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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 2:50:17 PM

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and my uncle looked at me trying to be slick and invited me in his bed...... infront of his daughter as i stood their mouth gapping open and looking at her asking what the heck did he mean and did he mean what i thought he ment

Yeah, that's gettin pulled.

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 2:51:19 PM

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It's a shame this went into the direction it has. I'm sorry but I find joking about incest within a daddy thread to be a bit much.
It seems to taint the entire concept of daddy/daughter with a stain it has tried to overcome.

sighhhhhhh. imo.

Why the hell would ppl intentionally screw up a great thread, making it something to be yanked by the Mods?
Gee new pet peeve lol.

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 2:51:48 PM

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i dont know if thats true Susan.... as i'm sure alot of Dom's are....

but i do know that my Daddy knows what i need before i do - lol

but then he's my one and only Dom/Master/Daddy i've ever had. So i havent much to compare it too

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 2:52:57 PM

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and my uncle looked at me trying to be slick and invited me in his bed...... infront of his daughter as i stood their mouth gapping open and looking at her asking what the heck did he mean and did he mean what i thought he ment

Yeah, that's gettin pulled.

ya think?

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 2:54:11 PM

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heather - it was my uncle - i am/was a consenting adult. (and my cousin is older then me)

Joke lightens up the seriousness of it as the turn it took it shouldnt have...... so have a laugh...... we arent talking about sick twisted stuff and get on with the show.

Kind of like - get over it. Its a kink....... thats all there is too it

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 2:54:39 PM

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I think in my case again, James is definatly more tolerant if not all for me having somethings I need him to over see like brushing my teeth. When he calls in the morning and says brush your teeth go do it, I feel cared for and like he is looking after my even through long distance, and I don't think any of the dominants I knew would be in favor of over seeing such basics.

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 2:56:07 PM

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I think I really like the nurturing aspects of a Daddy - I sometimes need that extra bit of understanding.

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 2:56:38 PM

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cj who's joking? He really did say he'd do me if it wouldn't come back to bite his ass if his wife found out. That was last year, so no harm no fowl, one comment from an adult to another..

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 3:00:07 PM

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Well,we maybe better be careful what we discuss, or the entire thread is gonna get pulled. My fault for yammering on about free speech and activity, I suppose. I know it really happened, but you know the Mods...back to Daddy Doms.

I think there are in reality, probably many Doms out there who are nurturing that don't label themselves Daddies, but when someone goes to the trouble of labelling themself as a Daddy, they probably think they have specific things to offer a submissive. Of course (IMO) it's all open to individual interpretation just what those qualities are, exactly.

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 3:02:45 PM

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i love the whole Daddy thing. It lets me bring out apart of myself that i otherwise normally wouldnt. It helps me allow myself to cry. It lets me be silly and carefree..... it opens a world inside of me that i shut off to keep safe and hidden.

IMO - its a beautiful connection to have with some one

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 3:02:47 PM

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cj who's joking? He really did say he'd do me if it wouldn't come back to bite his ass if his wife found out. That was last year, so no harm no fowl, one comment from an adult to another..

Erm Riotgirl claimed to be trying to lighten this up with jokes? Post 105.

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 3:04:16 PM

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My apologies if you dont like my humour - )

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 3:07:53 PM

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It isn't your humor, it was that I felt it set everything way back to so many misconceived perceptions of daddy/daughter.
This is a great topic & I didn't want to see that turned into something guaranteed to be yanked. That is why I felt it wasn't appropriate thats all.

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 3:08:57 PM

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Oh I think we got crossed wires here, somewhere. I don't think Riotgirl read what Feline wrote as a serious comment. Then she later said it was. I am sorry that happened to you Feline, I really am. But seriously - we better get back to Daddy Doms.

I do think Daddies can allow more care-free behavior, too. I have yet to test that out in reality (I've never had a Daddy Dom before, and have yet to meet mine in person, but will in just a few weeks), but I imagine this is going to prove somewhat true (I hope).

- Susan

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 3:16:12 PM

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TY Susan....

i ammm trying to get back on topic. Like i said i think its a beautiful connection and i think that connection should be explored more. I think each of us has a hidden vulnerable identity with in us, some one we keep safe from all the stress and rigors of the world.. and i think when one connects with a Daddy Dom.. it gets to bring that inner self out.. and i think its beautiful.. the trust.. the respect.. the love....

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 3:21:07 PM

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I just like the patience aspect. I guess I didn't grow up with a lot of patience extended in my direction (although I am not expecting any cheese to go along with that whine, thanks) - and I could use a bit of that, I think.

- Susan

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 3:27:10 PM

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sorry........ but i have to go off track - just once more....

Dont you hate that copy and paste button? i had copied what i wrote (orginially) to double check the spelling.. and the text was Daddy Dom's vs Masters.....

and i just went to send a very nilla friend of mine a link to something else........ and of course i was SURE that my "copy/paste" worked and i hit send and wouldnt ya know....... it wasnt a link i sent but something about Daddy Doms vs Masters. Isnt that an explanation and a half.

back to the regular schedule programming........

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 3:28:56 PM

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You are talking to someone who, despite being fairly bright, barely knows where the "On" button is on her computer. I am not the one to ask. Sorry. However, you do have my sympathy.

- Susan

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 3:50:48 PM

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heather - it was my uncle - i am/was a consenting adult. (and my cousin is older then me)

Joke lightens up the seriousness of it as the turn it took it shouldnt have...... so have a laugh...... we arent talking about sick twisted stuff and get on with the show.

Kind of like - get over it. Its a kink....... thats all there is too it

Didnt know you were an adult.
Funny, Im the one saying fantasies are ok to explore and Im supposed to "get over it" because I thought something was about something against TOS.
Sometimes your logic escapes me.

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RE: Are Daddy Doms really more nurturing than Masters? - 2/13/2007 3:53:50 PM

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Well I like you justheather - here's a big HUG.

On another note: I wonder what Daddies do when their little girls feel sad? This is a serious question for me, btw. I am curious what other peoples' Daddies do.

- Susan

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