mnottertail
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail apparently you do, since you solicit it from all others --- it would be the high road, would it not? Just for you Ron, just for you ... this one time. 1. While it is true that the terms "shadow" and "stalker" can be applied to both sexes, in reality, in our society, the pejorative terms is more often applied to men stalking women, than to women stalking men. Shadow and Stalker are two wholly different things in my mind. In common consciousness, we picture a big, burly, crazed man stalking of a petitie, defenseless woman. Many more women are abused - even killed - by men who can't take not having the attention of a particular woman, than are men who may be inconvenienced by women stalking men. Stet By her referring to me as her "shadow" (polite term for a stalker) this is really a straw man argument, and while it may hold some commerce with me, this is going into puella's mind and attributing motivations she may not actually have. and then by hardening it to "her stalker", she is trying to evince the negative emotions about me and in me. if one is overwhelmingly pontificating a contrary and closely held view, one must expect exaspiration time to time. And it is certainly possible that she has negative emotions about you. This is effective for a woman, generally, but not for a man. Yeah, I agree a cake and eat it scenario, it's why it was coined hysteronics. Most people have little sympathy for a man who is "being pursued" by a woman. Well goddammit, I would be satisfied were I to be such a bad man, then. Hence ... she is attempting to use her feminity against me, by trying to get me to shut up or stop taking her political posts head on, and in others, to gain sympathy to her point of view, unrelated to the merits of her arguments. I can see that you find these valid reasons to belive but I do not find them so. 2. "Doll" is one of the many terms used by men for women where they are showing a sense of familiarity. Other terms are "babe", "honey", "girl" etc. Perhaps this is so, but I believe she called you doll as well, which would indicate the contrapositive is also true. So, let it be agreed that the whale is one of the largest animals alive today, and we find this not even trivially astounding. If there is indeed a familiarity, and a sense of friendship and affection, such terms are terms of endearment. If there is no such sense of friendship and affection, then the use of the terms by a man about a woman are imposing on her boundaries, and seen as condescending and insulting. She is well aware of the cultural stricture against a man using such terms when no such amity or friendship exists, and in using them on me, is poking my nose in the fact that she can do it, and I can't. This is your feeling, but this opinion is hardly supportable, and your nose looks none the worse than it usually does. I can provide a handkerchief for you if necessary. So, once again, she is attempting to use her feminity against me, by slightly insulting me and placing me in the position where I can't respond in kind. And you do not resort to any device yourself? Come now, I blush at such effrontery. Hoping, I believe, that I will get angry, and allow her to make the unfounded claim that I am indeed the "big, burly, crazed man" she wishes me to be, in order to discount my criticisms of your arguments. Thereby gaining sympathy for her point of view, unrelated to the merits of her arguments. Is that clear enough? I understood the first time and even prior to that, however; there is no rules of debate or rules of order that require anyone to stay on topic, to discourse by any means you find flattering, or to even possess any Abelian logic. FirmKY If we are under the presumption of such rules, and I have scanned the previous postings, you were done at: Earth, final answer-----that was the correct answer to the question as I understood the subject line. It is the only supportable opinion. And that right there folks is why I only do one show a day in this here forum. Beetlejuice
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