HatesParisHilton
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"Interesting how many lies are commonly told. Interesting how many women posted, versus men.
The point of the OP, lost on some, was that people feel they can say "I lied" as if that were acceptable behavior."
Then as a male I'll happily have a crack at it. You can tell me if I got your OP correct in theme and context.
As there is no warranty RE anyone's profile until you meet them, and as corporations and officials lie to us all the time from childhood onwards, all western cultures have lies built into their bedrock, period. Taking the stand of never lying thus becomes a risk of eschewing necessary self protection in many cases for both genders. Also, when you take into account people that use sites like this/alt/b.com who are actually "pro's for $", you/I/others have a choice: enact a culling system or waste a lot of time and possibly get burned/suffer.
The context of the lie defines it (for me) as a bad one or a self protective one, both for males (me) and females (her). examples:
if I say I've got $30,000 at my disposal when I've really got $3,000 or less, that's a bad lie, like the guy that has a Yugo but rents a high end sports car to con/scam clients.
However, if I say I've got $3,000 or less when I've really got $30,000 or more, then I avoid gold diggers or people that mark assets as criteria for good sex/romance. Every time I fill out an internet form I ALWAYS lie when they ask about annual income because I know if I make myself appear destitute I'll get less fucking SPAM. That is acceptable because SPAM is an abuse.
If a man/woman says they're single when they are married, bad. Many women say they married or not single on their profiles when they ARE looking (seen that a lot on yahoo personals back when they were free). NOT BAD. Why? The trolls and creepy fuckers. These women can later contact men they like (I've been one) and they explain that upfront and I understand. Is it optimal? No. Do they have another option? No again, imo.
Women (and some men) say - when out and about on the net and/or r/l - "not looking, not ready". Sometimes that means "uh, not ready for someone like YOU, BUDDY" and that's fine. If someone rings their chimes they have the right to change that at the drop of a hat because love and/or lust at first sight DOES happen. But even if it's less than that, and technically they were lying, big fucking deal.
RE Pics, many people need some e-mails/ph calls before really getting to that stage, and maybe you/she/I lok diff to a userpic but hey, if you're at a business convention or someplace else that should not knowyou're kinky do YOU want to be recognized? Anyone can always say "my hair is diff now, we're getting along, I'd like to send a recent pic". Big deal, it's SMART, not mendacious.
Cock size: there's the "average when at it" then for many guys there's the "extra size" you get under the best circumstances. If I say I'm generally 6.75" long and 5.6" around/thickness, and a woman I meet thinks that's perfect for her anal needs/limits, then her ass is so juicy and she took such a great spanking that I ended up being 7.2 long and 5.75 thick (by accident) and her asshole "suffered" a bit, did I fucking lie? No. Should I feel bad? No again. What the fuck am I supposed to do, take out a tape measure and make sure the schlong hasn't become too happy?
There ya go.
Did I "get it"?
< Message edited by HatesParisHilton -- 1/1/2007 3:27:13 PM >
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