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FukinTroll -> Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 7:04:11 PM)
How many of you adhere to your hard limits? How many have been pushed into a hard limit and were glad they did? How many have been pushed into a hard limit and suffered because of it?

ckmidmodom -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 7:17:13 PM)
A dom myself and arrogance is nothing more than an attempt to hid the fact that you are probably out of shape, physically unclean and only have been able to lure a few fat bitches who aren't sure who they are into your web.

sleazybutterfly -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 7:21:25 PM)
Well, you cute Troll, you. I think you could push me past any hard limit I have and I wouldn't regret it a bit.[;)] Honestly, I do have things I won't do for anyone. I hate needles, and fire scares the crap out of me (not in a good way). I can't think of any limit I had that I have given up, because I really didn't have that many to begin with. If I am with someone and serving them, I am pretty much theirs to use how they want, limit free. (this is only after I trust them enough to give up my limits and control) If someone had wanted to do things I was so against, I wouldn't submit to them in the first place, so I suppose I will never know.

missturbation -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 7:25:54 PM)
How many of you adhere to your hard limits? I do. How many have been pushed into a hard limit and were glad they did? Yes knives were a hard limit of mine but i love love love them now. How many have been pushed into a hard limit and suffered because of it? I didn't so much suffer but my Sir did. We were doing some knife play and he went for sterile wipes but accidently picked the wrong box up and came back with needles instead. He got one out and said maybe we could do some needle play instead of cleaning you up. He was kidding as he knows needles are a hard limit but at seeing a needle i passed out. It kind of made him realise how much i truly feared needles and he was so so sorry. He felt guilty for days so i guess he suffered more than i did.

ownedgirlie -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 7:30:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll How many have been pushed into a hard limit and were glad they did? Yep. My list of limits came a'tumblin' down in my slavery to my Master. I have done things I not only would never have considered doing before, but I have begged for them. I am the better for all of it and wouldn't change a thing.

slaveish -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 7:40:29 PM)
Hey Troll, this was something I just experienced a couple weeks ago. I was absolutely NOT going to do anything that involved cutting or blood ... but guess what? The dynamic between Master and my sister and me was such that I had total trust in what Master was doing, my sister held me and sang to me, and everything was just fine. Master wasn't cutting for the sake of cutting (he doesn't want to scar his property), and there are a couple of other things he said he will do (things that are hard limits for me) when the time is right so that in my mind I will ~know~ I have surrendered and that he is my Master. It makes perfect sense to me and I have come to accept whatever it is he wishes me to do. I know he will not harm me, I trust him, and so I have discovered that I have no hard limits with him. It has been a very positive experience going from submissive to slave, an easy and natural transition.

gypsygrl -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 7:44:15 PM)
As soon as I decide I have a limit, I become obsessed with it and cant leave it alone until I've crossed it. I do it to myself. I don't need anyone pushing me. They're like scabs that have to be picked.

AquaticSub -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 7:52:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll How many of you adhere to your hard limits? How many have been pushed into a hard limit and were glad they did? How many have been pushed into a hard limit and suffered because of it? We adhere to our stated our hard limits pretty well. Those change though. For a long time dirty talk was a hard limit for me. Now it's a huge turn-on and I really crave it. Tying me up and leaving me alone (with him nearby of course) was a hard limit, now we love it. We just keep tabs on things and our limits change. I don't know if I'd say he's ever really pushed a stated limit because every time we decided to test the waters on something we thought was a limit, we did so after talking about it.

FukinTroll -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 7:56:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ckmidmodom A dom myself and arrogance is nothing more than an attempt to hid the fact that you are probably out of shape, physically unclean and only have been able to lure a few fat bitches who aren't sure who they are into your web. Huh?

AquaticSub -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 8:00:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll quote: ORIGINAL: ckmidmodom A dom myself and arrogance is nothing more than an attempt to hid the fact that you are probably out of shape, physically unclean and only have been able to lure a few fat bitches who aren't sure who they are into your web. Huh? That was my thought too... I think he's jealous of the troll sex appeal. [;)]

FukinTroll -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 8:03:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub That was my thought too... I think he's jealous of the troll sex appeal. [;)] Methinks he doth not know the Troll is holy.

missturbation -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 8:06:23 PM)
Nup nup nup you have to complete your act of contrition before becoming holy Mr Troll [:D]

AquaticSub -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 8:12:10 PM)
I have so missed something... damn finals

missturbation -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 8:17:11 PM)
I wish i'd missed it too if i'm honest. Oh my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended Thee And I detest all my sins because of Thy just punishment But most of all, because I have offended Thee, oh my God Who art all good and deserving of all my love. I firmly resolve with the help of Thy grace To confess my sins, to do penance, to amend my life, And to avoid the temptations of evil. There ya go though according to the great Madonna an act of contrition goes something like that. It's why mine is yet to come [;)]

AquaticSub -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 8:19:19 PM)
Oh religion... By the way, if Troll becomes holy, will he can able to cure sores by touching them?

mnottertail -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 8:23:13 PM)
well, he has to do the ones by his penis first Father Fridgen

FukinTroll -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 8:25:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Oh religion... By the way, if Troll becomes holy, will he can able to cure sores by touching them? The Troll is holy, i.e. Trollism. I heal by Slurp!

missturbation -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 8:25:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub Oh religion... By the way, if Troll becomes holy, will he can able to cure sores by touching them? Oh crap i don't know. Bang goes my plans to become a nun and all that. Personally i think he'd prefer to develop stigmas, he could wank a different way then [:)] Edited to add : slightly distasteful comment there - sorry if it offends. See this is why my contrition is never good enough god damn it.

dawntreader -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 8:28:05 PM)
Don't they make a creme for that? LOL!

mnottertail -> RE: Adhering to hard limits (4/11/2007 8:48:42 PM)
Now that you mention it, I believe there was a Balm in Gilead-------- Isaiah

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