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RE: proper way to approach a sub - 4/8/2007 4:05:54 PM   
myobedience


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dznutzx69

I'll tell you now princeoffire.......It is not you or your profile or how you are approaching...


Most of these so called "Subs" are really just on here for shits and giggles...and to try to build up their egos by denying people.... There are very few sincere, honest,  and sane people on this site at all......I'm very close to just closing down my account myself.


I don't even think 1% of the crowd here is serious.


just because they dont answer your one liners, like you havent answered mine?

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RE: proper way to approach a sub - 4/8/2007 4:08:07 PM   
MrDiscipline44


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I agree with Domiguy....It's ok to lie as long as the sub doesn't find out.
I agree. Lie, lie, lie and then.............lie somemore. And if your caught in your lie, lie about lying.

< Message edited by MrDiscipline44 -- 4/8/2007 4:10:25 PM >

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RE: proper way to approach a sub - 4/8/2007 4:09:17 PM   
Carrianna


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Status: offline 		Wow...  Brilliant read...  Think I read it all....

Maybe if you try harder with your wife...  Just my oppinion, but when you entered marriage you should of been honest with yourself, again my oppinion.

Myself, I have never been married, never found anyone rich enough (laughs), nor have I found anyone I want to spend the rest of my life with.  If I did it would be forever, it would also be with someone I could talk to and understand or else what is the point?


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RE: proper way to approach a sub - 4/8/2007 4:20:37 PM   
PoeticMotion


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Status: offline 		Best. Thread. Ever.

I laughed. I cried. I hurled. I love the intarweb.

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RE: proper way to approach a sub - 4/8/2007 4:58:13 PM   
BossyShoeBitch


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Nice to see brutal introspection, honesty is always wonderful to see.


Coming from you that means alot to me.  Thanks Michael.

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RE: proper way to approach a sub - 4/9/2007 6:56:44 AM   
princeoffire


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Status: offline 		Well I'm glad to have stirred some debate but there's only a few of you here that actually get it, the rest of you need to look in the mirror and think about the house you're living in before you throw more stones. I'm outta here!

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RE: proper way to approach a sub - 4/9/2007 8:13:28 AM   
ONEDEMANDINGMSTR


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Status: offline 		"i am married and living in Florida but would like to meet a mature, clean, and very discreet gentleman with a dominant personality for occassional  daytime get togethers"


Just searched for a moment or two............and found this, among myriad others. Let none of us judge others , lest we be judged likewise..

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RE: proper way to approach a sub - 4/9/2007 8:18:47 AM   
GeekyGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ONEDEMANDINGMSTR

"i am married and living in Florida but would like to meet a mature, clean, and very discreet gentleman with a dominant personality for occassional  daytime get togethers"


Just searched for a moment or two............and found this, among myriad others. Let none of us judge others , lest we be judged likewise..


If I ever cheat on my spouse I sure as HELL hope someone judges me, tells me what an idiot I am , and talks some sense into my head.

That judge not crap might go for some people..not for me. I believe that when you're wrong, you're wrong and you might as well admit it.


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RE: proper way to approach a sub - 4/13/2007 6:07:58 AM   
m0rgan


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Status: offline 		i would agree with most of the posts here, and point out that if you aren't honest in your profile, i just can't quite see the point in making one. if you want one-off adventures with no strings attached, best to say so straight away in my opinion!

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RE: proper way to approach a sub - 4/13/2007 6:38:16 AM   
lapresence


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GeekyGirl

That judge not crap might go for some people..not for me. I believe that when you're wrong, you're wrong and you might as well admit it.



Ahh, if only things were so simple as you are wrong or right.  Eventually you'll find out that is so. 

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RE: proper way to approach a sub - 4/13/2007 8:15:20 PM   
NefertariReborn


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Status: offline 		Oh for heaven's sake, just admit that you want to cheat and get it over with.  Domiguy's replies rock!!!!!!!! I nearly fell (literally) out of the chair with laughter! He should write for the soaps. 

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RE: proper way to approach a sub - 4/13/2007 11:51:41 PM   
Sinergy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GeekyGirl

That judge not crap might go for some people..not for me. I believe that when you're wrong, you're wrong and you might as well admit it.



I am not sleeping with the person, so its mot my place to have much of an opinion about their behavior either way.  If it works for them, I dont have an issue with it.

Sinergy

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RE: proper way to approach a sub - 4/14/2007 12:00:19 AM   
notlooking2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

Don't listen to these silly women as most of them are subs and the ones who lists themselves as Dommes, switches or lesbians are really just subs that simply haven't met the right guy yet.

O.K. Here we go...As one of the leading consultants in the area of P&D  "proifile development" here at Domiguy Industries...I can tell you that by listening to subs explain to you what your approach should be is paramout to listening to a wildebeast explain to a lion how it prefers to be devoured.

Look every woman loves a good sob story!!!  Chick flicks don't make millions of dollars because they are happy, fluffy, feel good, sports related and honest movies!!!!

No Fucking way!!!....the are sad stories... Tales that are filled with death and despair and in the end hope and love....This is your new profile!!!

So take this in consideration when developing the "wonderful fictitious world" that is your profile....Your wife isn't vanilla!!!....She's dead!!!...Or better yet in a coma, or was on safari and was gored by a rhino. She lingered for three long years after her injury and countless surgeries...And who was there by her side every step of the way???  You Were!!!...Who forfeited their career?... You did!!!  Who sacrificed everything to care for their dying precious  wife???....You Did!!!  Who was there holding her hand and "closed her eyes" when she passed away?????   You Were That Guy!!!... Now you will never be viewed as some callous cheater but have immediately elevated your status up to damn near Godesque proportions....You will be wearing out floggers as well as your spunk supply in nothing flat.....No need to thank me...Just one of the many random acts of kindness that I am known for....Pass it on brothah....Pass it on!!!


LMAO, tooooooooooo funny

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RE: proper way to approach a sub - 4/14/2007 4:16:42 AM   
johntom571


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quote:

ORIGINAL: NakedGirlScout

Have you ever asked yourself----

HOW do I demonstrate that I, as a self-described dominant, am in control of my life and do not lie, cheat, or live by someone else's rules?


Wow, that's a tall order.  I can't think anyone on this planet who doesn't live by someone else's rule, and isn't regarded as a dangerous psychopath.  As far as cheating and lieing, we've all done it.  I'd sooner trust an avowed liar, than a self-deluding one.

My 2 cents

JohnTom

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RE: proper way to approach a sub - 4/14/2007 4:20:25 AM   
NakedGirlScout


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Status: offline 		hrrrm that was specifically in resonse to someone who was sneaking around behind his wife's back, afraid of being caught cheating on her. I didn't mean to generalize about people who obey the law and other ordinary situations.

By the way I'm a self-avowed liar, do you like me?

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RE: proper way to approach a sub - 4/15/2007 8:01:44 PM   
SimplySubmissive


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GeekyGirl

I'm going to second the majority. This lifestyle is based on trust and you are obviously not a trustworthy person.

Do the decent thing and be honest with your wife. Really, the first step in being a dominant is having a backbone.



exactly.  do some research.. read some books.. share with her.. talk about fantasies together.... I don't know what the home situation is like.. but seriously, when a woman loses interest in sex, it's for a reason.. family/work/home is taking up all of her, none left at the end of the day.
You will learn more from reading than from chatting.. or you will just find a married sub.. that happens too.
good luck

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