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RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you ... - 3/26/2007 11:55:18 AM

BossyShoeBitch

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I would also just like to point out that your profile is more evidence as to what I said on another thread about the kinds of Dommes on collarme. I did mention that there seem to be a lot more seemingly good ones like yourself in the USA part of this site who *seem* to be looking for someone like me while in the UK it seems to be that there are hardly any decent ones! I think the American subs have it better lol! If only I lived over there I think I woud have had more success by now, oh well! lol

You would if you lived in South Florida *wink*

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RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you ... - 3/26/2007 11:59:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

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ORIGINAL: MuscleyandCute

I would also just like to point out that your profile is more evidence as to what I said on another thread about the kinds of Dommes on collarme. I did mention that there seem to be a lot more seemingly good ones like yourself in the USA part of this site who *seem* to be looking for someone like me while in the UK it seems to be that there are hardly any decent ones! I think the American subs have it better lol! If only I lived over there I think I woud have had more success by now, oh well! lol

You would if you lived in South Florida *wink*

I know, tis a shame! Ive just put some mini-plastic palm trees on my table and got a Barbie doll to try and get the nearest possible experience to being in South florida with you. An arm fell off the ken doll but that doesnt matter because it makes it more kinky and fun now that he cant protect his bum from the lashes. Oh dear the beach police (lego men) have arrested them for indecent conduct, well thats not a suprise doing that kind of thing in daylight on the beach.

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RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you ... - 3/26/2007 7:52:42 PM

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From what I gather Dommes seldom send messages if at all. There is a direct correlation between how much an attractive prospect someone is and how much they are prepared to stick their neck out. Evidence of this would for instance be how Dommes are a more attractive prospect due to the extremely skewed numbers which is why they rarely send messages relatively. However this theory applies to anyone not just Dommes, so it applies to male subs too. Rather than get fed up with a deluge of crap in the inbox I would suggest that any Domme who believes that she has value and is genuine etc could substantially eradicate this problem by honing her inbox to have worthwhile messages by actively seeking the sub male personals and picking/choosing for themselves and sending messages. This way they can actually decide for *themselves!*. To some this suggestion may be seen as a threat to Dommes "Dominance", personally I think thats stupid but then again in a different perspective perhaps one could say its more a trait of dominance because the Domme is picking and choosing *For herself!"* who she communicates with! rather than making do with a deluge of crap messages and hoping some of them will be decent.

For example when I on the odd occasion browse the male subs personals out of interest I can certainly distinguish for myself between the silly ones and the ones that I think would be a nice guy to know and are worthy.

I actually tried that and found that if you look at many Dommes profiles, they are very descriptive and detailed, while subs are short and definitely not sweet. I prefer to put myself out there and let them read my profile and respond. I have learned the art of weeding out most* of the undesirables. An art I am sure many of the Ladies here have learned.

Today I had a supposed sub ask, "what would you do to please your cuckold". Talk about a spankable offense.

Of course he had already been giving off the vibes of defiance and I should have cut it off before it reached the above question.
You live and learn!

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RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you ... - 3/26/2007 8:52:19 PM

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I noticed a long time ago, that women tend to write very extensive profiles and put up pictures, often 3 or 4.
Many women basically tell you a short version of the story of their life, the men normally do not.
Most of the men have very short profiles and you are very very lucky if you see 1 picture.
The same is true of most of the journals also.

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RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you ... - 3/26/2007 11:00:27 PM

MsPleasure

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Subs that obviously have'nt read my profile.
Subs that complain about what I want.
Subs that don't understand the words "I'm not interested"
Subs that write ignorant comments..
Subs that get disrespectful if they aren't chosen.
Subs that are Demanding....antonyms for sure!

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RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you ... - 3/26/2007 11:42:49 PM

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Deserves a repost. :)

The letter I really DON'T want to recieve, but seem to get anyway on a regular basis.

Dear Mistress.

Do me, do me, do this to me, do that to me, do this other thing to me, wear these clothes while you are doing it, force me to do these other things, and by the way I expect some kinky sex acts.

Here is a picture of my big hard cock for Your pleasure. I've only sent it to 6,342 women on this site so far, so it should make you feel really special that I'm sending it to you too. I won't pay you money because pros are so selfish and demanding. You have to do all this stuff to me just because You like it, and if you don't, then obviously you are not a Real Domme.

I didn't actually read your profile and I could care less about what you are looking for or who you are as a person. I just want you to wear sexy clothes and do me. I'm married and sneaking around so discretion is a must. I expect you to stay in your dungeon and never talk to me if you happen to see me on the street with my real friends and family. I can't give You my phone number or my real name either.

But I'm really, really submissive. In fact, I am your total sex slave. To prove it here is another picture of my big hard cock in bondage. If you're a Real Domme you will write back immediately.

Submissively,

Your Slave

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RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you ... - 3/27/2007 9:30:47 AM

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I have received letters such as those!

My concern is that like that guy I mentioned earlier saying "what would you do to please me".

When did submission become, "tell me how you are going to please me"?

Last I checked submissives want to be submissives, because they like to please! I know when I "tried" to be a submissive (and failed terribly), I got pleasure in pleasing him and making sure he was happy. Is there a submissive revolt, or is this just topping from the bottom??

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RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you ... - 3/31/2007 1:49:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressMoirae

I have received letters such as those!

My concern is that like that guy I mentioned earlier saying "what would you do to please me".

When did submission become, "tell me how you are going to please me"?

Last I checked submissives want to be submissives, because they like to please! I know when I "tried" to be a submissive (and failed terribly), I got pleasure in pleasing him and making sure he was happy. Is there a submissive revolt, or is this just topping from the bottom??

Gotta love the men that approach you around here!!
No need to wonder why we have so many, Professional Domina's!

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