 PM

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Oh, I get the age thing too. And the "I dont look my age" from those who refuse to post a picture of themselves.

How about "I dont have any actual hands on expereince with the lifestyle, but that doesnt make me a beginner"
What does it make you then? Granted, online service makes you expereiced at online service... but if youve served online and I want you face to face... your a beginner.

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/10/2006 10:48:49 PM

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DiurnalVampire, greetings to you and yours from a former Hendersonite, now living in southern Oregon :)

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/11/2006 2:44:31 AM

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myy favorite is you not a " real " domme you will not asnwer me or i am a boi <<< what is this? or where is your picture i will not say one word to you. some wrote what ever my owner wants i wil do but i do not have experince i am unowned this male as say this for many many years how does he know if he would truly do anything

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/11/2006 3:18:22 AM

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I'm kinda funky about wording. "What do you seek" conjures up a mental image of a tall thin pale woman roaming the Moors on a misty night. Emily Bronte-ish.
< shrugs >

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LOL mb.....

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/11/2006 7:51:18 AM

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Fast reply

Threads like this one are very annoying.

This is funny, cuz, yanno........must not be too annoying if someone is reading it.

I also have to agree with the "I'm bored" statement being annoying as hell. Anyone that says they are bored immediately strikes me as either stupid or severely lacking in imagination.

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/11/2006 7:59:26 AM

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I am constantly posting the on your knees bitch, and constantly getting the NO.

That is fucking annoying.

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/11/2006 12:06:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: mons

i am a boi <<< what is this?

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According to Wikipedia, boi is- An altered spelling of boy used for various purposes, including:

As an alternative spelling, such as the rapper Big Boi and the song titled "Sk8er Boi" by Avril Lavigne
In goth (and sometimes punk) subculture boi is used to refer to a young man not afraid to experiment with traditionally "feminine" things such as eyeliner, frills, etc. and as a protest against gender roles.
As a spelling that is deliberately altered for reasons of gender identification, sexuality, or group affinity

And following the link to Boi (gender) gives us -
Boi is a deliberately altered spelling of boy, and is sometimes used as a synonym for male when referring to young adults. 'Boi' may refer to a young-appearing (and in reality relatively young) bisexual or homosexual male, especially one who is somewhat effeminate, or who merely wishes to distinguish himself with a different term from heterosexual boys. It may also refer to a female-born or female-bodied person—sometimes transsexual, transgendered, or intersexed, sometimes not—who generally does not identify as, or only partially identifies as feminine, female, a girl, or a woman, although some bois identify as one or more of these. Bois almost always identify as lesbians, dykes, or queers; many are also genderqueer or practice genderfuck. Bois can prefer a range of pronouns, including 'he', 'she', or gender-neutral pronouns. Some transmen identify as bois, but others object to being called 'boi,' preferring to simply be called 'boy,' 'man,' or 'transman.' Some butch lesbians, female crossdressers, and tomboys also identify as bois, and some people use the word 'boi' to refer to a young butch. In some BDSM communities, 'boi' is used as a term for a submissive and/or bottom butch.

So now you know. Based on that, I could identify myself as a boi. But I just prefer the term bigender.

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/11/2006 5:06:31 PM

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He said: If your a dominate do you have a sublimate. LOL

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/11/2006 6:06:38 PM

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LMAO Ron..I get that daily..so far ..however.............

not from you..............

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/11/2006 6:18:38 PM

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Isnt so here...I have some strong shoulder muscles. I can't let outside stuff that isnt all that important at the end of the day annoy me..........coz Ide end up a hard man walking all round with negative raders on.........the only thing I want hard about me is my *ahem* tool.

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/11/2006 6:22:12 PM

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years ago in chat rooms when I would see all this sis-sis-sis and being called sis by strangers ( other subs) just because I was sub myself. Silly I know but boy did that irk me LOL

This bothered me too even worse was 'sissa'.   Throwing stuff in chatrooms was also a big pet peeve of mind---with that said, I feel that just because one is submissive doesn't mean one must act immature or child like.
    Another thing that always bothered me was that sometimes on message boards it's a trend of follow the leader.   One person says something and it's like a snowball effect.   One group I belonged to years ago had a question like what is your favorite toy in your toy box and nearly every single submissive put 'my knife'.   At that time 'knife play' was the trendy play and 99% of the submissives who responded were online submissives.   I often wondered if they were just following trend or if it was the only toy they had simply because they could secure one out of their own kitchens.

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/11/2006 6:23:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I am constantly posting the on your knees bitch, and constantly getting the NO.

That is fucking annoying.

Ron

You just need to say it to the right one!

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say - 12/11/2006 8:13:15 PM

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I have not read the entire thread, and I also preface my reply in acknowledging that as you said you do not mean to be snarky about this.But IMO, I simply go with the thought that you cannot please everyone with everything,sometimes,somehow,somewhere people are just going to annoy you. So hence I stay who I am,and those I annoy can simply avoid me or wait until I am no longer found annoying..........shoot! some are still waiting....

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RE: Annoying things BDSM'ers say (or do) - 12/11/2006 8:13:38 PM

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Annoying things, in no particular order...:
1) 4 posts in a row, instead of answering in one damned post.
2) Being corrected on spelling errors, when the same person cannot even spell grammar correctly.
3) Stereotyping.
4) people who say shit just to be dramatic.
5) rushing around, when there is no need. (Others need to learn to relax, slow down, and smile ocassionally.)
6) Having my submissive talk down to me, even if its unintentional. (responses like "good boy...")
7) My submissive not saying Sir to me in public Lifestyle oriented facilities.
8) Designing a new set, and realizing I was off by one pearl, on the entire left half.
9) Doing ANYTHING half-assed, or seeing anyone else do something half-assed. I mean, come on people... if yer gonna fuck up, fuck up royally... there's nothing worse than a half assed fuck up.

There are a few of mine...

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