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RE: Bad Submissive - 7/10/2005 6:17:36 AM   
plantlady64


Posts: 755
Joined: 5/19/2005
Status: offline 		Hello There,
You have to remember talking in this realm has opened you up to lots of peoples opinions of you. You continue to converse with those of like mind to you, and take what the others say with a grain of salt. You will never be just right for all and to take all opinions to heart isn't the right answer in here.
I do call all Dom's Sir and all Dommes Mam, as it's polite in my opinoin. I draw my line at calling them Master. I feel Sir is just polite conversation, but Master is a title a Dom must earn from me. I sometimes have had the same reaction to my limits you've got with yours. I just take the fact they have a different opinion than me in stride and am still comfortable with my choice.
Remember over all your limits are yours alone, and you'll find someone of like mind if you keep the faith little one.
Stay Strong, but be polite,
sub suzanne

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RE: Bad Submissive - 7/10/2005 6:52:15 AM   
Gemeni


Posts: 255
Joined: 2/19/2005
Status: offline 		You are quite correct, Lovingmaster45.

There are very few real life Dominants out there worthy of the name,the same is true on the other side of the fence. I am always friendly and a gentleman when I speak with the ladies,I have been burned far too many times in the past by "players" who claimed to be submissive-and then turned out to have a LOT of mental issues-or simply been there as
"do mes."

I prefer to take my time,and I will get bored with sexual obessesives and quit talking with them. After all I am a person,not a "kink".

And I prefer to treat women the same way.

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RE: Bad Submissive - 7/10/2005 10:11:41 AM   
Niran


Posts: 70
Joined: 6/17/2005
Status: offline 		*muses* Someone called me a 'newbie Domme" in a rude PM the other day. My response was "Being new doesnt make me stupid."


N

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RE: Bad Submissive - 7/10/2005 9:48:39 PM   
ItzKat


Posts: 86
Joined: 6/29/2005
Status: offline 		No, no way. You are not a bad submissive. It just may be that you are too good for them. We all have terms that we mostly agree on their meaning that allow us to communicate. I feel that I am a submissive woman. However, that does not make me a weak woman. In someone else's personal definition of the word, that may mean to them that I am not a "good submissive"

I have been in this lifestyle for some time now, but years ago when I first started, I was volunteering my time for some local BDSM education/support groups. During a party one night a man came up to me and said "I will allow you to ask me three questions and only three questions" I had never seen this man before and I had no idea what he was talking about. In looking him over, I saw that he was an man that put a little time into choosing his all black outfit, but was wearing a "novelty" whip on his hip. So my first question was "What is it about you that makes you think I want to know anything about you?" This clearly knocked the man for a loop. He sort of studdered..."Well, I was told you are a sub... I am a Dom and I want to get to know you" So my next question was "What is it about you that makes you that make you think I have any desire to be your sub?" He walked away. Does that make me a bad sub? My Dominant of nine years would argue otherwise.

To me it sounds like they were looking for easy marks so they could have some phone chats and get their rocks off without having to pay for it. Or maybe find a newbie that wasn't so sure of herself and prey on her. It happens. Of course it could also be that your signals and their's were just crossed and they are really nice guys. These things happen too. (Although not usually so close together)

Stay true to yourself. When it is right everythign falls into place and it is wonderful.

Kat

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RE: Bad Submissive - 7/11/2005 7:12:47 PM   
glassdoll


Posts: 131
Joined: 4/24/2005
Status: offline 		fuck them both. who are they to tell you what's up ONLINE? this isn't real life, you're not commited.

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RE: Bad Submissive - 10/6/2005 8:45:21 PM   
SirSix72


Posts: 347
Joined: 7/14/2005
Status: offline 		Greetings,

This is my advice to you,,if you are truly wanting to learn the difference then find a local group,goto a munch meet others in your area and find a mentor

_____________________________

I wish you well

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