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Jevousadore -> RE: Why is age such a big deal? (4/17/2007 7:48:48 PM)
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I have to admit that age does have some importance to me, and I also look for someone around my age. Personally, I have a hard time relating to someone in their twenties and early thirties. It has been my experience (and this is not meant to mean it would be this way with all of those in that age bracket) that I am simply not "cool" enough....laughing. I hate the term "Dude", the music confuses me, and they always want to meet at Starbucks. Did I mention I have never once drank coffee?
As for older, the Dom I was married to for a number of years was 13 years older than me. I was 23 when we met.
However, and again this is me personally, it does bother me if I can relate or equate someone to my Dad in any way, whether in age, looks, experiences, attitude. My Dad is an amazing man and I adore him, so it is nothing negative. Nor have I ever fantasized about him. Ick! I do like to role play Daddy/daughter, though not on a constant basis. But the idea of someone "like" my Dad? It's just not for me.
As far as experience goes, I believe it is more of a matter of attitudge, maturity level, and understanding of oneself. I have met men older than me who have been big babies.
Then again, the ones who have all that and years of actual experience in the lifestyle....wow......look out, girls!
jevousadore
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