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ORIGINAL: MaryT

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ORIGINAL: badlilthang

If he is taking the opinions of online strangers so seriously, I would question his judgment in general.  Unless what you are talking about is a cyber-only relationship (which isn't a relationship at all) ... in which case: 
You can do waaay better than that. 


Again this.....if it is a cyber-only relationship it isn't a real one. i don't know, but statements like that always makes me think "us rt SM'ers are so much better than the rest of you".

Well, I don't know about better as a person, but certainly more grounded in reality where this stuff is concerned.  I  respect people who are well-grounded in reality.  I grant you "isn't a relationship at all" was not correct, but I would venture that it resembles real time no more than cyber sex resembles flesh-on-flesh sex. 

MaryT

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra

I just think of all this as if we all are pen-pals - with keyboards, and leave it at that.

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra

I don't either, but those who care deeply for their pen-pals might see things a bit differently - as is their right.

And who are we to decide that whatever we have is so much better than what they have - or vice versa?

juliet

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ORIGINAL: twistedwillow

Sorry, i don't think you do understand.
I'm not here to defend what i did, if you re-read my original post it was simply asking for weather people thought what i had written was disrespectful or not.
To my mind he over reacted to it in a big way, and i don't understand why. 

All i am doing now, is defending myself against attacks, i don't want to be attacked, i don't want personal comments about myself or my Sir, all i want is for people to let me know if in their opinion what i wrote was disrespectful ... or not!

Edited to add, that for the record he told me to ask others opinions on this, i am not doing this to * air it * or fold it or even put it away!

twistedwillow

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ORIGINAL: twistedwillow

I didn't create a new profile "just to say it".
The whys and where to fors are unimportant.
You don't need to know why it was written, or anything else.
All you need to know to for your opinion on this is, that it wasn't written with intent to to disrespect him, harm him, or cause him anger, distress, outrage or any number of other feelings.

I'm also not asking for people to try and change my mind, i still don't feel i did anything wrong.  ALL i am asking for is if in your opinion it is disrespectful, i dont need to know if i was your sub\slave\garden gnome, you would have me strung up n beaten to a pulp, or put on the kerb for some one else, or anything of the sort.

Please stick to answering the question asked,  Do you find what i wrote to be disrespectful.

twistedwillow

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Well, I will keep a great deal of my thoughts on this subject matter to myself, save this:

If I were to hunt me up a girl, and found out that if it didn't work out, my fault, her fault, nobodies fault that a X-files type of ephameral profile and subsequent (oh, by my guess, this is the stuff of a 9 pager) posting would appear with every attendant psycobabbler in a tour de force of inestimable logic would weigh in (I include myself, for those already taking umbrage and sending me nasty replies privately and publicly).....well, I will give you this, you will be left alone and have plenty of time to heal, and by any right I am aware of, would be given a wide berth when you come into heat again.


Dr. Seuss 

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Also, if your Sir dont like the profile, depending on the nature of your relationship to him, i would recomend changing it.

sometimes life is so simple...eh?